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50th State Passes No-Fault Divorce Bill -- But Is It Good for Women? {Lemondrop}
Jul 11th 2010 7:20AM OMG......and now tell me why and how it will be that my husband (soon to be ex), gets to not bring home a paycheck for the last 5 years, while I am working retail to support the house. I use all of my mother's inheratance in our house......and now I get to the divorce process to lose this sponge.... And I will probably get screwed! There has to be a day when this jerk gets hit in the face with karma. "I was told that proving he cheated takes a long time and money. Even with all the evidence I have. I could do abandonment....cuz we have not had sex for the last 4 yrs. Now that NY passed no fault divorce, I think I'm gonna get screwed!!!!!
Do Cheaters Deserve a Second Chance? {Lemondrop}
Jul 11th 2010 7:03AM As a woman who has been cheated on my advice is this...... A person will only stop cheating if they want to confront what the real issues are. They may want to stop.....but the issues that caused them to cheat are still there if not addressed. The fear of breaking down the inner wall is scarey for them. My marriage of 9 yrs is over for this very reason. Years of sorries and counciling can not help a relationship if the TWO parties are not willing to dig deep and confront issues. So my feeling is not that "once a cheat always a cheat".....but rather "we can only move forward if we are willing to confront our past".....
The Most Inappropriate Gifts We've Received {Lemondrop}
Jul 11th 2010 6:55AM For my last birthday, my bf got me some scratch off tickets. They were also four days late....lol We are still together and he knows better for next year :)
There's Nothing Wrong With Being 'The Other Woman' {Lemondrop}
Jun 11th 2009 10:46AM Once a cheater, always a cheater... This is a saying that, if you asked me three or so years ago, I would have disagreed with you. However....time has told me that it is true.
It is not always the man who cheats, I know. It happens to be my situation though. He cheated before we were married, and continued to be dishonest throughout our 8 years together. He slept with someone one week before our 5 year anniv!
I read a few comments and get a kick out of the people who say...there must have been a reason that he cheated....not getting it at home, etc... To those people I say this... A person who needs to escape reality and all the ups and downs of life by meeting, speaking to, texting, screwing, women/men outside of their marriage, have self help issues. They don't want to face the music, so the escape becomes...be somewhere else with someone else.
He lies... to the women he meets on line, in person, himself, and his family and me. He tells them he is single...he tells me he loves me....he tells his family he's happy... He validates his obsession as "only words".
He has an addiction to the computer also. Since the decision to divorce, he has been on the computer every waking moment. So what he was keeping a secret, is now in the wide open...
I stayed for so long because I took our vows seriously. However...if only one person tries, works, supports, then no matter how long you stay or how hard you try, the relationship is doomed. I became an enabler.
I am in the process of filing and moving. Don't think that he gets it yet. He will soon enough... When the house is dirty and gross. When there is no food in the house. When he isn't invited to family and friend functions. When the bills don't get paid. lol
and yes, I do believe..... What comes around, goes around!
Welcome to the New AIM Profiles {People Connection Blog - OLD}
May 12th 2009 10:28PM I agree with all of the posts that I have read. Half of my profile has updated info and the other half is old. It looks like I am married and single! How owuld I use my profile to start meeting other singles if it has my old info? They will think I am some kind of wacko! And where is the old member directory. I don't like chat rooms or message boards....miss the directory!
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