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Maybe She's Born With It -- How Pathological Liars Are Made {Lemondrop}

Apr 2nd 2010 11:30PM To StallingWhilePensive.
I truly belive in you, and after I read this I am convinced my husband is worse than I thought. For some moments I thought I was going crazy and even after I found out about the lies, I was still asking myself about things I kept discovering, it makes worse because I am out of my home country and don’t have friends in this city yet. The last and most astonishing about this guy (my husband), just now I believe that he did this thing too: I was waiting for some medicines for my high blood pressure to come from brazil by ups. He knew I was running out of them in a few days. The box was suppose to get here in 5 days and after 15 days I finally went to the post office and they told they tried to delivery twice and left two notices. This is a safe building and each person has his own key for the mail box (my husband has the key and checks the mail every day). It did pass through my mind he found the notices and threw away, but this I refused myself to believe, after all, we get along and this would be so beyond any understanding. But now I really believe he did that and it’s scares me so much.

Maybe She's Born With It -- How Pathological Liars Are Made {Lemondrop}

Apr 2nd 2010 10:20PM Judy, I already made a post of my husband. But I did have a 5 years experience with a sociopath. I know this might sound crazy, how can 1 person be fooled twice, but I did. I dated a man for 5 years, and I thought I could help him. I only found out about his sociopaths behavior after a year. He was very aggressive towards me and did very wrong things. He would manipulate me a lot, and i believed him because I was so young at the time. After I broke up with him he stalked me, he got someone to burn my moms car, he took a lot of pills and had a seizure at my door, he threatened my life, I went to the police, but it was in my home country, nothing works much in this sense there. But sometimes it’s better you walk out of this relationship in the safest way for yourself. So I tell you, be very careful, in this case it’s not even worth to confront him, and don’t make him feel angry towards you.
That’s why I am so afraid of how I am going to walk out of my marriage. Because a person like that may became aggressive when are confronted. So far I found out lies about his story, about his work, but who knows if there’s more behind that?
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Maybe She's Born With It -- How Pathological Liars Are Made {Lemondrop}

Apr 2nd 2010 9:57PM My story is similar to yours. I got married a month ago, and i found about about all his lies a week ago. Everything about his past, his work, and those little lies, eveery single day. I just put all the pieces toguether and i haven't confronted him. I am about to just walk away because i am afrais of his reaction. He was never aggressive, but a few times that I questioned him about things i didin't get it, he used to get very nervous and her behavior scares me, he stares at me and wouldn't say nothing, or make up another lie to cover up. Few days ago, i got very nervous, he said he was about to have a nervous breakdown, and walked out of the room, went to the bathroom, slammed the door, acted very weird, i was scared and afraid of him.
I think the right thing thing to do would be help him to seek professional help, but (i just have a feeling) that he might me very, very upset the day i challenge him in all the stories, and i don;t know how would be his reaction. I read that some people may became violent when confronted like that. Because know I know for a fact that is all lies.
I am very confused about the best way to handle this, taking in consideration I am care about my own safety.
If someone has a similar story or opinions that might help me I aprreciate.