Hate when the date is all about you? Try HowAboutWe ... It's a new site that aims to "put the date back in dating." It's only available in NYC at present, but it works by forcing users to 1) invent fun dates (How about we "have a picnic at the aquarium" / "have a wing-eating contest" / "prank call a Gamestop" ); 2) vet potential dates based on their ideas; and 3) execute said idea. You know those awkward conversational voids? You no longer have to fill them with vodka! You can now fill them with ... a sushi class. The site generated buzz at tech meetup when founders Brian Schechter and Aaron Schildkrout (both single) informed the mostly male crowd that the site is mostly female. Well, we do love a good Haunted Booze Cruise. (NYT)