Lemondrop

Amber Adrian

Stay Sane Staying Single, When All Your Friends Are Married

Being the ninth at dinner parties, the fifth at brunch, and the third at the matinee can be awkward. ...

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Why I Quit Looking for Love Online

I don't even remember his name. I hardly remember his face. He was wholly unremarkable, and yet he ...

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Excising the Word 'Dating' from My Vocabulary

Some words make me twitchy -- words like trivial, chignon and, yes, dating. "Dating" has become the ...

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My (Realistic) Plan to Meet Someone New: Always Say Yes

Wouldn't it be nice if you could Google "my next boyfriend" and his name, age, interests and the day ...

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Dating Pitfalls and How to Avoid Them (Hint: You Can't)

Do you know how many silver cars are speeding merrily through stop signs right now? Well, I'll tell ...

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Clean Shower Tile, and Other Ways to Tell If It's Love

I have no game and, if I really like someone, am likely to embarrass us both. It's an unfortunate ...

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When Fishing on Craigslist Yields a Nice Halibut

For my 30th birthday, a friend sent me tickets to a David Sedaris reading. I couldn't think of any ...

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You're Over Him (Mostly). So Now What?

Losing love is like listening to your favorite radio station while moving out of range. The love is ...

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How Much Would You Pay to Avoid Talking to an Ex?

"It's dead." The Apple store employee plunked my beloved pink iPod down on the counter and tugged ...

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Falling in Love Again -- With Hope

My favorite part of being single is walking into a coffee shop, putting my hands on my hips like a ...

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Digitally Haunted By an Ex

As I walked out the door the morning we broke up, I deleted my ex's numbers from my cell phone. A ...

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Endings Are Really Beginnings, and All That Crap

We planned to start trying for a baby last fall. But our relationship was already spiraling slowly ...

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