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There are no stupid questions when it comes to sex, and with Valentine's Day around the corner, we figured having a clinical sexologist answer your most perplexing questions about all things conjugal would be the best gift we could give you.We've got our expert -- Ian Kerner, PhD, author of "She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman" -- and now we need to know what you want to know.
Role play? Oral sex? How to talk dirty? More orgasms, please?
Ask away in the comments. Then we'll pick our favorites and have Kerner answer them for you, so be sure to check back next week.
Don't be shy -- you can create an anonymous commenting handle so nobody will know your business. Besides, there's no such thing as too embarrassing around these parts.
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Saturday 20 March
By ron
just wondering is there any health risk to cumming in my wife when were haveing anal sex with out a condom we have been married for 30 years and wanted to try this ,wondering about cum in ass or will i get infection in penis
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Tuesday 30 March
By edwardo santos
re- ron
while there is no problem cumimg in your wife anal, you may end up with an infection of the prostate, now thats a pain in the ass.use a condon. if you dont want to use a condon dont go from vagina to ass, without washing your self first, if you do she may get an urinary track infection .if you dont do it safe , take it from me you both well be on cipro for 10 days
Saturday 20 March
By SweetandSassy
Let me start out by saying that I have a tendency to be extremely dominant in the bedroom..... with SUBMISSIVE guys. It's so easy with them because you basically just tell them what's going to happen and then they do whatever you want. If they aren't doing something the way I want it I just tell them that they aren't doing it right. I have never been with a dominant guy until recently and I am not sure how to gain the confidence I know I will need to carry out his request. He's not asking me to clothe myself with latex and deck out the bedroom in whips and chains... he just wants me to be forceful. The most physical harm he wants me to do to him is smack him across the face. (which I have a little bit of a problem with that only because I am not a physically violent person unless I am angry, but I am interested in seeing if I would be able to pull i off) The idea of really telling someone that they are going to let me take them is a turn on and I WANT to be able to do this for him, I just need a few pointers. Usually if they put up a fight about what I want I just say *Never mind then* and move onto something or someone else. But part of the role-play he wants is to resist... this is the part that concerns me. I'm not good at determining weather he is serious all the time or not so I'm afraid that he may be in a hurry to go somewhere and be getting mad when I think he is just in character. I want to do this right but I don't want to sit down with him and plan it out because that takes the surprise out of it. Please give me pointers!!! (please don't psychoanalyze me or my boyfriend... this is a simple question about sex)
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Tuesday 23 March
By sean
My friend's girlfriend hooked me up with her friend about a month ago. I've never had any complaints from her, but both my friend and his girlfriend told me that she said i don't know how to kiss at all. I'm really self concious about it now, to the point where I almost don't even want to makeout at all now. So can somebody explain to me how to makeout?
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Sunday 28 March
By D76P76
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tCITaAyJR9Y All will be explained
Sunday 04 April
By anonymous
Whenever i have sex with my boyfriend, after he pulls out is it normal that what he put into me comes out? I'm 16, and worried. Help!!
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Monday 19 April
By Marcia
I have been with my boyfriend on and off again for 6 yrs now and we share a child together, we used to be having sex all the time but not now. We broke up for about a year or so and were not intimate, so I guess we just don't know how to be close again.? We have now been back together for 4 months and have only had sex in the beginning of this and now every time I try and iniciate sex he says , its just been awhile and we need to take things slow. I love this man very much and I am very hurt that he wont have sex with me. We both are a little over weight but that's never stopped us before. I am kinda thinking theres more to this no sex thing? I'm thinking he might be having it with someone else? Do you have any advice?
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Wednesday 05 May
By rerx
I am a married man doing without we got married 23 years ago and our sex life is once a week if i get it started not her about 7-8 years ago she cheated on me with a man at her work at this time our sex life was great she told me i was the only man that made sure she got what every women needed out of sex every time but she still cheated on me at the time i told her he only wanted to get in her pants and told her to go give him some and see were it got her she went to him and stayed with him for all day and after that he would not even talk about them as a couple and she still stands by her story that they only talked I DON'T THINK SO but our sex has gone to nothing now what do i do i have tried everything i know to do but i get a cold f---- every time i get any what to do
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Saturday 21 August
By daniel hempshall
im 12 i was watching porn then white suff came out of my dick should i be worried
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Friday 05 August
By Em
I have had 4 sexal partners. They were all longterm so I slept with them multiple times each. The problem is that I'm not sure if i've ever had an orgasm. At points it feels really good but nothing so significant. My current boyfriend always asks how many orgams i had after we do it but i dont know what to tell him. I'm just confused, help!
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