If at first you don't succeed at finding the man of your dreams, try and try again. Then try twenty-one more times. According to a new poll the average woman dates 24 guys before she settles on one (hey, we said "ON.") She'll also spend about $3,000 in the process. Some women had been out with as few as two guys, but some said they'd tried upwards of eighty. So maybe you haven't been unlucky in love -- maybe you're just nearing "Mr. 24." (WDSU)
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Monday 03 May
By Susie
I dated one man, and have been married to him for almost 54 years. I found my perfect mate first try, and couldn't be happier!
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Monday 17 May
By sunny
God Bless You susie !!!! pray for me
Monday 03 May
By Michelle Symonds
Wow. At the time when I dated, I was fat AND ugly. Within 5 dates in 9 days, I was engaged to the guy. We married in less than 4 months. That was almost 28 years ago. We are still married and wouldn't want it any other way. But, 54 years!! AWESAOME -- and congrattulations!
Monday 03 May
By gk
Great. So the 'average' woman has served as a mattress for 24 guys whose sexual health history they have no knowledge of and I'm supposed to be interested? Yuk!! Yet another reason to stay single - and healthy.
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Monday 03 May
By LOLA
what a negative attitude - perhaps you are one of the UGLY one's or FAT one's who is jeleous.
SAFE SEX should be practiced regardless - so you can be with as many as you want
Monday 03 May
By m
Dated 24 guys does not mean have sex with 24 guys. I've dated more than 24 guys, and believe me, my number is nowhere near that high.
Monday 03 May
By AP
Hey GK,
In reference to your comment about women "serving as a mattress" to 24 guys... maybe I'm a bit old fashioned, and I'd like to think some of us (both women and men) are, but I certianly don't sleep with every guy I date! Not even close! Do you?
Tuesday 04 May
By b
Hmm so if women sleep with more than one man she is rendered a slut or as you put it "unhealthy" but what is that man considered? Is he not serving as a "mattress" for that woman as well since he went to bed with her as fast as she went to bed with him? We never question men's responsibility in sexual matter but will chastise any woman if she does even half of what any man does when it comes to sex. Nice to know that nothing ever changes despite the year.
Monday 03 May
By KC
Um, "dating" is not the same thing as "sleeping with". The 24 men dated sounds about right, but as far as sleeping with, I'm still counting on the fingers of the first hand.
Monday 03 May
By Katie
The article said dated not screwed. I didn't have sex with every man who asked me out to dinner and a movie. Maybe all the women in your world are slu!s, but not in mine.
Tuesday 11 May
By sassy
DATE not 'laid herself out for'. Guessing you sleep with everyone you date? YUK to YOU!!
Tuesday 04 May
By 1NON-BLONDE
REALLY? Is that your perspective? Wow! I agree with others that "dating" certainly does NOT mean sex. If you do, that may explain a LOT of what's behind the bitterness in your comment.
That said, I SINCERELY hope you can dig out from underneath your darkness and find the happiness that awaits you, if you will give it a chance.
Best of luck...and change the bitter scenery.
Monday 03 May
By tommygirl173
Seriously, if you think that in order to date someone you have to have had sex with them, then I feel sorry for all of those you get in the sack. I'm married, and I dated a lot of guys. I made out with a lot more. I waited until I was married to have sex. I don't think you have to do that either. It's a personal choice, but dating doesn't equal sex.
Monday 03 May
By Alena
It says DATED not SLEPT WITH!!! I don't know how you date...but for most it's dinner/drinks/movie etc not hopping on his lap so to speak.
Monday 03 May
By Jen
What a jerk! Did you read the article? Oh, I know you are the guy that expects sex on the first date and then bad mouths the girl that does it, yet really bad mouths the girl that dosen't. Grow up, the article said dated not had sex with.
Monday 03 May
By Mike
Average of 24 boyfriends? No wonder there's so many Valtrex commercials on TV.
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Monday 03 May
By Linda Stanley
Lola needs some spelling practice.....and the Valtrex things is a riot -- although men should use protection.
Monday 03 May
By Kari
I am married to the man of my dreams and I found him on the first try :-) so glad I didn't have to search through 24!!!
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Monday 03 May
By Valerie
gk - dated 24 men does not mean "had intercourse with 24 men". Most women do not have intercourse with most or even any of the men they date. That's just for TV. -Happily married
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Monday 03 May
By karenione
Lola does.