Whether it's bumping into someone when getting on the train to stopping an argument with a significant other, it seems that women are always the first ones to say "I'm sorry."
While some of us are just being knee-jerk polite, two new studies actually suggest that we're more likely to apologize in most situations than men -- only not for the reasons you might think.
Scientific American, take it away.
A study that monitored the conversations of 66 male and female subjects over the course of a 12-day period found that women said "sorry" significantly more often than men. However, researchers who also asked subjects to report mistakes and offenses they'd made during that time period discovered that women reported more than their male counterparts. Translation: It's not that women over-apologize, it's just that we commit more gaffes.
But, wait.
A second study asked male and female participants to rate three social offenses on a seven-point scale, and those researchers found that women consistently rated all three social offenses as more offensive than the men did.
In other words, next time he tells you, "But I didn't do anything wrong," you might want to consider that he really does believe that.
Sep 28th 2010 By Emily Tan
Surprise! Why Women Apologize More Often Than Men
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Wednesday 29 September
By Kalee
There is one area in which there is no excuse for lacking in proper etiquette. Money management, which is the area that both men and women suffer equally in giving proper attention to. But to help there are some great sites out there, my personal favorite is Save Creatively, just type that into google and the first site to pop up will take you to a world of free samples and great money saving tips.
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Friday 01 October
By j
The 'translation' is kind of wrong. It's not that women commit more gaffes, it's that they _think_ they commit more gaffes. This is the whole issue with self-reports in research!
-a social scientist and faithful reader
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Monday 18 October
By kitkat
I say sorry alot. Once i said sorry for saying sorry!:)
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Thursday 11 November
By a male
Women are stupid. they complain, never know what they want, lie about everything ( and yes leaving out the parts you dont want him to know IS telling a lie) and they dont shut up. Useless as mothers now a day when theyre at the club while the infant is in the car seat outside and they cant do anything physical other than shop and talk..OH they can start %^&* like a chamo cuz they love drama when they say they dont. UNLIMITED DOUBLE STANDARDS!
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Friday 19 November
By Billy Goat Gruff
Trolley troll troll go back to your bridge fool