If, like us, you're always looking for somebody else to blame for your loneliness and breadstick addiction, it's a good news day for you. Two new studies show that not only are parents responsible for how you look, they may have a hand in whether or not you ever find true love.
Recent research shows that we have less control over our tendency to overeat, our general body shape, and how much it "wants" to weigh -- because those factors are heavily influenced by genes.
If that's not reason enough to call your mother and scream, "I HATE YOU! I HATE YOU! I HATE YOU!" try this on for size -- the genes from your parents can also determine whether or not anybody will ever love you.
A study by the University of Western Australia recently determined that a woman's romantic success is highly dependent on how different her mother's genes were from her father's. Genetic variance has long been considered desirable in mating, and apparently, men can tell if a woman's major histocompatibility (MHC) genes are too similar through the smell of her sweat and her appearance.
So you could totally luck out and get a killer metabolism from your mom, but if your dad's DNA is too much like hers, you still might not able to find a partner? Well, at least you won't gain weight when you're sad-eating a whole pizza.
Of course, before you reach for the Häagen Dazs, outside factors like behavioral conditioning and environment also have an effect on your relationships and cup size, but it's far easier to blame your parents when a guy doesn't like the way your sweat smells.
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Friday 19 February
By linda
FOR YEARS I WANTED TO BLAME MOM FOR HER OLD FASHIONED IDEAS THAT SEEMED TO RULE MY LIFE, BUT I FINALLY WOKE UP AN REALLY REALIZED MY LIFESTYLE IS OF MY OWN CHOOSING. SO PEOPLE LET MOM ALONE. YOU HAVE YOUR OWN MIND.
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Friday 19 February
By Lois
why are only mothers mentioned in the headline? You get genes from your father too. Everyone always says blame your mom--it's your mom's fault -- hey, you have 2 parents who both contribute to your genetic makeup. Let's let the fathers take some hits too.
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Friday 19 February
By Punching Bag
I resent my mother because she beat me and abused me. I don't need any other reasons...
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Friday 19 February
By Smoove
This article is more than a waste of electronic space, and time....wtf! who GIVES a sh*t. This article is almost as bad as those STUPID eHarmony ad's for losers that don't have social skills.
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Friday 19 February
By Annie
So how would this explain identical twins oreven just siblings who have the same parents and someare thin others not so thin some married others single- this article is a bunch of crapola
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Friday 19 February
By originlcin
Or maybe you have a horrible personality. Perhaps its from spending so much time as an adult still worrying what mommy thinks of you!
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Friday 19 February
By Amanda
My parents looked like brother and sister, but somehow I'm not alone :)
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Friday 19 February
By Tracie Smith
Guess I should thank MY mom and dad. They've been married 53 years. Have five kids, 13 grandkids, and 1 great-grandkid.
By the way, my mom is still beautiful at the age of 71 years.
This article is just justifying someone's pathetic life.
All I can say is, Thanks, mom and dad. You're great examples of a great marriage. My husband and I will celebrate our 29 anniversary in June. We have four children, ages 18 years, 20, 22, and 25.
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Friday 19 February
By bait
Hey we can blame our parents for the environmental factors too. I know I have genes that give me the tendancy toward being heavier. However, eventhough my mother always bemoaned the fact that her daughters were not thin, she never really did anything to help us. She just kept buying ice cream, oreos etc. She claimed if we really wanted to be thin we would exercise some willpower. I suppose regular exercise would have helped too. However, she never would sign us up for ballet or gymnastics. All special activities were reserved for my brother. My parents always were worried about what other people thought so God forbid we might be popular with the boys or get pregnant. So while she said she wanted us to be thin, making certain we weren't (I do not think this was done consciously, they were both a little uptight but not downright mean) made certain nothing embarrassing would happen. I still have food issues but I have decided that as an adult it is now up to me. However, childhood, life-long habits are almost hardwired and therefore hard to break. This was very cathartic, thank you.
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Friday 19 February
By 'CAL'
MY QUESTION IS -
'JUST WHO CHOOSE THE PICTURE WITH JOAN CRAWFORD & HER 'ADOPTED' DAUGHTER IN IT'??
OBVIOUSLY, THE 'ADOPTED' DAUGHTER CANNOT & WILL NOT INHERIT ANY OF JOAN'S QUALITIES AS SHE IS NOT HER 'NATURAL' DAUGHTER.
IT WOULD HAVE BEEN BETTER TO SHOW AN UNKNOWN MOTHER & DAUGHTER RATHER THAN A VERY FAMOUS ONE WHO HAD A RATHER FAMOUS 'ADOPTED' DAUGHTER. WE GET THE PICTURE OF TRYING TO PALM OFF ONTO YOUR BLOGGERS THE FACT THAT JOAN CRAWFORD WAS NOTORIOUSLY FAMOUS (OUTSIDE OF THE MOVIES) FOR BEING AN ABSOLUTELY TERRIBLE MOTHER.
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Friday 19 February
By geeeeez
that had to be the worst article EVAH written !
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Friday 19 February
By Yael Dragwyla
Come next Mother's Day, how many women are going to be offed by really angry female offspring because of this article? This is as irresponsible as it gets. Yes, I am one of those women that nobody has ever loved back. Does that mean I ought to dig up my biological mother's (I was adopted out at birth) grave and abuse her corpse for revenge or something of the sort? Or just blow my brains out because my genes are bad? Come on, people, surely you can do better than *this*!
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Friday 19 February
By Arthur Brill
ok...how long did the jerk stay up that wrote this article?
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Saturday 20 February
By VicLyn
I agree...a useless article! Can you even say it's an article? Not helpful and one gender sided.
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Thursday 25 February
By cookiemonster
well thanks a lot, you just killed every ounce of hope I had from having a successful relationship. I just came from a family of divorced women and the only thing I wanted in life was to have a complete family, where my children would not feel like they were a mistake.
So thanks for ruining it..
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Friday 05 March
By Kinney84
Haha, well, my parents are from exact opposite parts of the globe, and I always had a boyfriend (and a few lined up in the wings.) I thought it had to do with my awesome sense of humor and athletic prowess, but maybe it is all sweat!
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Sunday 07 March
By milli
Now I get it...
http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=549036882&ref=search&sid=100000740798280.2188818063..1
You have the face of a person with mental disabilities. Who writes this crap???
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Monday 05 July
By wedding dresses
Ture love is far away from me! but i still look frowaord for it coming! wedding dresses
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Monday 04 October
By Nirkit
This one is really not acceptable article.............
Nirkit
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Friday 15 October
By Aditya Celebrity Homes Noida
Everyone always says blame your mom--it's your mom's fault -- hey, you have 2 parents who both contribute to your genetic makeup. Let's let the fathers take some hits too.
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