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How Breakups Affect Self-Concept {Personal Articles}

May 8th 2010 10:32PM My now ex had it coming so to speak. For 4 months, he was treating me badly, and I constantly gave him a pass because his father was terminal. On the last day I saw him he spent about 20 minutes telling me that I was a disapointment because I wasnt cleaning his apartment that I stayed in 2x a week while we were both visiting his father and trying to keep our own things kept up...
his mother was a drama queen throughout all of this. I understand what it is like to lose someone dear, and he treated me as if I had no clue about anything pertaining to 'what he was going thru'
there were times he appeared manic, was nasty for the sake of being nasty, I over looked it due to his fathers impending death.
I ended up in december becoming very ill, tired all the time, thought it was depression, until my aunt noticed a lump in my neck. Turned out I had thyroid nodules, and going through what is known as a thyroid storm.
I left him a letter the last time I saw him, basically telling him to stop being a dick. That I couldnt take it anymore, and to stop being so disrespectful of me. Instead of taking it as a heads up he was being an ass, he said 'fine leave'....his father died the next day and he couldnt be bothered to tell me. I found out from the nursing home when I went to see him.
I finally got my non cancer diagnosis, but not before he berated me further, saying he wouldnt fix anything with me because I wasnt there when he needed him, at his fathers funeral. I was hospitalized that day for a severe anxiety attack, again he said it was inexcuseable, and he couldnt look at my face without thinking of his dead father, like I KILLED HIM.
Here ex, take these lithium pills, and get on the couch, your enabling shrink, and your mucked up mother are all you need.
Sometimes you know its over when that person is so caught up in
themselves, they forget someone else is there too.

4 Ways You're Sabotaging Your Relationship {Personal Articles}

May 8th 2010 10:16PM way to go tony..how long ya been single?

Workplace Bullies, Women and Leadership -- Nut Up, Ladies {Lemondrop}

Mar 12th 2010 10:14AM I work in a predominantly male environment, so far get along with everyone, EXCEPT one guy. He had the balls to place 4 inch deck screws in the fingers of my work gloves. I 'manned up' and didnt report him to my supervisor. Instead I watched as he looked like an ass all by himself in front of the super complaining about something he 'thought' i did wrong, when in fact the supervisor knew he was lying. I no longer work in the same area as him, and I love my job. Sometimes things have a way of working themselves out. Other times, I say get in his face and tell him to go fuck himself.