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Luv Coach Q&A: Rebuilding Trust {BV on Love}

Mar 5th 2010 7:38PM Dear Vivian, Wake up and smell the coffee as Dear Abby used to say. Your husband is lying to you. He is having an affair with the 20 year old. It's excruciating, a great shock to your central nervous system, and a bigger one to your mind which will begin to go back through your history to recall times when they might have been together, he was late, or whatever. This is part of the process. Here is what there is to know: you will survive it. You need some support, so talk to your friends, see a therapist, your minister, any of all of them. You will be terribly confused hating your husband one minute and loving him the next. If I were you, I'd tell him to move out for a while so I could clear my head and decide what I wanted to do. Don't let him make the young woman the villain. He's the adult here; at 20, or whatever age she was when it started, she's naturally immature. I'm not condoning her behavior, far from it, but am making the point that it was your husband who should have drawn the line. He's the one who's married, and he's a grown up or should be. He has the years to understand the ramifications of his behavior. If you decide to try to repair the marriage, you must make it clear that you will never tolerate this kind of behavior again. Best of luck. You will get through this and you will be stronger someday in the place that was broken by it. Be very loving to yourself as you go through this process. It will take months, my dear, maybe longer. Sending you love.

Brad Pitt & Ryan Reynolds Circle 'Gunsmoke' Remake {Cinematical}

Feb 7th 2010 9:16AM Anybody but Brad Pitt. He is the world's worst actor. Wooden, wooden, wooden. Yes, he's good looking but so are lots of other guys who can act. I wouldn't walk to the corner to see Brad Pitt act. For example, how many memorable lines did he blow in his embarrassingly bad performance in Inglorious Basterds. The thing about Pitt is that he keeps getting worse instead of better. Ryan Reynolds can act and he's a great looking guy. Tom Selleck is beautiful and a fine actor.

The Women in the Tiger Woods Scandal {Popeater}

Dec 2nd 2009 10:07PM And in a surprise twist, Angelina Jolie instead of Brad Pitt is reported to be jealous of Tiger's affair with Jennifer Aniston.

More Women Emerge Claiming Affairs With Tiger Woods {Popeater}

Dec 1st 2009 9:42PM Jack, you are an idiot, and just because you are a man and an idiot, it doesn't make all men idiots. Some women are undoubtedly gold-diggers but that doesn't make all or even most women gold-diggers. However, if you are repeatedly encountering the gold-digger type, you might want to change your lifestyle, upgrade it, hang out in more upscale venues.

Love Advice -- My Boyfriend's a Cheating Fool {Lemondrop}

Nov 3rd 2009 7:06PM My advice: First - You have to decide if you can stand the lying and the cheating. You have for 12 years, so maybe it's yes, maybe the rest of the relationship give you enough happiness to make that part of it tolerable. Second - Is your boyfriend addicted to cheating and lying and sex? If you think the answer is yes, if you think he gets a charge out of it, a rush, the kind of feeling that keeps him going back to re-experience it, then you have to decide if you want to be with a guy like that. A guy addicted to outside sex. If what he gives you makes you happy enough, then maybe the answer is yes, you'll keep him. Third -- you have to look at how he uses women and ask yourself if he is using you. Guys with sex addictions have a steady (the Saturday night date) girlfriend, and the others are on the periphery. You're the Saturday night date and you are an important part of the package. If he didn't have you or someone like you, it wouldn't be cheating and lying. It'd be running around. which means he's using you. If you think he's using you, then you have to ask yourself if what you get is enough to allow yourself to be used by him. The current thinking is that a guy who cheats with different women is a safer bet than the guy who has a long relationshp with one other woman. So maybe if the women are different, none are long-term, then maybe you'll keep him. Fifth - and here's the hardest one. Does this behavior show up in other areas of your relationship? I mean, does he lie to you about anything else? Assuming the sex thing is an addiction, are there other addictions? Is he drinking? Overeating? Doing drugs? Runing up credit card debt? How stable is he? You have to look at the whole man -- his job, his relationships with his family and friends, his stability, etc., to form the full picture. Do you want to have to use a condom with the man you love for the rest of your life? If it were me, and I've been there as you can probably tell from what I've written, I'd dump him unless I really loved him, thought he really loved me and was clear about that, and he wanted to get over his problem, wanted to stop lying and cheating because they make him feel bad. If he agreed to counselling just so he wouldn't lose you, that's no concession. In the end, after much heartache, I dumped my cheating lying man. It took a long time for me to heal, a long time for me to stop missing him, but the benefits of it were immediate. I am happier, more productive, less stressed and no longer angry. Cheating and lying damages us, and healing has to follow it. Good Luck! Know you are not alone, and that the decision is yours and his. Know that you deserve someone who treats you right. You do. Go find a man like my Aunt Gertie found with Uncle Bob. He adored her. Every night when he came home from work, he took her in his arms and told her how happy he was she was in his life. He made love to her all the time, even when they were old, he cried longest at her funeral; he was very very good to her.

Elated Angie Wows 'Basterds' Carpet {Popeater}

Aug 12th 2009 10:56AM Yeah, Jennifer french-kissed her brother on tv, wore a vial of blood around her neck after she stole Laura Dern's man, is mutilated all over by tattoos, seduced a husband and got pregnant really fast in order to trap him and more. You can find no one, save the kiss and tell John Mayer, who has anything negative to say about Jennifer Aniston; she is highly regarded in her profession, is one of the wealthiest women in Hollywood, is always making her next film. You can find very few in the business who have positive things to say about Angelina except that she is a talented actress. That she is.

Elated Angie Wows 'Basterds' Carpet {Popeater}

Aug 12th 2009 10:46AM It's not about her looks. She's a messed up young woman and is taking Brad Pitt down with her. They're like watching a trainwreck.

Gay Kids? No Sweat for Brad Pitt {Popeater}

Aug 9th 2009 10:44AM Brad Pitt is not being brave with these comments; he is trying to drum up publicity by saying something controversial. He knows that any kind of publicity, good or bad, will help the sales of his movie. I doubt if Brad Pitt can actually think for himself. He strikes me as always scripted. Even the shyest, most inarticulate athlete is a better speaker.

Gay Kids? No Sweat for Brad Pitt {Popeater}

Aug 8th 2009 5:17PM That they are not married is not the issue. That they are role models for young people is the issue, and they are dreadful ones. Couldn't they have waited a little bit and gotten together without treating the former Mrs. Pitt so brutally? Was that necessary or called for? We pay them fortunes, can't they give back a little better? Lying and cheating is not good behavior to model. Neither is sleeping with a married man and getting pregnant right away. It looks like you're trying to trap him. Adopting kids immediately adds to that image. They started their foundation on lies and cheating. I doubt its stability. Brad is trying to put a good face on it; he wants us to go see Inglorious Basterds.

Aniston's Fine With 'Lonely' Rap {Popeater}

Aug 4th 2009 10:55PM Great to see her looking beautiful and doing well after the painful breakup with her beloved Brad. Anyone who has ever gone through anything like that knows how much it hurts. But he revealed himself in that and what he revealed was not worthy of her. It's the old sad story of the the handsome man married to the girl next door who is seduced by the vixen who then gets pregnant right away. The man, then, trying to show the world he is not the cad he is, takes up with the vixen except in this case, she instantly enmeshed him in a web with six kids. Jen, he is a dope. You are better off without him. And even though you probably still love him because that's what we women do, we love those losers, I hope that someday soon you can see that he didn't deserve you. You are entirely too sane for that loser.