As we earn more money and work longer hours, new statistics show that more women are cheating on their husbands -- but that doesn't mean that men are as forgiving about affairs as we can be.According to a 2001 survey, about 15 percent of men admit to cheating on their wives or girlfriends, and women were not far behind with a 10-percent cheat rate.
But here's one thing that hasn't changed -- women are willing to forgive their husbands for infidelity, and men aren't. A recent study found that men were significantly more likely to end a marriage based on spousal infidelity than women.
"Men can forgive themselves for their indiscretions but find it harder to forgive their partners for the same," therapist Phillip Hodson explained to England's Daily Mail. "For a betrayed woman, an affair is an offense against her dignity. For a betrayed man, it's an offense against his manhood. It goes right to the core of his identity."
Relationship counselor Paula Hall told the paper that husbands can't get over the fact that their wives had sex with another man. "For men, the sexual component of their wife's affair is important," Hall said. "Women are much more likely to ask: 'Did you love her?'"
And women are cheating for the same reason men do: they want affection and attention, and the Daily Mail notes, that's going to lead to sex.
Check out some out some female celebrities who may have succumbed to the cheating bug. We can't say for sure that their guys left them over it, but their marriages did dissolve soon after. (See Also: Why He Cheats)
LeAnn Rimes: Sparks really flew when Leann Rimes was caught cheating on her husband of seven years, Dean Sheremet, with actor Eddie Cibrian who was also married at the time. Apparently the love affair started when Rimes and Cibrian were filming Lifetime's 2009 flick "Northern Lights." Although Rimes and Cibrian ended up leaving their spouses for each other, a few months later rumors circulated that Cibrian was already cheating on LeAnn. He has denied it and sued Life & Style magazine for spreading the story.
Anne Heche: Anne Heche and Ellen DeGeneres celebrated their lesbian love, and we thought it would last forever. Unfortunately, Heche decided to switch teams and cheated on DeGeneres with cameraman Coley Laffoon in 2000, whom she married and had a child with. However, the relationship hit a snag when Heche left her husband for her "Men in Trees" co-star James Tupper in 2007.
Elizabeth Taylor: Known for falling in love one too many times and marrying even more, Elizabeth Taylor's affair with Eddie Fisher is by far one of the most notorious in Hollywood history. While married to "Singing in the Rain" actress Debbie Reynolds, Fisher and Taylor had one illustrious relationship. Fisher ended up dumping his wife and married Taylor. However, in the end Taylor falls in love again, but this time with actor Richard Burton. All Images: Getty Images
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Saturday 19 December
By gram stotex
THE REASON WM FORGIVE MEN MORE WHEN THEY CHEAT, IS BECAUSE WM ARE JUST STUPID.MEN ON THE OTHER HAND THINK THEY ARE ABOVE THE WEDDING VOWS, SO THEY DECIDE IF WM CHEATS, THERE MAN HOOD HAS BEEN DAMAGE, BECAUSE THEY THINK ONLY SEX IN RELATIONSHIPS, NEITHER ONE IS RIGHT. MEN SHOULD FORGIVE SAME AS WM. BUT IN THE LONG RUN A CHEATER WILL AWAYS BE A CHEATER. SO LADIES DONT BE SO QUICK TO FORGIVE. I KNOW YOU SURE IN THE HELL DONT FORGET. SO WHATS THE POINT OF HANGING ON, TO SOMEONE WHO HAS BROKING THAT TRUST.
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Friday 12 February
By Digi
what a dumb article. I think every situation is unique and you cant base it on gender. Men tend to end things simply cause well, its more than they care to think about and more often than not, a man places a high ...personal value over intimacy with their partner. women on the other hand tend to put less mental responsibility to the act and consider it......sometimes the same as forgetting to shut the front door....(pun intended).
The reason a man doesnt forgive is because he sees this as a major trust issue. If he had full trust in a woman at one point and she broke that trust, a man knows that they are now capable of breaking that truist multiple times especially when a woman is invovled cause they believe once u get away with someone once, u can continue to do so unhindered.
The same goes for women but opposite. They forgive more often simply cause of that mentality. THat 'lack of personal value' on intimacy. yet ironically women are the only ones who cry false rape and False Domestic Violence..........yeah theres a trend going on there
Saturday 19 December
By rebecca
SUE!!! LOL.right flipping on
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Saturday 19 December
By 33
The reason men don't forgive is because they want an excuse to kick their wife to the curb. Their feelings aren't hurt. They are thrilled to death. I pray every day that my wife will bang the mailman or a neighbor.
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Saturday 19 December
By Suzanne
Sue....hilarious...couldn't have said it better myself.
Saturday 19 December
By Joan
Bet she has several times. And good for her!!
Saturday 19 December
By oinvme2
If you are so unhappily married why don't you just grow some balls and divorce her? By you waiting until she does something wrong already makes you wrong for staying. It's men like you that cause women to cheat in the first place. LOSER!
Saturday 19 December
By mark
too funny thanks for the laugh, you made my night, because it is so true
Saturday 19 December
By chromegirl003
You sound like a real catch-she's probably already doing both!!!!!!!
Saturday 19 December
By Dan
oinvme, they want the wife to cheat first so that they have more leverage when it comes time for settlement. No man should have to give up his hard earned money or home to his lazy bum wife. Especially if she's the one that ruined the relationship by cheating *wink*.
Saturday 19 December
By Gi
We cheat because you lack!
Saturday 19 December
By 50+
"33" what are you waiting for, sounds like you aren't "man" enough to make the decision you are asking your wife to make!!!! so what you are actually saying is you want a divorce, but aren't man enough to take the step to do it!!! grow a pair, maybe that's what your wife is looking for!
Sunday 20 December
By yvonne Sheridain
Oh, psilocybin283, not the old men are programmed to spread seed act! Please stop! You think that;s gonna get you off the hook every time? Let's not go to the animal kindgom, even though, yes, we are all animals. There are many primate females who, when in estrus, have sex with all the men lined up waiting. So let's say you don't question a woman's affairs when she's ovulating, shall we??
Oh, that makes sense. The fact is, affairs are devastating for both parties. We want to be couple and then we cheat ,and the injured party grieves and aches, no matter if it's a woman or a man. That's why it's wrong and forgiveness is so hard for both parties, men and women. One of the commenters talked about remorse. A marriage counselor I read about said he could always tell which couples would survive the betrayal--they were the ones where the cheater felt true remorse and said s/he was sorry every day for a year if that's what it took and also understood the rage and crazy behavior of the one betrayed. These folks stand a chance. Let's talk about accountable behavior and loving marriages and try to keep gender out of it. And for gods sakes, if your marriage sucks, try to fix it or get the hell out. Even in bad marriages, the spouse doesn't deserve the pain of cheating.
Oh, and you guys who claim you hang in there because you don't want to lose "your" earnings. Well, if you have kids, who's raising them everyday? If you don't, do you have "corporate wife" expectations, like being on your arm at business events, including those involving travel? If you can answer no to both these questions, then you have a point. But I happen to have four close couple friends at the moment, where the men are being supported by their wives, so let go of your stereotypes.
Sunday 20 December
By Yvonne
Oh, psilocybin283, you are priceless. Still using that spreading the seed argument? What about the primate females who have sex with anything when in estrus. They're having sex because they are horny and want sex. The genders are not that different.
But we are human, and supposedly have evolved to understand the pain and grief that comes with cheating, as well as the deep love, loyalty and joy that comes with a faithful loving marriage. This applies to women and men equally, and this gender difference is nonsense.
Sunday 20 December
By The Mailman
I have a confession to make. I'm the mailman and I did bang your wife. Tell her I'll see her I'll see her again tomorrow. She is a firecracker........damn
Sunday 20 December
By david robinson
You should be proud. Your a great representative of the male species.
Sunday 20 December
By ~S
Oh please you are so full of it. If you really wanted her to do it then have the balls to her to do so than telling us all on lemondrop.com. I told my ex boyfriend plenty of times I wished he would go find someone else.
Friday 01 January
By d
seriously? Then grow a set and get a divorce!! but wait....you want it to be HER fault so you don't have to pay up and look like the jerk that you are.
Sunday 03 January
By Lia Sugra
maybe she is
Friday 22 April
By S Redmond
Women who make all these excuses for cheating are disgusting... Women cheat for the same reasons that men do,, drum roll THEY WANT TO!!!!!! All this long winded reasons for why the poor neglected housewife drops her panties are pathetic... When a women cheats a man should dump her ass period! She has absolutely no respect for you and besides you will never forgive her and treat her the same... That resentment and anger will rise again.. She is a tainted bum at that point... Lose the skank