If you're a single parent looking for a partner, you probably want someone whom the kids love as much as you do. But can their criteria (carries chocolate, doesn't believe in bedtimes, likes bunnies) really help you find somebody?Perhaps! After a string of bad dates with guys she met online, British widow Charlotte Morgan decided to let her 11-year-old daughter Zoe and 9-year-old son Will choose her dates.
Thankfully, kids are pretty intuitive, because the selection process Morgan's kids used relied mostly on looks. They sifted through photos looking for guys with "nice smiles" and "kindness in their eyes" (why are we thinking of the "Mary Poppins" nanny song here?) before finally settling on Guy Bolam, a divorced father of one. The kids liked that Guy was pictured on a motorcycle (kids love biker dudes?) and that, as Morgan's daughter Zoe told the Daily Mail, he "just seemed to fit with mummy."
Sparks flew, and within nine months Bolam was ready to propose. And so far, they're living the fairy tale in a medieval farmhouse in England.
Regarding her decision to let her kids choose her hubby, Charlotte said, "When they are involved in choosing their own stepfather, they certainly can't moan about him." Ha ha, just wait till they're teenagers, Charlotte.












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Thursday 23 September
By Mari
Um, it says in the original story you're linking to that the woman's husband (and children's father) died in an aircraft crash, they weren't divorced.
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Thursday 23 September
By Lisa
If you read the story it said the new husband was divorced with one child. ") before finally settling on Guy Bolam, a divorced father of one" It clearly states that mom was a widow.
Thursday 23 September
By Leslie
Not to be picky but the headline says the kids found their widowed mom a new husband online. The new husband is the one who was divorced, not the mother of the two children who found the new husband.
Thursday 23 September
By Angie
If you read the article, he (the guy the kids chose) was divorced- not her.
Friday 24 September
By Barbara
Mari... it stated SHE was a widow...he was divorced in BOTH stories!
Besides I think this story is lovely!!! And sometimes the brains of adults just gets in the way. Good going kids!
Thursday 23 September
By shanedieselblack
What a SHALLOW way to pick someone!
This stupid article deserves some spam in the "Comments" section. Come on, spammers! Where you at?
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Friday 24 September
By jennie
SHE didn't pick the guy HER kids did. they are 9 and 11!! of course the kids will pick based on looks, but kids are more intuitive than adults are. how could you call it shallow?
Friday 24 September
By Donna
Actually, I have alot of respect for a woman who will put her children first and allow them to have such a roll in choosing a partner for her. So many today put the boyfriend or new husband ahead of the kids. Its a sad situation when you see a child trying to cope with a jerk their mother fell in love with. Ive seen it happen...... nothing more heart wrenching!
Friday 24 September
By just me
I keep hearing these sites are just bootie call sites lol.
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Friday 24 September
By just me
why delete my comment. They advertise bootie call. Look some up. lol
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Friday 24 September
By judy
This gal should put her efforts into her marriage and not into gitting the fathers children involved with her fluzzy high jinks with other men. Shame on her.
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Friday 24 September
By Mari
Yeah, actually the original article was actually titled "Aww... Kids Find Divorced Mom a New Husband Online." They changed it after I posted my comment.
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Thursday 30 September
By Charlotte
Thanks for doing that Mari!
I wish you all as much happiness as I've found online (or rather that the kids found me!)
Still can't quite believe our luck!
Charlotte x
Friday 24 September
By patriot1too
She is just anouther deadbeat manipulative so called mom who should be involved with her marriage and not draging the fathers children into her deadbeat mom fluzzy man hunt.
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Friday 24 September
By jennie
you do realize patriot1too that the 9 and 11 year old are the woman's kids. their father die, after online dates, gone bad she decided to let her kids choose for her. how could call this mom manipulative and a floozy? again, children are actually the best judge of character.
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Monday 04 October
By Margie
Can people not just leave this woman alone and wish her well, so what if the kids helped her find a "man" big deal! She seems very happy and so do the kids...people are so shallow and cant just be happy for someone without making snide and rude comments!
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Monday 13 June
By PHASE3JRL
I wonder how she (or anyone) would let the kids find her a husband. Not to mention that they're only 9 and 11. It sounds pretty odd to me. And what will happen if:
1. your kids love the guy at first sight but you don't.
2. you love the guy at first sight but your kids don't
3. your kids love him first and hate him after you were married (they're kids!)
4. your kids continue to love him after you were married but you start hating him
5. your kids love him and his kids and you also love him but not his kids
6. you love him and his kids but your kids only love him but not his kids
Hey, it's hard enough for two people simply to get along and bringing another two, or more, in the decision process (especially kids) just won't work out. For instant, my good friends had tried hooking me up for half a dozen dates after I was widowed (Aug 09). None ever worked out despite no 3rd party was involved. I knew it’ll even be harder if my daughters (22 and 25) were being pulled into the picture. Couldn't even imagine if my mom is being involved!!!
To me, marriage only involves the love and understanding between two individual. As far as I am concern, children (at any age) shall only be considered an involuntary party and not necessarily involved in any decision process. Period.
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