As we earn more money and work longer hours, new statistics show that more women are cheating on their husbands -- but that doesn't mean that men are as forgiving about affairs as we can be.According to a 2001 survey, about 15 percent of men admit to cheating on their wives or girlfriends, and women were not far behind with a 10-percent cheat rate.
But here's one thing that hasn't changed -- women are willing to forgive their husbands for infidelity, and men aren't. A recent study found that men were significantly more likely to end a marriage based on spousal infidelity than women.
"Men can forgive themselves for their indiscretions but find it harder to forgive their partners for the same," therapist Phillip Hodson explained to England's Daily Mail. "For a betrayed woman, an affair is an offense against her dignity. For a betrayed man, it's an offense against his manhood. It goes right to the core of his identity."
Relationship counselor Paula Hall told the paper that husbands can't get over the fact that their wives had sex with another man. "For men, the sexual component of their wife's affair is important," Hall said. "Women are much more likely to ask: 'Did you love her?'"
And women are cheating for the same reason men do: they want affection and attention, and the Daily Mail notes, that's going to lead to sex.
Check out some out some female celebrities who may have succumbed to the cheating bug. We can't say for sure that their guys left them over it, but their marriages did dissolve soon after. (See Also: Why He Cheats)
LeAnn Rimes: Sparks really flew when Leann Rimes was caught cheating on her husband of seven years, Dean Sheremet, with actor Eddie Cibrian who was also married at the time. Apparently the love affair started when Rimes and Cibrian were filming Lifetime's 2009 flick "Northern Lights." Although Rimes and Cibrian ended up leaving their spouses for each other, a few months later rumors circulated that Cibrian was already cheating on LeAnn. He has denied it and sued Life & Style magazine for spreading the story.
Anne Heche: Anne Heche and Ellen DeGeneres celebrated their lesbian love, and we thought it would last forever. Unfortunately, Heche decided to switch teams and cheated on DeGeneres with cameraman Coley Laffoon in 2000, whom she married and had a child with. However, the relationship hit a snag when Heche left her husband for her "Men in Trees" co-star James Tupper in 2007.
Elizabeth Taylor: Known for falling in love one too many times and marrying even more, Elizabeth Taylor's affair with Eddie Fisher is by far one of the most notorious in Hollywood history. While married to "Singing in the Rain" actress Debbie Reynolds, Fisher and Taylor had one illustrious relationship. Fisher ended up dumping his wife and married Taylor. However, in the end Taylor falls in love again, but this time with actor Richard Burton. All Images: Getty Images
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Saturday 19 December
By Mary L
I would disagree with those findings. Men understand that cheating is just a sexual act (for them it is). Women do not understand that nor feel that way. I know many more women who are bitter than I do men.
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Sunday 20 December
By yvonne Sheridain
Can't agree with you, Mary. I've known too many men who claim they can mess around with no thought put it into it, and next thing you know, they're in love...and still married. This is not unlike woman and sex. The genders are more alike than we want to admit. And bitter? Well, there's so many people out there telling us they LOOOOOVE us SOOO much and later we find out they're married. Kinda hard to be a pollyanna under those circumstances.
Saturday 19 December
By George
The major thing wrong with this world today, is society lacks honor. If you love someone and devote yourself to that person, then do not stray because in truth if you even think of another man or woman you do not truly love your other half. I have been cheated on in the past and found it to be my love was one sided, I was the faithful hard working man who gave all my love to women who in layman's terms were cock hungry sluts it was my mistake for allowing my self to love someone so blindly. I have read the statements that people have made so far on this article and notice only a few are right. As for not forgiving a cheater, that is common sense why forgive a worthless person who betrayed you for something like sex? Sex isnt all that important in life and if more people realized this and the media was made to stop forcing immoralities into our daily lives the world would be a better place
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Tuesday 22 December
By BUTCHBUSS00
I MET THIS BEAUTIFUL LONLY GIRL WHOS MARRIED AND I ASKED HER WHY ME SHE TO LD TO ME I PRAYED FOR SOMEONE TO LOVE ME GOD SENT YOU TO ME
BEING ALONE IS A CURSE AND ITS MARD NOT TO HAVE SOMEONE HOLD YOU OR LISTEN TO YOU
WE HAD THE TIME OF OUR LIVES AND THEN I FOUND OUT SHE WAS A GOLDDIGGER AND A FRAUD AND A LIAR
AND PROBABLY NUTS
NEEDLESS TO SAY SHES BROKE MY HEART , BIG TIME ALL THOSE LIES SHES TOLD TO ME , I DONT KNOW WHERE SHE WILL BE ON HER JUDGEMENT DAY
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Saturday 19 December
By PeopleAreDumb
Typical male-bashing crap. Being cheated on goes right to "the core of his identity"? lol What the hell? And this is supposed to be an educated professional spewing this slop.
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Saturday 19 December
By c.p.
I AGREE WITH POPPA T. Anyone willing to throw away their relationship did not want it in the first place. She married HIM====THAT MEANS ALLLLLLL OF HIM........the good, the bad, the laundry, the smelly feet, you know who your man/woman is. SURPRISE>>>>>>>bullshit. (80/20 rule) Better think about it.
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Saturday 19 December
By Olivia
I wish articles would not speak for all women. If I were cheated on it would be the last time. Never would there be any forgiving or any second chance. Why? Because chances are it will happen again. You want to sleep around? STAY SINGLE!
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Saturday 19 December
By Dennie
you got that right Olivia!!~ Listen up MEN...us gals are no longer takin your CRAP you like to dish out...hows it feel???????...lol!~ Now...heres how i see it POOPA..or whatever your name is..TRUST and LOVE is something YOU EARN!!! and when you MEN choose to DISRESPECT that...then your out!!!..its just that simple!!!~ and if women do it??..Then they deserve the same treatment!! NO ONE should cheat..ever!!...so..get it??..or get out!!~ Hopefully my X is reading this as he works OVERTIME to pay for his love child at the age of 51~~!~! lmao!!~ loser...its a brand new frick,,frackin day GUYS..and us gals will take you down..one by one...WE dont need a man to survive...DO U GET THIS??????..so the braniac that mentioned "having all the gold"....shove it!!..we dont want your money or your dumb azz boy toyz.....2010 is qickly approaching....anf you CHEATERS better get the message!!!..if you cant??..then go call TIGER..hell help ya!!!~ lol!!~
Saturday 19 December
By Maddie
Men have large and fragile egos. They are threatened by powerful women. They think with their penis, not their brain. For women to be so forgiving and kind for all the lousy, pathetic affairs and mid-life crisis', and men to get upset for a woman cheating? All that we put up with, and they think they have the right? As a feminist, I think not. Men are NOT the superior sex, and I don't know what dumb-ass thought that shit up. Women give birth and all these amazing things. That's why most women have decided that men suck, and they became lesbians. They are the smart ones.
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Saturday 19 December
By jwb
and sadly you are a"widdle" imature azzh0le
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Saturday 19 December
By RCA1208
In my Sociology class it is said men cheat on women for a few reasons. One of those reasons could be due to the fact that women are adding no excitement to a mans sexual life, therefore he might even go as far as seeking a prostitute for oral sex because his wife won't do it. This does sound insane but sadly it does make sense. Some men are willing to cheat simply because their sexual practices are not being meet within wedlock. As for women doing it for men, women need attention and this is in simplicity. Unfortunately some women might be prone to cheating when there is deprivation in a relationship which could be any form of intimacy and the need to feel loved. Women are a bit more complicated when it comes to cheat, although this may be true, they are still less likely to cheat and if they do, they usually cheat with the same partner multiple times while males cheat with multiple partners and sometimes multiple times with those partners.
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Saturday 19 December
By Tarquin Q. Walrustitty
it has been my experience that all women are in a relationship simply to have somebody, and, they are always looking for the next guy to come along. they always find that guy, and they always leave. like there was no love at all.
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Saturday 19 December
By Page
No one cheats because their partner is not enough. They cheat because they are not enough. Trust me I'm on husband number 4 and when I feel bad about myself I go fuck someone else.
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Saturday 19 December
By Turillo
.. what a sorry bunch of loosers!!!!!
Whatever happened to " honor and respect until death do us a part".
You bunch of loosers could ahve opted NOT to make that committment in front of God and Family.
What all of you are missing is that one day you will all get older ..and older... and the sex drive will disappear and you will be looking for a person to hold the hand and look upon with rispect and partnership and pass on some life values to grandchildren (if you are kucky enough to ahve any).
You can only harvest what planted in life...and only senility can be used to ignore the fact that you have lived your lives using brains located in the wrong part of your body. You want to be a gigolo or a hot bimbo. Have the gut to terminate your marriage and stop kidding yourselves. You do not have the right to raise a family with your phony values, nor to belive the are reasons for all this chating being rationalized. There is nothing funny about growing older with a person who has violated the fundamental integrity of any union. Time does not cure these problems but only makes them worse when you finally realize what you wasted the ebst of family value LOYALTY and RESPECT for EACH OTHER in the process of jumping from one bed to another.
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Saturday 19 December
By Dick Chibbles
come on please, if you worked in the porn business like I do, it's not cheating... it's work..
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Saturday 19 December
By jakestewart
I was ready and did forgive my wife for her affair NEVER bringing it
up after it happened. She, on the other hand, would constantly throw
it back in my face that I screwed up. I tried repeatedly to let her
know I had forgiven her and would never throw it in her face... She
just kept beratting me and wouldn't let it go.. It brought our
marriage to an end, something I didn't want... To this day, she still
plays the "innocent victim, " and I make no comments. The guy is not
always the one who won't/can't forgive. It takes a committment on two
people to make it work BECAUSE they want to...
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Saturday 19 December
By Thia
WOW listen to all of this. I still have a hard time wrapping my head around how men and women think of each other. Let's face it we are all individuals, at least I am, and I am offended when someone says women this...... women that................. you don't know me or if I fit into any of those categories. I would imagine men feel the same way. And yes I have been cheated on, so move on. Let him/her beg for you back, maybe they'll think twice next time. I can't waste my time married or not if I'm in a relationship with you certain things are expected, fidelity is one, if not move on NEXT..............................I don't want you double dipping and I don't blame you if you feel the same
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Saturday 19 December
By gary young
I was married for thirty years and had 4 kids so i thought, she passed away and never told me about the one child she had was not mine, i found out and now i have to live with what she and my best friend had done to me and my one child, a man cant come and say well we are pregant, a woman can say well we are going to have a baby! the man has no idea that it is not his.that has to be the worst think a woman can do to man, I was with her through all her treatments and stood with by her till she passed and she never told me the truth. i'am 63 and i feel my whole marriage was one big lie and has destroyed my memories of our marriage together, I will never trust another woman. she passed away in 96, my best friend has bone cancer, and i plan on confronting him before he dies.
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Saturday 19 December
By Thia
OMG Page you just made me blow hot chocolate out my nose LMAO but can't say I follow your logic
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Saturday 19 December
By mckenz707
THEY ARE LIKE BAD WIDDLE BOY'S, THEY ARE NEVER GROWN UP, AND THE ONE DEFINATION I HEARD OF MEN, AND IT FITS WELL IS................
MEN WANT THEIR WIVES TO TAKE CARE OF THEM LIKE A MOTHER........
AND MIND THEM LIKE THEY ARE THEIR DAUGHTERS, YOU CAN'T HAVE IT BOTH WAYS.
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