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You know all that stuff about how it's better to give than to receive? Not, apparently, when it comes to orgasms. In addition to reporting more sexual satisfaction than selfless lovers, selfish lovers also report having more satisfied partners, according to a new study. Weird, right!The study, conducted by Kwantlen University's psychology department, took 30 couples age 18–25 and 30 couples over the age of 30 and asked them to fill out a questionnaire. While some of the results weren't too surprising (i.e. 18–25-year-olds are having sex for reasons of "self-focus" like "I'm horny" and "sex feels good"), what was surprising was that the younger couples expressed a higher degree of sexual satisfaction in their relationships, even though the folks from the over 30 set said they spent more time during sex focusing on their partner's needs.
Perhaps it's because the younger couples are made up of two people who are just trying to get theirs, or perhaps the reason they're more satisfied is because it's nice to have sex with somebody because they actually want to, rather than have sex with somebody because "Crossing Jordan" is a rerun again, so may as well. What do you think?
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Saturday 26 June
By Shirl
regarding giving and recieving:
In my opinion, regarded by many men as pure hogwash, but still quite pleasant, men can keep their oral sex. I would much rather give than receive.
As most women are aware, every man claims he is "The world's Greatest Authority" on giving oral sex; most actually believe it.
Guys! umless you have a womans physiology and emotional wireing, you have no idea. And in the heat of the moment, Im not ready to stop and teach you.
I might consider a training session un related to an ongoing lovemaking session..actually that might be pretty hot. hmm.
For my guy, a tip. Just accept that I love going downtown and enjoy it. Tip two A little etiquette applies: If we're in a house, take off your pants; I hate feeling like we just met and were outside a bar in a car and your pants are around your ankles. its nicer to be able to get between your knees. tip three Shut off the TV. "Honey move you head i cant see the TV and David Ortiz is at bat" will get you bitten. Tip four, if you expect a second blow job tonight, dont eat garlic at lunchtime.
All for Now, Ciao Bello
Shirl
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Friday 09 July
By jan
that is a fact. i would rather go down on my man than anything. the pleasure i see he gets from it turns me on more than anything. it don't hurt that he taste good. i like him doing me which is surprising cause hes real good at it and at my age its hard to find men that are good at it.