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Maybe it's the fact that vacation for us means "unlimited daiquiris served by a cabana boy" rather than, say, an ice-fishing trip, but one thing's certain: Women are more likely to cheat while on vacation than men.According to a poll of people who use the website Illicit Encounters (the U.K. version of Ashley Madison), one-third of spouses who are already cheating can't resist the temptations that vacations offer, and 6 percent of those polled cheat even when they're on vacation with their spouses. Even though cheating husbands are more likely to take their mistresses on vacation than their wives, married women on girlcation with their friends are more likely to cheat than their male counterparts.
There must be something about the combination of the sun, the alcohol and the liberty of not having to listen to the sound of the man you've been with for years do his nightly, half-hour-long body-scratching routine. Our advice: If you can't keep it in your pants, maybe you should make yourself the designated driver / map reader. Or take your girlfriends on a whirlwind tour of rural Iowa -- that should shrink anyone's libido.
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Friday 23 July
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Friday 23 July
By KG
Like to know who and how many took this survey? Yes, like men, there are women that are never satisfied and believe the "grass is greener" because they need the thrill of not getting caught to keep them less bored and feeling wanted. However, what about the man that professes his wife is his best friend, and takes the mistress away on vacation with them, wife not aware until she catches them together when he suddenly causes a fight to get away from the wife!
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Friday 23 July
By AdJC
Sloww down there Tonto this is not a tit for tat thing. This is not about who cheats more. It's about who is more likely to cheat on vacation. Now while it is common knowledge that women are better at cheating than men are.( Personally I think warrant's the idea that they do cheat more.) The reason why they are more likely to cheat on vacation is simply becuase they are on vacation. They are on vacation from who they are at home, and from their life. It's just like you see the most conservitive women, then they have a girl's night out at the male strip club and the next thing you know they have some dancer's thing down their throat. It is what it is.
Friday 23 July
By bign
This is nothing new. Besides being a lot easier for women to cheat than men, I can't remember the last single woman that approached me and made a pass at vacation spots even when my wife was with me. Go walk around in a meat market nighclub and you'll find more married women than singles and they won't be with their husbands. Weird. Probably makes the few ladies who don't cheat feel left out.
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Friday 23 July
By Chastity
Just because these women are going out to a night club doesn't mean they want to cheat on their husbands. My friends and I (all married) love to go out dancing and none of us are looking for someone to cheat with. We hear this comment a great deal from the guys trying to talk to us at the bar. They all think that because we're out it means we want to hook up with someone but that is simply not it. Our kids are in bed sleeping and our husbands are tired from work...perfect time for girl time. Men who come on too strong...well, lets just say we aren't too nice to those guys.
Friday 23 July
By Li
Am I right in concluding here that they used just one (or two?) websites, and poles at that, to gather this information?
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Friday 23 July
By xbucfan
I find it interesting that you chose the spelling of "pole" (as in pole dancing) as opposed to the correct spelling of "poll".
Friday 23 July
By Barb
What a lame article. It simply compares ratios of men to women (if the scope is even valid, as some readers pointed out) and leaves out that most people do not cheat on their spouses. I'm so tired of the de-moralization of America to get a racy, attention-grabbing headliine. Single women are not in bars because they don't like the meat market approach to dating and there are not enough single men there who are worthwhile. Bars have become a place to go have fun with friends and are no longer the social network they used to be. If you men want to find a real woman, go online and take the time to talk to women about real things. Met my husband doing just that over 11 years ago.
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Friday 23 July
By cliff
people meet people anywhere. It can be bars, online, gym, airport, etc. Meeting is the EASY part. Forming a bond and relationship is the key. You met your husband online. I met mine walking by the river.
Friday 23 July
By Dony
My wife hasn't cheated for several years but intends to take lovers when we go to Key West in a few weeks.
Who cares?
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Friday 23 July
By jayhawk
You would probably have much better luck!
Friday 23 July
By cliff
So, If you wife meets a guy in Key West, you are ok with her tagging him? If you have kids, what message does that send to them? Also, why don't you take on a lover and see how your wife feels?
Friday 23 July
By Jeff
Maybe I'm in a rare marriage. I don't know. My wife and I appreciate each other so much... I would do anything for her and she for me. It almost seems like we live for each other.
We have fun during the daytime - and more during bedtime..
We love each other.
Maybe that's why we don't cheat on each other.
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Friday 23 July
By The Wanderer
well women are more likely to cheat on men anyways the only thing is they don't get caught. which is just sneaky and vile, women now and days can't keep to themselves and pretty much they're all whores, no exceptions. period. now you guys will all be like "well men are whores to" you know what yes we are, we can't help it the only thing is we don't make as much a deal about as women do and we usually don't cheat as much as the females or if we do, we do it to get caught. and you know that feel of "the grass is greener" or wanting to feel a change or more attention is just a load of bull. if you want something different talk it over wit your partner, if you can't do that then whyare you with him in the first place? talking is a hell of alot easier than people seem to think it is but it seems to be the least used method of comunication between couples. all in all to think that most women will cheat on their husbands while they think they're just gone to have some to have some fun is just sickening, apparently those little things called wedding vows that people make such a big deal out of don't meen jack to people anymore.
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Friday 23 July
By Jade
honestly, EVERYONE can help it. not every woman (or man) is a whore or unfaithful to their partner. it sounds like you're bitter because it happened to you.. but its happened to a lot of people (myself included) and its not fair to generalize. All it comes down to is not putting yourself in a situation to cheat, and if you are... its not that hard to say no. I've never cheated on my husband, nor has he cheated on me. and i do find it sad that vows mean little to most nowadays. it shouldnt matter if you're on vacation, you still have your spouse/partner, and your life together to go home to. its not like vacaton makes you a different person... at the end of the day, you're still you and have to live with yourself and your actions.
Friday 23 July
By DD
I think this article is sad in a way to hear that woman would cheat more on a vecation then a man.. And that na man would rather take there mistress to a vecation then there wife or girlfriend. Its sick maybe thats why my boyfreind of 5yrs wont even have a vecaction with me and even married me.. This sucks!
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Friday 23 July
By LOL
maybe he won't marry you because you're uneducated? ever hear of spell check? get a dictionary and a read a book. make youreself more attractive by having self respect about your grammer lol.
Friday 23 July
By Oren Mavro
@LOL ...
LOL@YOU(!!!)
first. You're a huge a-hole. Second...how can you try to come down on this lady about sing spell-check and her "grammer".
I know some really "smart" people who are extremely unattractive...you know why? They have really tiny hearts. Having a huge Brain does not make up for that--IQ does not exceed Emotional IQ in the scheme of a relationship.
Thats why most "intelligent" people are either miserable (and/or), single or childless. They're too smart for their own (love life's) good, and too judgmental or persnickety.
I tend to hold onto the belief that sharing a list of favorite authors who are on the best-sellers lists (or not..ala "indie" bourgeoisie and yuppies), or knowing how to use chopsticks does not effectively indicate someone's real worth, "self-respect", nor their ability to be in and maintain a harmonious and fulfilling relationship.
Friday 23 July
By Jeannie
This is directed towards LOL, below: It's spelled, 'grammar'. I would think that someone who makes the decision to belittle another person by telling them they aren't educated enough to know how to spell correctly would double check their own spelling before submitting their mean-spirited posts. I won't even start with you on the subject of punctuation.
The article: I don't really understand the point of taking a survey about which gender cheats more while on vacation, when it's already determined that all of the participants are actively cheating anyway.
Friday 23 July
By Mike
Well, I am just one guy with one opinion but I find myself to be happily married and would never consider cheating on my wife. Or for that matter even trying to build my ego by trying to catch another woman's attention. We met at church, serving God together, getting to know each other before dating and waiting until we were married to have sex. Yes, unfortunately the divorce rate in churches isn't much different than in the rest of society. But, if Both husband and wife put God and their spouse before themselves and BOTH strive to have a marriage that is God honoring, cheating and divorce will never be an option. It is too bad that God is no longer a integral part of most American's lives today. Look were removing God from every part of life has gotten us!
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