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A Love Letter to Lemondrop Readers -- [Redacted] Guy Says Goodbye {Lemondrop}
Jan 20th 2011 11:50PM oh man thats sad your not doing this any more i love reading your stuff it really puts me in a good mood b/c its so funny but to bad good luck with every thing.
I'm Asexual (and Why It's Not That Bad Not to Want Sex) {Lemondrop}
Nov 19th 2010 3:23PM to eggs
if you try you can find some one and be happy with it will take a lot of work on you part to make it work but you can do it dont try to be in a box with every one els b/c God did not make you to be in one so dont fit with every one els find some one that fits with you
Heartbreak -- A Short, Useful Guide to Avoiding the Crushing Blow {Lemondrop}
Nov 17th 2010 12:15AM hi erica rae i know i maybe the last person that should be telling you what to do or the way you should do it but you say you dont know what to do. so let me tell you this it dont matter what age you are you can get hurt i would know trust me i have been there and done way more in my life then you have im shure of this so i know i can say what im going to say and know its the truth.
you will never get away from hurt but it is up to you the way you dill with this hurt i know its hard for you but the thing is no matter if your strong you can fall and you just need to get up and keep going b/c the time will come when you must know wether you are going to let them win.
i know that it seems like evey thing is comeing at you as hard as it can and i know this b/c at one time i was just like you ever one hurt me in every way that thay could think of and i just could not fight back for so long untill one day i got up out of bed and was wayting for another bad day to be over.
my friends would tell you i am one of the strongest people thay have ever known but it toke me a long time to get this way, to get to the point that i could stand and spaek for myself i have done many thing im not happy about and i know you dont want to keep going the way you are right now so stant up for yourself stop takeing the pills and stop leting your mom and you dad hurt you and dont let this boy stomp on you like you trash b/c you not.
if any one is trash its him not you, i had a boyfriend like yours at on point in may life and i rember what i said to him to this very day and i rember just like it happend yester day one day i got to the point that i was shure i was done with him and i told him that we needed to talk so to make a long story short ill tell you the last thing i ever said him i planly told him look its over b/c its not me really its you and i took in all of that hurt painfull look on his twisted ugly face smilled wacht him cry for a bit and done a nice sexy walk as he lookt at my ass for the last time knowing he would never see it or me again.
and for months i got mad angry calls and i even had to chang my number and i moved so that i could get away from the guy i herd from a old friend that he still says we are together and we are not but he is now the one that is brocken not me, not me for a very long time now and it feels good to know that im not the one that is in pain any more.
so what im telling you to do is keep you head up and dump his sorry ass b/c you can do better than him, you sound like a vary sweet, smart young lady and you will some day find some one that is worthy of you but sweetie its not this boy hes a bad person and you dont want to be with some one that is going to put you through what he alretty has. please understand that he will only get worse and if he is upset by you going out with other guys even though your not with him it may get very hands on if you know what im saying.
and as for your mom and dad i know what your feeling i rember that when i was about 13 my mom and dad spleet up and i did not talk to my mother for 6 years b/c she left and in that time my father had come into are home with every trashy women he could find and i was to look to the women as a mother and wach there kids for them when he would do god knows what with them i done as he told me for years and throughout this time he would drop me at my grandpas house for weeks at a time and my grandmother never liked me.
i would stay up all night and some times days wondering why nobody ever wonted me much less love and one day i come to the fact that the only person in my family that really cared for me was my grandfather but later in 2009 he past away from the cancer he had fought for years and shortly after that i as my family says lost it its not like i dident do things befor that but i got much worse and it toke a really bad time in my life to wake me up all the way.
my family done may thing and there are things i still cant talk about to this day but let me say this get some help from some one that can help you please it would be a sham for the wourld to loss a nice young lady like yourself and like i said i may be the last person that should be trying to help you or tell you what you should do but i think you need to do some thing like talk to some one that can help you with what you are faceing at this time.
and again please stop with the pills and tell that guy to go and get lost if you tell him it will be for the better i think any way and i hape that you will be just fine and make it through the your hard times.
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good luck
Why Men Are Really Addicted to Porn -- Do You Buy This Theory? {Lemondrop}
Nov 12th 2010 5:01PM i know you must be strest about your guy doing this so let me tell you its not your prob some times is hard for people that have been raped i would know b/c i have been hurt maybe not in the same way but know it takes a lot of time to get over it and that being said you cant make him chang.
it is pointless to try if he is not at the point of wanting to chang b/c when it comes down to it if he loves you he would at lest try to see it from you point. if you cant be at lest some what happy with the person you are with than dont be with them b/c if your not closs and you feel like its to much than your not really with him and you should walk away i know that walking away from some one you care about is one of the hadest thing to do but some times you really need to just that, and your guy will never get over it but that dont mean that he needs to hurt your feeling the way he has.
i dont know what he thinks love is but thats not it and there is no need to push for sex take time to tell him that if he loves you he will try not to do this any more and see if takeing sex out of your life with him will help even if it is hard for you. it seems like this guy meens a lot to you so if you feel like he is worth it go for it girl and try to make it work. but if you can't walk away b/c there are a lots of guys out there and most men would love to have a women that wants to be all over them
as for men that are way to into porn get the hell over it come on if you want to do some of the things you see in porn ask the girl your with and see if thay want to try it but man up and stop with the bull***t b/c women really do get hurt by the fact that you cant come to them and say baby i need to talk to you.
guys did you ever think that women want to have sex stop say i dont want my women to be a thing ok so thats good women are not things to you but every know and then a women would rather have sex just to have sex and not have the man thay are with spend his time on porn and not them.
i know lots of women and most of them will tell you that thay just want to be next to the guy thay love i dont know if you have ever walkt in on any women smelling a mans clothes or been there when thay ask why the man that thay love is woching porn but let me tell you this much it is some thing that will kill you to see when you see a women or even a man cry b/c thay think that thay have done some thing wrong to make the person that thay are with to jack of to porn rather than just have sex with them.
yes even women wach porn and the person that waching porn may like it but what about the person that thay are with do you know what it must feel like to them, for them to think that thay cant keep the other happy in the bed room its sad to see a person cry b/c of some thing as dum as porn.
to the the women that wach porn even men will cry if that are hurt my this and ya for some people that are together porn may work but for every body els it hurts like hell and even people that dont have lowself worth get upset by the ones thay care for or love takeing porn over them.
