It turns out the stereotype that men sit around complaining about their mothers-in-law isn't as sexist as we thought. Apparently, women can't stand their mothers-in-law either.According to a new survey by iVillage, a majority of women would rather clean their house than visit with their MIL, and many of them would rather do some other really, really unpleasant things. Fifty-one percent of the respondents would rather stay home and dust their tchotchke than have to listen to their partner's mother, and 36 percent would rather take a trip to the gynecologist. Not to be outdone, 28 percent would rather do taxes or have a root canal.
28 percent of the total respondents also reported having a "terrible" or "bad" relationship with their MIL. No kidding!
According to iVillage's chief correspondent, Kelly Wallace, women have a hard time getting along with their mothers-in-law because they don't want to listen to somebody judge the way they raise their children and deal with their husband. In fact, 76 percent of those polled said they would never ask their mother-in-law for parenting advice, and 83 percent said the same of relationship advice. (94 percent will not be asking for sex advice from their MIL any time soon. That's a relief.)
Forums have sprung up across the Internet for people to vent about their mothers-in-law, the topic is quite popular on iVillage, and websites like Mother-in-Law Stories give women the chance to share their nightmares and ask for advice from experts on how to deal with an out-of-control MIL. The worst part? Some of the stories seem to justify the results of this survey, doing stuff ranging from throwing around candy like it's an Easter parade, to insulting a woman's womb.
What's your worst mother-in-law story?












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Monday 18 October
By kim
Glad I got lucky enough to have a nice mother-in-law.
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Monday 18 October
By kelle
ME TOO!!!!!! even though i divorced her son we still have a very good relationship. She doesnt like her son's current wife. What makes it really bad that he allowed his current wife to get her AZZ beat by his siblings. And the woman still stayed with him regardless. Ive moved on with my life the only thing that bonds us together is our son.
Monday 18 October
By theresa
i agree my mother in law is really awesome i don;t understand how anyone could have problems with there mother in law,
also my husband had a great one too, everyone gets along great the way it should be.
Monday 18 October
By JOAN
My first husband was a SB. So was his mother.
My second husband was the best thing that ever happened to me.
He was the best, and so was his mother. Think there's a connection???
Tuesday 19 October
By Tina
Your not the only one I have the best mom inlaw going. She's like a second mom to me ... My real mom passed in 1981 so she's been there for me when ever I've needed her..........................
Tuesday 19 October
By Donna
Kim, AMEN!
Tuesday 19 October
By Pamela Collins
I have a WONDEFUL mother-in-law who passed away in March of this year. She was an absolute saint. My father-in-law is fabulous as well. Both have been a blessing in my life. I can't imagine better in-laws anywhere on this planet.
Monday 18 October
By Kim S.
I WISH I had a good MIL. Shes is SATAN! At First we had a wonderful relationship, but as soon as my hubby put a ring on my finger, she went NUTS! ahhh The stories I could tell, your mouths would DROP!
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Monday 18 October
By V
Are you sure you're not talking about my ma..hahahaha!!! My mother gave orders to the Devil...
Monday 18 October
By lisa
My MIL flies around on a broom! No that is an insult to witches....lol I think if I would have really considered having to deal with her this long, I may not have married my husband.
Monday 18 October
By Candy
Same thing happened to me. I married her first - when he asked me to marry him and I insisted that we tell them before vacation, she actually asked me to not come on the family vacation. I had taken the time off work and everything and out of the blue, this. That was just the beginning - it went seriously downhill for the next 20 years. That is when I said no more - leave me alone and I will leave you alone - no more contact.
Tuesday 19 October
By nick
If we got both sides of the story she could tell some real good ones about you too numb nuts.
Monday 18 October
By ToniBella
Oh man Kim, that's awful. I think mother's see their son's wifes as competition for some reason.
I'm fortunate to have a good one. She has ways about her that I don't like and I think she treats her other son better than she does my hubby but over all she is a nice person. I think the fact that we now live in different states helps us out a lot too.
Monday 18 October
By Cari
As soon as my hubby put a ring on my finger he turned into an abusive monster! I loved his family--including his mom and siblings. But he totally changed as soon as we were wed and then I learned about the lies. HORRIBLE experience and I got divorce finalized that same year THANK GAWD!
Monday 18 October
By No 1
Mine was Satan too !!!!!! We should share some stories. After having the MIL I had, nothing would surprise me.
Monday 18 October
By Christine
My mother in law is awesome.
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Monday 18 October
By gwefra
I made the mistake of using "Me' in a sentence instead of "I" one evening at the dinner table and my mother-in-law started beating her spoon on the table screaming, "Honey, honey, honey.! It's Linda and I. Linda and I. Not Linda and me!" . My husband and my father-in-law just dropped their heads and stared at their plates until she stopped ranting and raving and beating her spoon on the table. I got up and walked out of the room. . The following year when she came for her yearly two week visit she brought me a present. A grammar book. She told me she didn't want me to embarress myself in front of my friends. My husband doesn't understand why I don't like her much.
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Monday 18 October
By hattie54
Your hubby sounds stupid.
Monday 18 October
By dawn
many years ago, the Queen of England was visiting in Canada. She spoke to the people saying "My husband and me wish to thank the Canadian people for, etc..." I still can't believe it.
Monday 18 October
By Mike
Well frankly you needed to be told. I'm sorry she wasn't more tactful about it.