Jeanne B. is a BlogHer.com blogger who writes about fashion and style.
I've paid my dues for working the retail job.
Working retail -- specifically fashion retail -- definitely helped make me a better customer. I always hang up my clothes after trying them on, right side out, buttoned up if needed, because I've been the one who has to hang stuff back up. I was already doing it anyway, but having the experience of working fashion retail solidified it. I don't want to be That Customer, because I've dealt with That Customer, and I don't want to do that to someone else.
Both of my first non-babysitting jobs were retail. I started out as back of house for a kitchen goods store. I still can't giftwrap to save my life, but at one point, I was a Professional Giftwrapper. My second non-babysitting job was working for a small boutique in my hometown; the entire set-up was a little ... shall we say, sketchy ... but needless to say there were days where I was there from open to close, twelve hours a day, with no supervision. Just 18-year-old freshly-graduated me and the store. And all its stock.
And I will confess -- sometimes I would invite my friends over to come hang out with me at the store while I was working. If it was a quiet day (which it tended to be), we'd try on hats and sunglasses, look at the jewelry, just hang out. It was summer, we'd just graduated, we were going to college in the fall. Obviously if a customer came in they were my priority, but it was fun to say, for the first time, "yes, come visit me at work!"
My favorite thing to show my friends and urge them to try on for the hell of it? The Heatherette dress that my predecessor had convinced my boss to order... and no one ever bought. It was a Carrie Bradshaw dress -- metallic pink, raw edges, flowers and glitter, strapless and miniskirt. Thing is, in the midst of One-Dot-Oh, there weren't many Carrie Bradshaws running around Silicon Valley. That dress was permanently in the "on sale!" selection. In fact, it might still be there.
And so I have a sympathetic bent for those still working in retail: The employees who have to be the face of Awful Corporate Policy, who have to do things like shred the "damaged clothes" at H&M, or tell an autistic girl she can't have help in the dressing room. The ones who get nailed by mobs of customers on Limited Edition launch days. The ones who have to follow corporate dress codes to have the "right look" on the floor.
For more bonus reading:
Delusions of Grandeur writes about being the buyer at a resale shop, and the (swearing, shoplifting, tag-switching, haggling) customers she encounters.
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Monday 01 February
By ninam
i worked retail most of my young life. you have to have the paitence of a saint & the eye of a cop.
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Monday 01 February
By Val
I think everyone should work a retail or food server job at least once in their lives for just the reasons this author described.
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Monday 01 February
By jbjg24m
could not have said it better myself !
Monday 01 February
By mike
I've worked retail most of my adult life and it had it's share of peaks & valleys, I'm a trooper so I made the best of it and got rewarded for it in many ways. The high maintenance customers especially in the northeast come w/the territory and I knew this when I signed up for it, but it is the work ethic of today's youth that I wasn't prepped for as they walk around w/this air of entitlement & they're so miserable & cynical about everything under the sun. It's obviously a sign of the times and I'm not sure if the "hired" is the core problem or the ones "hiring" & recruiting or simply a combination of both.
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Monday 01 February
By tja
wow......you really said it all. I was a retail store manager in the infamous NE part of the USA for many years ( a very wealthy suburb of Boston with a reputation of obnoxious demanding customers)
Monday 01 February
By chas
I worked for Car Dealerships and Sears
Sears is a horror story to work for . Sears believes in part time help over full time help and pays part time people better yet expects full time peope to be responsible for part time helpers.
The worse car dealership I worked for was Hyundai .. The customer garbbed me pulled me over the counter and beat the @#%$ out of me . His Brand New Hyundai,s Transmission went and we told him we would give him a loaner . He went totally off
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Monday 01 February
By jbjg24m
u ppl should try working for that sorry a$$ Walmart for awhile and see how the employees are treated !
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Monday 01 February
By Abby
I am a new college graduate and am still working in retail. The worst people to deal with are the abusive customers; there was one woman who came into my store drunk and demanded that I help her choose clothes for her daughters' Christmas presents. After working with her for more than an hour and being criticized, yelled at, and sworn at, I was called away by another employee. She apparently forgot that I had told her I had to leave, and cornered me a while later and chewed me out for "abandoning" her. I still avoid her when I see her enter the store, and it's been months!
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Monday 01 February
By Jamie
I have worked all types of retail jobs in several states and the customer types are all the same. This type of work takes a specific skill set and not everyone is cut out to do it. I believe I excel at my job because I genuinely care about my customers and their needs. That being said, no matter how nice you are or how good at your job you may be you're always gonna run into people who just cannot be pleased. When I have the displeasure of these encounters I just smile and nod and laugh when they leave. ;)
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Monday 01 February
By Helen
I had worked retail in college and I swore I'd never do it again. But a few years ago I moved back to Boston and couldn't find a job right away. I figured while I had my resume out and working with a temp agency to find something, I'd do retail. All I could get was a seasonal job at Lord and Taylor. It was going pretty well, there were a few people I wanted to lock in the fitting room, but other than that I couldn't complain. But as Christmas got closer the customers got unbearable. One afternoon the crowd was finally dying down and I was trying to clean up the mess behind the register when a customer came to me. She had her grandchild in a stroller, screaming her head off, and a pile of dresses on her arm. She asked me if I could hold them for her. We weren't supposed to but did it anyway, and I looked next to me to see where I could put the dresses in the mess. She starts screaming at me, accusing me of rolling my eyes at her, and it wasn't her fault her granddaughter was crying. I was so shocked that this woman was screaming at me that I started to laugh. I told her I wasn't rolling my eyes at her, that was I trying to find a place to hold her crap, and I realize little children cry. So she stomped away and told a manager on me. Luckily, when I got home that evening there was a message from the temp agency telling me there was a job available for me. I quit the next week to happily go work in a mental health facility.
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Monday 01 February
By Margaret
I worked retail for a ladies upscale clothing company for several years. It was the most educational experience. I learned to keep my opinions to myself and to laugh at mean rude people. Ladies retail stores are the most interesting places to observe truly crazy insane and menatlly deranged women. I have stories of things women tried to buy, steal,and lie about that even the movies can't portray. I dealt with some of the meaniest and rude people that treated me like crap because I worked retail. They thought I was their servant there to wait on them like royality. They threw clothes on the floor, they peed in dressing rooms and changed their feminine products,left them in dressing room for all the salesclerks to have to see and pick up! Women would steal clothes and try to return them for cash without reciepts, they would buy things on sale and return them wanting full price. They would wear clothes and try to return after they had been to a party or event. The things these crazy women did was unbelieveable! The best part was they would get mad and threathened never to come in the store again if we didn't go against store policy and do what they wanted us to do (which was brake policy and MAKE an expection for them because they were such good customers- HA) we wanted them to stop coming in and stealing etc. but they would always come back and keep on with their crazy bull s**t. These were the same snotty women who thought they were too good to be polite to the sales girls and acted like they were queens... I use to love it when their credit cards were declined!!! I learned alot about the human behavior- working retail was a bit*h, the experience and life lessons were invaluable. I am a better customer today because of my days working retail.
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Monday 01 February
By Mary
I worked retail in the 1980's and the worst thing I experienced was one busy day two elderly ladies occupied me at the cash register while some caretakers brought some mentally challenged women into the department. They swarmed the racks, went into the dressing rooms and there was an overall sense of confusion. I was "kept occupied" at the register with the fast talkers (I realized this after the fact) and I have no idea how much merchandise disappeared that day. I contacted house security, after the ladies set me free and also disappeared. They were never found, they came, they saw, they stole and they left a disillusioned clerk in their wake. I could not believe caretakers trusted to care for the mentally challenged would be so brazen. I learned a lesson that day. I had a hard time trusting anyone for a long time after that,
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Monday 01 February
By kb
I worked retail for a short period of time in college. There was a lady who routinely came in and bought very expensive children's clothes for her two kids, had their pictures made, and returned the clothes. Once she had them photographed for an oil painting and the baby drooled all over the front of the outfit. The manager always approved her returning the clothes because she spent so much in other departments. If you can afford an oil painting of your kids while they are still in diapers, you should be able to afford the clothes they wear in the painting. It gave a whole new meaning to the word 'priviledged'.
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Monday 01 February
By Elle
I've worked in both beauty and fashion retail, and like all of you, I have stories that would make your head spin! There was a woman who actually got banned from the cosmetics department in the store I worked at( I heard she was banned from several). She would come in for a consultation, and buy the reccomended products. She would use everyhting, and then her creepy husband(think greasy beanpole in spandex bike shorts) would come in to return them. The reason was always the same-"my wife is legally blind, and she can't use these because she keeps getting it in her eyes." When she could no longer shop in cosmetics, she turned to other departments. She returned underwear with panty liners in them. YUCK! And here I thought used makeup was bad!
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Monday 01 February
By Brittney
One day when I was working at one of my (fashion) retail jobs, dont wanna name name's, but we did sell underwear, I went into the fitting room to clean up and found a tag to a pair of panties someone had stolen....in addition to the very obviously dirty pair the person had left behind! It was soo gross
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