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Reader Advice -- How to Get Over Your Ex {Lemondrop}
Feb 18th 2010 9:15AM Good points leolux10. Your comment on it only being as strong as you both are really put my last relationship into perspective.... I was the only one fighting for it. What a waste of energy!
Reader Advice -- How to Get Over Your Ex {Lemondrop}
Feb 18th 2010 9:13AM I think a combo of these things is necessary... and not ignoring your sadness. Cold turkey is good but if you need to dwell at time, go ahead and dwell. It's important to acknowledge all your different emotions—throughout all aspects of life might I add—and let yourself enjoy, or at least express, them.
I had my heart trampled on by the guy who I know I had the strongest connection with. Part of me still thinks he's the only one I will have that connection with—it was very intense and unavoidable—and therefore never find a connection like that again.
Oh well... I guess I'm willing to trade that soulmate drive for someone less emotionally and verbally abusive...
Germans Stink in Bed, Literally {Lemondrop}
Sep 30th 2009 10:49AM I've been with a couple Englishmen. They are not necessarily lazy, but it always was a bit more boring. And yes, the roughest guy I've ever been with was American. But there was a lot more to it than just sex. Hmmmm...I think this is an impossible generalization!
Germans Stink in Bed, Literally {Lemondrop}
Sep 30th 2009 10:47AM They are talking about them smelling... literally.
Relationship Whoa -- Love Kills {Lemondrop}
Sep 29th 2009 3:38PM Where do I even start?? You want the "had one night stands behind my back for two years" or the "verbally and emotionally abused" story first?
He Said/She Said Advice -- Would You Date an Ex's Friend? {Lemondrop}
Sep 29th 2009 3:29PM In my opinion, the hardest part of your situation is dealing with the rejection of her moving on so fast. No matter who ends the relationship, to watch (or know of) them moving on so abruptly hurts the most.
My ex of only a year (though it was an INTENSE year) recently met someone new a few months after breaking up—but only a few weeks after we last spent time together. It stings.
I think the most important thing to acknowledge is how easily you can be replaced. And who wants to be with someone who can so easily fill that void. At least for me, I want someone who could never replace me that easily…
