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Love in Hindsight -- When Should You Go Back for a Do-Over?

Here's how it typically works: 1) I'm in a bit of a romantic rut. 2) I happen to see a name on ...

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8 Non-Sexy Halloween Costumes That Guys Will Still Go Nuts Over

Halloween, how I have grown to loathe you! As we get older, it becomes less of an opportunity to ...

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All I Really Want in a Girl Is Nothing (Are My Standards Too Low?)

Often I think to myself, You know what, [Redacted]? You're a really simple guy with very basic ...

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Dating Disasters -- What's Fixable, and What's Unforgivable

If it's stupid and embarrassing, I've done some version of it on a date ... and have had to do some ...

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Of Course I Like You -- Here's Why I Don't Want to Date You

You may have read the series on platonic friendships over at Slate that I felt compelled to write ...

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Can 'The Secret' Get You Laid? [Redacted] Guy Investigates

Look, Lemondrop readers, I'm in a bit of a romantic slump. OK, fine, "slump" might be a small ...

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The Rebound Relationship -- Why 'Damaged' Doesn't Mean 'Doomed'

There are so many things that stand in our way in the quest for love that it's an absolute miracle ...

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The Truth About the Friend Zone

If there is one throughline to all the emails I get from readers, it's the "Friend Zone." People ...

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So You Hate His Mom, Sibling and/or Closest Friends? How to Cope

Long before she was married, my sister brought home a tall, successful lawyer ... who happened to ...

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[Redacted] Advice -- Our Anonymous Dude Answers Your Letters

Dear Readers, The mercurial swamp creature who edits this column suggested last week that it was ...

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Fortress of Solitude -- Are More of Us Getting Stuck Alone?

I've learned a lot over the course of writing this column. Readers don't care for wedding critiques. ...

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Conversations About Women (With My Boyhood Self)

In the Hebrew faith, a boy becomes a man on the day of his Bar Mitzvah. For me, this was patently ...

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I Now Pronounce You Annoying -- Wedding Trends That Need to Go

This past weekend I went to a really great wedding in the mountains. The bride and groom were wed ...

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With Apologies to Salt-n-Pepa -- Let's Talk About (Oral) Sex, Baby

DISCLAIMER: This article is about fellatio, or, if you're British, willy polishing. If the thought ...

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10 Things Women Do That Men Love

Oh, hey, Lemondrop readers. I'm writing to you from the Mariana Trench–level depths of a ...

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