Time to breathe a deep sigh of relief ladies: If you've had trouble having a G-spot orgasm, researchers at Kings College London just announced that after some rigorous testing, there is no G-spot! They claim that the magic spot only exists in "the imagination of women influenced by magazines and sex therapists." See, don't you feel better already? No? Well, don't worry, Lemondrop is on the case.
The existence of the G-spot, or Gräfenberg Spot, has been questioned since German gynecologist Ernst Gräfenberg discovered it in 1950, but the debate started heating up in the 1980s and hasn't stopped. The definition that is used by most -- whether or not someone agrees with it -- is that the G-spot is a bean-shaped cluster of nerve endings in the vagina that can be considered an erogenous zone. Some women have it and some, apparently, don't.
Tim Spector, who co-authored the research, surveyed 1804 women who were all either fraternal or identical twins. They were all asked about their experience with their G-Spot, and 56% of the women in the study claimed to have one. Since twins share the same genetic material, it was expected that if one twin said she had a G-Spot, the other one would as well. But no dice.
If one twin said she had a G-Spot, the other was no more likely to say that she had one. No pattern of any kind emerged, leading Spector to conclude to England's Sunday Times, "This is by far the biggest study ever carried out and it shows fairly conclusively that the idea of a G-spot is subjective."
Now, this seems to me like asking 1000 people if they believe in God and then deciding on God's existence based on their answers, but I'm no expert. So we decided to talk to Ian Kerner, author of She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman. Here's what he said when we asked him about the story:"A lot of fuss is made over the differences between clitoral and G-spot orgasms. The clitoral orgasm is often criticized as being quick and light-hearted, while G-spot orgasms are somehow deemed more serious and substantive. But a quick study of anatomy reveals that all orgasms are clitoral. The clitoris is the sexual epicenter, an orgasmic powerhouse in which no sensation goes unnoticed.
"As scientist Natalie Angier writes of the infamous G-spot, the area of soft tissue just inside the vaginal area, 'the roots of the clitoris run deep, after all, and very likely can be tickled through posterior agitation. In other words, the G spot may be nothing more than the back end of the clitoris.'"
"As scientist Natalie Angier writes of the infamous G-spot, the area of soft tissue just inside the vaginal area, 'the roots of the clitoris run deep, after all, and very likely can be tickled through posterior agitation. In other words, the G spot may be nothing more than the back end of the clitoris.'"
Kerner then gets down to the brass tacks of it all, and I applaud him for it:
"Irrespective of anatomy, it would be hard to dispute the area's erogenous potential."
Tell us: Do you think the G-spot is a myth?












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Saturday 09 January
By Janice Meyer
I can only go by my experience.....the G spot is sort of a rough texture inside the vagina that is behind the clitoris. When both are stimulated at the same time, I get a "blended" orgasm.....more intense and more satisfying because it's like 2 orgasms at the exact same time. There's nothing like it. Keep trying, you'll find it.
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Sunday 10 January
By Michelle
The "G" Spot does exist. I am not a young woman and had a few boyfriends and two husbands. They didn't hit the infamous "G" Spot. Suddenly my life changed and my "G" Spot was discovered. Voila!! I had no idea what was happening to me and had to ask a friend. She informed me what it was and my goodness, he hits it ALL OF THE TIME. He came in to my life unexpectedly and I never want him to go. Who ever said it doesn't exists, never had hers touched. Thank you.
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Monday 11 January
By DrCastellanos
I've already commented on this in several other places (with scientific references regarding the existence of a G-spot). It does exist. This study was done by a survey - not with actual studying of the vagina. As I mentioned on another post, instead of asking all their questions, these "researchers" should start sticking their fingers in women's actual vaginas.
http://ReclaimYourSexuality.blogspot.com
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Monday 11 January
By booster
Once an man discovers the G-Spot and can learn to give a woman a tripple orgasm through clitoral, G-Spot and vaginal...all at once...you are on the road to becoming a great lover.
Yes, you need mental stimulation but they physical can not be discounted if done right.
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Wednesday 13 January
By PJ
To Dr. John Perry,
1. There's a ton of articles on G-spots, but very little scholarly work published in legitimate peer-reviewed scientific journals (Journals of Anatomy and Physiology for example) - can you provide such references with respect to the G-spot, especially your own work?
2. If you are doing research I assume you have a faculty position somewhere - can you give us your academic coordinates?
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Monday 18 January
By bercola
It`s there , i found it many years ago.
Thats why THEY wont leave me alone.
Lucky me lololololoo,o,l,,,lololol
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Thursday 18 February
By budoinst
It DEFINITELY exists!!! No doubt.
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Thursday 18 February
By Strange Fruit
I prefer to manually stimulate my clitoris myself to reach orgasm. Then I want my lover to penetrate me with her fingers. By that point, my G-spot has ejaculated a lot, and I am aroused even more when it's being pressed on. I experience even greater sexual gratification when my cervix is pressed on as well. My ultimate vaginal pleasure is when my vagina is being stroked and pressed just to the left or right of my cervix, but only after I've had the clitoral orgasm. The deep vaginal manual stimulation is what I find most pleasurable, further increasing ejaculation from my G-spot. I feel more sorry for a woman who has never had an orgasm than I do for a woman who doesn't know if she has a G-spot.
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Thursday 18 February
By R. eggie
Believe it--As couple in our mid-sixties who have experimented with total satisfaction for BOTH of us over the years, we only found her "G" about a year ago. Wow! She scored it a 10+ even though it takes me longer to "activate" it. Keep probing.
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Sunday 21 February
By stacy
well i also think that it is wrong because me and my sweet heart while having sex i have felt it and i know its there its a great feeling its awsome i know its there
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Monday 22 February
By agasdg
"The definition that is used by most -- whether or not someone agrees with it -- is that the G-spot is a bean-shaped cluster of nerve endings in the vagina that can be considered an erogenous zone. "
Um, no, it's not. The G spot refers to an area of ridged skin directly behind the pubic bone. Every female has it, whether or not it is physically arousing to the touch is the question. For me personally, massaging it feels like a buildup of pressure on my urethra, very, very similar to having to urinate. It's okay but nothing worth fluttering about.
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Monday 22 February
By lag
"The definition that is used by most -- whether or not someone agrees with it -- is that the G-spot is a bean-shaped cluster of nerve endings in the vagina that can be considered an erogenous zone."
Um, no, it's not. The G spot as identified by Gräfenberg is a bit of ridged skin directly behind the pubic bone. Every female has it, whether or not it is pleasurable to the touch is the question. For me personally, massaging it builds pressure on my urethra and bladder, very, very similar to having to urinate (this is where the popular "squirt" of female ejaculation in certain pornos comes from- the G spot when properly massaged will cause fluid to build up and swell the genitals). It's okay, but nothing to flutter about.
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Tuesday 23 February
By Cici
I know it exists or at least that I have one!
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Friday 26 February
By Mark's an ARIES
OF COURSE IT'S REAL....didn't anyone see the movie, "The G-Spot"???
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Tuesday 02 March
By Ann
NO doubt there is a "sweet spot". I am 58...yes , a Sr. Citizen...undergone a complete hysterectomy and am on hormones, so my sex drive and responses are that of a much younger person. I have had many years of great sex and am always searching for ways to make it better. It doesn't matter how many surveys or studies have been done....great sex varies with couples and their ability to be aware of their own bodies and responses. Stimulating my G spot causes entirely different responses than other areas of my vagina. The proof is obvious because there is a large amount of sweet tasting fluid released when I have a G spot orgasim....just like mentioned by Dorthy Grant, (another poster).
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Wednesday 17 March
By RelationshipExpert
To stimulate the G-spot, pressure has to be applied on the upper wall of the vagina, AND the woman has to be extremely aroused. Blood rushes to the G-spot just as it does to the clitoris during sexual excitement. Therefore, any sexual position which maximizes pressure to this area increases the chance for a G-spot orgasm.
bit.ly/g-spot-sex-manual
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Tuesday 19 October
By ash von d
It definitely exists! I have experienced the explosive orgasm and it is much more intense than a clitoris orgasm. First you feel like you have to pee but a clear liquid bursts out and it feels amazing. Although after the 1st time I experienced it, I had every boyfriend after that look for the spot again. Only 1 other was capable of making it happen... so there is definitely a technique to master, but i really dont know what that technique is. The 2nd man told me that he would insert 2 fingers and make a "come here" motion just a few inches inside while using the palm of his other hand to press down on the pubic bone? .. it never took long either, few minutes or so. hope this helps someone else! lol
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Saturday 15 January
By lolalampoon
it exists. Stop fooling yourselves. I've had orgasms without touching my clitoris at all, just by myself or my boyfriend rubbing the g spot with fingers or a penis. I can guarantee you I did not make this little spot up just because it is in the media. I know my body and I know it just doesn't work like that. Surveying women about whether or not they "think" this thing exists is useless because so many women just haven't FOUND it so they assume it doesn't exist. This whole thing is just ridiculous and I actually kind of find it insulting to say that those of us who have real g spot orgasms are just making shit up.
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