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A Love Letter to Lemondrop Readers -- [Redacted] Guy Says Goodbye
Time flies when you're single and drunk. And I have to say, after 60 some-odd columns that ...
How Not to Handle the Holidays -- A [Redacted] Guide for Single People
Here we are betwixt Thanksgiving and New Year's, the meat of the forced-festivity sandwich. (A bit ...
Love in Hindsight -- When Should You Go Back for a Do-Over?
Here's how it typically works: 1) I'm in a bit of a romantic rut. 2) I happen to see a name on ...
How Long Do You Get to Be 'Not Over' Your Breakup?
What's healthier: Still bringing up your ex five-hundred moons after you broke up with him, or, say, ...
I'm Bored. Wanna Date?
If variety is the spice of life, then routine is the local anesthetic. At first, it dulls the ...
8 Non-Sexy Halloween Costumes That Guys Will Still Go Nuts Over
Halloween, how I have grown to loathe you! As we get older, it becomes less of an opportunity to ...
All I Really Want in a Girl Is Nothing (Are My Standards Too Low?)
Often I think to myself, You know what, [Redacted]? You're a really simple guy with very basic ...
Dating Disasters -- What's Fixable, and What's Unforgivable
If it's stupid and embarrassing, I've done some version of it on a date ... and have had to do some ...
Of Course I Like You -- Here's Why I Don't Want to Date You
You may have read the series on platonic friendships over at Slate that I felt compelled to write ...
Can 'The Secret' Get You Laid? [Redacted] Guy Investigates
Look, Lemondrop readers, I'm in a bit of a romantic slump. OK, fine, "slump" might be a small ...
The Rebound Relationship -- Why 'Damaged' Doesn't Mean 'Doomed'
There are so many things that stand in our way in the quest for love that it's an absolute miracle ...
The Truth About the Friend Zone
If there is one throughline to all the emails I get from readers, it's the "Friend Zone." People ...
So You Hate His Mom, Sibling and/or Closest Friends? How to Cope
Long before she was married, my sister brought home a tall, successful lawyer ... who happened to ...
[Redacted] Advice -- Our Anonymous Dude Answers Your Letters
Dear Readers, The mercurial swamp creature who edits this column suggested last week that it was ...
Fortress of Solitude -- Are More of Us Getting Stuck Alone?
I've learned a lot over the course of writing this column. Readers don't care for wedding critiques. ...
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