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Science Disproves Men's #1 Excuse for Cheating {Personal Articles}

Jul 19th 2009 3:04AM i have been tempted many times. i am one of the few men who experience being chased by women. men do not grow up having experience with being harassed or seduced by a woman. women learn from the age of four that they will be pursued. i should know i was the 4 year old chasing them. and soon i learned that women could pursue too. at the of 11 i learned i would be pursued. harassed by 12 year old sexual aroused female bullies. my male friends rarely experienced what that was like. so, as men came to adulthood they were only prepared to control their urges to chase a woman. that is what they were prepared to handle. what happens is the unsuspecting. and if you are not aware of your weakness (a man being able to say no when he is pursued) then you will fall prey everytime. i am aware that i can be chased; therefore, i am prepared for when a woman approaches me. which makes me less likely to cheat unlike my average brethren. woman cannot understand this because your world is based on fighting men off from the age of four (i actually started chasing women in day care). because you come from that mind set you cannot understand how a man falls captive and cannot "see" it coming. to change the subject for a moment - women have a tough time understanding the man that seems to be aloof. you have no idea how to deal with that man that does not pursue you. another story but the point that each gender has a view that clouds how they approach being prepared for cheating. to sum it up in one word, self awareness. men are not aware of how week they are. women know they can seduce almost any man. especially a married man. i may get a ring just to help my game. i mean, dating life.

Science Disproves Men's #1 Excuse for Cheating {Personal Articles}

Jul 18th 2009 3:45AM i always agree a man that seeks out women is missing something inside his soul. but what i am talking about is the unsuspecting man who is trounced by the temptress. the women do not take no for an answer and the man was not aware that he would have to say no. he never knew he would be the pursued. he was only prepared for not being the person who approached or chased women. not the other way around. and the temptress knows that.

Science Disproves Men's #1 Excuse for Cheating {Personal Articles}

Jul 17th 2009 8:49PM Khrystal-
show me a man that can turn beautiful woman down after beautiful woman and i will show you a gay man or a priest. and i h ave more faith on the gay man in todays world. anyway you miss my point, if a man knows he is weak, he will take the necessary precautions to be strong. men assume if they do not pursue a woman they will be safe. how many of your beaus actually can say they have to be careful not to excite the opposite sex?

Science Disproves Men's #1 Excuse for Cheating {Personal Articles}

Jul 17th 2009 6:54PM All the studies in the world does not refute the fact that men are drawn to the act of sex, for the mere sake of it, devoid of emotion. now i have many guy friends who are able to control their desires or almost behave like they do not have any desires. anyway these are my clues (although i cannot explain it) on why it makes it "difficult: for a guy to be faithful:
any i know not every guy is like this but we are the drivers of these things -
1. strip clubs a plenty; and men go just to go whereas for women it is an event.
2. porn - online and in mags - mags for men dominate the industry
3. we can orgasm every time, and shamefully in seconds for some. makes sex always a pleasure
4. in that same token, running into a couch incorrectly will make one have an orgasm
5. we are usually turned on by the physical first; emotion second. women seem to need a combination and usually emotion is first.
6. men sleep with ugly women - some of us just need more alcohol
7. women "know" they can find a guy any night if they they just want casual sex
8. a guy knows if he wanted random sex when he wanted it. he would probably have to pay, get lucky or be an Adonis with money and quick wit.
9.there is a reason why prostitution is mostly for men's pleasure - straight and gay
10. i am not aware of any known whore houses in Nevada for women
11. men are the pursuers. i can count on my hands the number of women that have asked me out and i am above average to other men in being chased by a woman. how many guys can brag about being slapped on the butt? i meant complain, not brag (point 11a)

so what i do not understand is...
How we can all say there is differences sexually yet in the same vein we should be the same when it comes to being committed.

so with that all said, I do believe men should be faithful. we jsut ened to approach controlling ourselves differently so if he wants to be faithful, do not leave your woman's side if you are good looking and if you must leave her side, do what women do, tell her anytime a woman hits on you. it helps trust me or why else do the women in my life tell me their beau knows of me while they secretly call and email me. i know i will never chase a woman if i am in a relationship i am just not sure i can say no to woman who tries to seduce me. i have not learned to say no - at least not to a halle barry look alike, fat ones i can say no problem. i didnt have to learn to say no i was always tryingto get women to say yes. i guess that could have been point#12

Are Men Really More Promiscuous Than Women? {Lemondrop}

Jul 17th 2009 6:29PM All the studies in the world does not refute the fact that men are drawn to the act of sex, for the mere sake of it, devoid of emotion. now i have many guy friends who are able to control their desires or almost behave like they do not have any desires. anyway these are my clues (although i cannot explain it) on why it makes it "difficult: for a guy to be faithful:
any i know not every guy is like this but we are the drivers of these things -
1. strip clubs a plenty; and men go just to go whereas for women it is an event.
2. porn - online and in mags - mags for men dominate the industry
3. we can orgasm every time, and shamefully in seconds for some. makes sex always a pleasure
4. in that same token, running into a couch incorrectly will make one have an orgasm
5. we are usually turned on by the physical first; emotion second. women seem to need a combination and usually emotion is first.
6. men sleep with ugly women - some of us just need more alcohol
7. women "know" they can find a guy any night if they they just want casual sex
8. a guy knows if he wanted random sex when he wanted it. he would probably have to pay, get lucky or be an Adonis with money and quick wit.
9.there is a reason why prostitution is mostly for men's pleasure - straight and gay
10. i am not aware of any known whore houses in Nevada
11. men are the pursuers. i can count on my hands the number of women that have asked me out and i am above average in being chased by a woman. how many guys can brag about being slapped on the butt. i meant complain, not brag (point 11a)

so what i do not understand is...\
How we can all say there is differences sexually yet in the same vein we should be the same when it comes to being committed.

so with that all said, I do believe men should be faithful. we jsut ened to approach controlling ourselves differently so if he wants to be faithful, do not leave your woman's side if you are good looking and if you must leave her side, do what women do, tell her anytime a woman hits on you. it helps trust me or why else do the women in my life tell me their beau knows of me while they secretly call and email me. i know i will never chase a woman if i am in a relationship i am just not sure i can say no to woman who tries to seduce me. i have not learned to say no - at least not to a halle barry look alike, fat ones i can say no problem. i didnt have to learn to say no i was always tryingto get women to say yes. i guess that could have been point#12