When Pete and Alisha Arnold found out they were expecting, they were overjoyed. Right now, they're waiting to see their new bundle of joy -- unless the public votes for the child to be aborted. While you scratch your head and scream, "What?!" the Arnolds, who are both tech professionals from Apple Valley, Minn., have been blogging since September about their pregnancy and asking their readers to vote on whether or not they should keep the child on Birth Or Not.
Their reasoning? Since abortion has been a life-or-death issue in America for years, the couple are giving people until Dec. 7 to vote on what is one of the biggest decisions in the Arnolds' lives.
"Voting is such an important part of who we are as a people," Pete told Gawker. "Here's a chance where people can be heard about whether they are pro-choice or whether they are pro-life, and it makes a difference in the real world."
After the polls close, the couple has given themselves 48 hours to decide whether or not to abort. That night is right before Alisha's 20th week of pregnancy ends, the latest she could legally abort the baby.
The Arnolds, who have been married for 10 years, have been trying to get pregnant for some time but have experienced two miscarriages in the past year and a half. However, now that they're pregnant with a baby boy again, they say they're not sure if they're completely ready to become parents.
And they won't use polling alone to make a decision. "It's kind of like Congress," the couple said. "[The people] might vote for something, but the president has the final veto. If it's overwhelming one way or the other, that will carry a lot more weight."
According to a recent check, 46 percent of voters are telling the Arnolds to keep the kid while 54 percent are telling them to have the abortion. But the notorious message board 4chan has hacked into the poll a few times and tilted the vote to the abortion side, which Pete just brushed off with a, "people do silly stuff all the time, and their votes get counted anyway."
Stay tuned to Birth or Not to see how the rest of this story unfolds.
Meanwhile, we'll be sitting here wondering how long it takes for them to realize their true dream: a reality show.












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Thursday 18 November
By lulu
This is just sick. For the record I am pro-choice but I think it is a serious life changing decision to have a child or not and random Internet users should not have a say in what a couple decides. What terrible people these are, leaving this decision up to strangers. I don’t think these people should be allowed to have kids because they are fame hungry selfish freaks. I hope they have the kid and give it up for adoption so that the child can grow up in a home with responsible adults who can make their own decisions. Articles like this make me want to live an isolated life on the top of some mountain rather than be aware of people like this couple. Rant over.
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Thursday 18 November
By Jenna
I agree that this is sickening. I am pro-choice, but when a couple is married and has actively been trying for a baby, aborting it because you realize that you're "not quite ready" is absolutely ridiculous, and selfish to boot. Very few people who are having their first babies are actually "ready" for babies, because having kids is a world of unknowns, no matter how much experience you have babysitting or nannying or anything of that sort. This isn't exactly something you can change your mind on...it's another human being! And then to attempt to get a popularity poll for the decision...It makes one want to smack them upside the head to knock some sense into them!
Thursday 18 November
By Kate
There are a ton of typos and grammatical errors in this! Yikes!
"The Arnolds, who have been married for 10 years, have been trying to get for some time but have experienced two miscarriages in the past year and a half. " to get what...pregnant?
Also:..."they say they're not sure if they're not sure if they're completely ready to become parents."
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Thursday 18 November
By Katie
all the controversy in this article and THIS is what you get upset about?
Thursday 18 November
By Katie
all the controversy in this article and THIS is what you get upset about?
Thursday 18 November
By Angie
If you don't want to risk having a baby you are not ready for, don't spread your legs. It's not that hard. Don't fix your "mistakes" by murdering the innocent life.
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Thursday 18 November
By Jennifer Cannon
Bloody idiots, the pair of them. It's their choice. If they can't decide on their own, they don't deserve to be parents. No doubt this will turn out to be some stupid publicity stunt, probably to make some political 'point', but my opinion stands. IDIOTS.
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Thursday 18 November
By Judy D.
This is profoundly F-'ed up. The right to privacy is what made legal abortions possible in the first place. The private decisions of you, your partner, your doctor, etc. is what's guaranteed under the constitution. The key word there is "private."
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Thursday 18 November
By sara
Somebody needs to tell this couple that pro-choice doesn't necessary mean pro-abortion. I'm about as pro-choice as you can get, but that doesn't mean that I go around yelling at pregnant ladies, telling them to get an abortion. I think parents should decide for themselves, since it's going to impact their life, not the lives of thousands of random internet users.
And if they're creating this poll just to feel better about possibly wanting to have an abortion, they need to get over themselves and do some serious maturing before that poor child arrives.
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Friday 19 November
By Amy
I am pro-choice, but this is just stupid. Sara just about said exactly the way I feel about this.
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Thursday 18 November
By Joy
Pity the poor little boy if they decide to keep it. These people are selfish idiots.
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Thursday 18 November
By Jenni Williams
I am pro-choice, but this is just freaking SICK. Part of me wants to say, yeah don't have the baby, because you people are so stupid you shouldn't procreate. I keep hoping it's some kind of horrible joke.
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Thursday 18 November
By Theda
Wow. Just wow.
I am proudly Pro-Choice, and people like this make my blood boil. All they are doing is giving Pro-Life proponents ammunition.
I hate to go all tin-foil hat, but I wouldn't be surprised if these people were Pro-Lifers masquerading as Pro-Choice in an attempt to make us look like heartless monsters.
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Thursday 18 November
By Tabitha
Hmmmm. I think that it is interesting to hear the anger that everyone is having towards this couple! Wow, how emotions control us! It is obvious that this couple is merely making a commentary! They aren't allowing people to choose for them, they will make the choice themselves. They are merely requesting the public to vote on something that is outside of the box. This is a very creative way to get people to think!!! Maybe the choice to have children or not should be put to popular vote...
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Friday 19 November
By Jennifer Cannon
Tabitha,
Using your child's life to make some sort of convoluted 'commentary' is kind of sick, don't you think? Particularly considering that the woman has had two previous miscarriages and is now on bed rest due to the stress that she and her husband have brought upon themselves with this 'outside of the box' stunt they've pulled.
Thursday 18 November
By Brad
I call bullsh*it. This reeks of almost the exact same scenario/couple that happened almost a year ago where the girl was demanding moeny or she would have an abortion.
...then come to find out she was never pregnant and it was all a scam...
Sounds like just another attempt at another scam media grab to me.
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Thursday 18 November
By Lissy
I think no matter your political stance, everyone can agree this is sick.
I hope they don't abort the baby and instead give it to a couple who deserves to have a child.
I like to think of myself as a pretty open person. But by golly these people are freaks.
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Friday 19 November
By Lissy
I think no matter your political stance, everyone can agree this is
sick.
I hope they don't abort the baby and instead give it to a couple who
deserves to have a child.
I like to think of myself as a pretty open minded person, but golly these
people are freaks.
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Friday 19 November
By Eric
Abortion of the unborn is wrong because the innocent child doesn't have a chance to fight back. However, I am inclined to support abortion of these two idiots. And unlike them, I would be merciful to them. We all would get to vote on whether they get "aborted" and then when the vote tilts massively toward pro-death, they would get a chance to voice their opinions on why they deserve to live. And hey, I would even be willing to give them a head start.
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Friday 19 November
By Eric
Abortion of the unborn is wrong because the innocent child doesn't have a chance to fight back. However, I am inclined to support abortion of these two idiots. And unlike them, I would be merciful to them. We all would get to vote on whether they get "aborted" and then when the vote tilts massively toward pro-death, they would get a chance to voice their opinions on why they deserve to live. And hey, I would even be willing to give them a head start.
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