Unless you've been hiding under a rock bigger than Kate Middleton's engagement ring, you kinda-sorta must know she's engaged / in line to the throne.First we asked: Would you want to inherit your mother-in-law's ring? But the talk soon turned more morbid: Is it, you asked on our Facebook page, bad karma for Kate to sport the very ring Will's mom, Princess Diana, was wearing when she died?
Plenty of people are arguing that this is pure malarkey: She's a beautiful girl, it's a beautiful ring, love is a beautiful thing. In their first television interview, Wills and Kate put their views of the ring (and their future) like this:
Kate: "I just hope I look after it. It's very special."
William: [For Kate] "it's about carving her own future. Nobody's trying to fill my mother's shoes."
But others have suggested this particular sapphire is nothing short of a curse.
Here's a snippet of what other Lemondroppers had to say:
"Maybe I'm superstitious, and not to be disrespectful to the Princess's memory, but wouldn't it be bad luck to wear the engagement ring symbolizing a union that crashed and burned as hard as Diana and Charles?" -- Kristen
"I'm no believer in curses, but that ring just wreaks of failed, loveless marriage." -- Leonie
"Couldn't agree more with many of the comments above -- that William did a beautiful thing by honoring his beloved mother this way, and Kate was right to accept it. William said in an interview that this was how he made sure Diana was included in this special moment in their lives. As someone whose mother is gone too, I completely understand his feelings. If someday my future husband were to give me a family heirloom, I would happily wear it." -- Melissa
"Well, it depends on who my mother-in-law was! I mean, seriously, it's Princess Diana. Of course I'd wear her ring! Duh! Besides that, it's a beautiful gesture for William to give his future wife the ring his mother wore. Is there no romance or beauty left in the world?" -- Jen
"Um ... I would except in this case not only did they divorce ... she's dead. And not regular dead ... tragic dead." -- Sarah
"It just seems a potential minefield to wear the ring of a woman who is either still living, or who is in living memory. What if you inadvertently make a comment about the taste of the ring's original choose? Or lose it? Or choose not to wear it the way mother did?" -- jessikast
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Thursday 18 November
By Lis
You are confusing karma with luck. They are not the same thing. To answer the question at hand, no. The ring is an object that means a lot to her fiance. If anything, it is honoring the memory of his mother. (I would personally be honored.)I think that anything else is a moot point. If they get divorced, it will have nothing to do with her having worn the ring of a dead divorced woman.
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Thursday 18 November
By lily
Some of the comments above are just down right weird "What if you inadvertently make a comment about the taste of the ring's original choose? Or lose it? Or choose not to wear it the way mother did?" its a ring, you put it on your finger what other ways can you wear it? or the comment from sarah "Um ... I would except in this case not only did they divorce ... she's dead. And not regular dead ... tragic dead." so she irregular dead? American education system hard at work. I am sure if you look hard enough, you can associate some tragedy to every single piece of jewelry out there. Not my taste but his heart is clearly in the right place and who knows maybe she said she likes sapphire rings, or family heir looms.
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Friday 19 November
By Mary
what difference does it make to anyone anyway. It's is entirely between Prince William and Kate. If it's ok with her, then let it be.
Thursday 18 November
By Fifthpocket
If my mother in law had passed away, I would be honored to wear her ring. Especially if it meant a lot to my fiance, and my mother in law had been a kind and benevolent person.
That aside, if my fiance gave me PRINCESS DIANA's engagement ring, I'd be pretty thrilled.
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Friday 19 November
By Friday
You are blessed to have a nice mother in law. Mine is a selfish, mean old woman.
Friday 26 November
By Nilza Ivone
I agree with you. Princess Diane loved her sons, and I am sure that she
it is so proud of Prince William, and that she will be looking down protecting
him and his bride from above. I wish them a hole life of happines, unlike
his father a disrespectful man that was always unfaithful, and destroy the
life of a beautiful young Princess, to later married an awful witch...
Thursday 18 November
By AC
I don't believe that she was wearing that ring when she died. She was already divorced from him by that point and was no longer wearing it on the fourth finger of her left hand. We must remember if it were not for that marriage, no matter how it turned out, there would be no William. I would be thrilled to receive a ring that had belonged to a special family memeber for an engagement ring. I think it is perfectly wonderful that William gave it to Kate and wish them a lifetime of happiness.
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Friday 19 November
By Yooper71
I wonder how Prince Charles feels about seeing the ring constantly now. It's not besetted with the best of memories and even though he's super stoic and unreadable, it's must be kind of awkward. My vote stands in favor of honoring Diana's ring for a special occasion but getting a ring that stands for Kate and Kate alone would have been wiser. Everything I read calls it Diana's ring (I even did). I hope this stops here or is she wearing D's wedding dress, too. J/K. I wish them all the best. I'll be front and center watching the wedding and rooting for them, but this is a haunting start, for me anyway.
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Friday 19 November
By Suezq
Your so right.. She really should have her OWN ring.. These are very public ppl and everyone will make comments about bad things happening because it was her ring.. But she loved her boys and is smiling down from the heavens because he gave her the ring! Best of luck to that happy couple!!
Friday 19 November
By shirlo
When I first heard that Prince Wiliam gave his intended bride his mother's engagement ring........I thought, OH OH...not good. Am I superstitious? indeed, Yes. Although, I think it is a loving gesture on Prince William's behalf, I would have much preferred that Kate Middleton was given her OWN engagement ring. But that's only my opinion..........God Bless both of them and we wish them a happy marriage.
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Friday 19 November
By celeste
YOU would have preferred Kate had her OWN engagement ring !! She does... she has the ring that William gave her and they are both happy with that decision.
BTW.. did she call and ask you what she should do???
Friday 19 November
By shang
If this ring is so great, why didn't Charles give it to Camilla?
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Friday 19 November
By montana
Because it was Harrys after his Mother died it belonged to Harry.
Friday 19 November
By KayDf9
Why didn't Charles give it to Camilla? Oh please. And, it was not Charles' ring at that point to give -- it was Diana's, and passed on to her son.
Friday 19 November
By D
Ignorant comment!
Friday 19 November
By katgirl
It would not fit Camila at all. Charles probably loathes the ring. He is the one with the bad karma.
Friday 19 November
By Katgirl
The ring does not fit her at all. The ring belongs to her son. His giving it to his bride is an honor. Charles nor Camila would not use the ring, because they dishonored Diana.
Friday 19 November
By EMM
Because when Diana died, the ring was given to Prince Harry. When Prince William decided to get engaged, he asked his brother for the ring, which Harry then gave to William. The ring was part of Diana's jewelry not owned by Charles/
Friday 19 November
By isa
Because he divorced her and her sons inherited her belongings. Besides, he would be a cad (well, he is anyway) to make the biggest insult possible by giving his first wife's ring to the mistress who had no respect for someone else's husband!
Friday 19 November
By Mrs. T
Do you think Camilla would have wanted this ring, knowing it was given to her
lover's wife first? I don't think so.