Lemondrop

There's Nothing Wrong With Being 'The Other Woman' {Lemondrop}

May 27th 2009 2:29AM I never thought I was the kind of person who would hook up with someone who was married but I did. We worked together. He was unhappily married with a new baby and not a clue of how to get out of an impossible situation. I was newly single, kinda lonely and in desperate need of some positive affirmations. He made me feel loved, important, happy again. I did feel guilty about what his wife would feel when she found out. I had been in that situation myself and knew full well the hell she was in for. Long story short, she found out and ended the marriage. We stayed together for 6 years before we married (I thought if he did it to her, he will do it to me too, but he never did!). We will celebrate 20 years together this summer. Am I proud of how I came to be with my husband? No. Never will be. But I am so glad that I did. He is truly a blessing in my and our kids life. BTW-his daughter came to live with us after her mother got remarried. She's a great kid...and ultimately gave us a great grandson! I would have never guessed that it would end like this but like I said, I am truly blessed.