If you've ever wondered whether your boyfriend still looks at pornography, or if he was lying when he told you he doesn't, wonder no more. All dudes look at porn. (Or at least they have at some point in their lives.)This is the truth realized by a group of researchers from the University of Montreal, who were unable to complete a study when they could not find any men who had never looked at pornography. On the plus side, those researchers have since determined that simply viewing pornography doesn't create a pathological sexuality; if it did, all guys would think you're just waiting for a guy with a tribal tattoo and an enormous wang to walk into the room so you can start humping.
The average guy in a relationship looks at porn 1.7 times per week for 20 minutes. Something to think about when he tells you he was just sending an e-card to his aunt with a guilty look on his face.
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Thursday 03 December
By Julie
Not sure why all guys looking at porn in some point during their lives means your boyfriend is definitely looking at porn. He may have done so in the past, and he may do it in the future, but you can't really imply that just because he has done something before that he's doing it right now.
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Thursday 03 December
By really??
Is it really so bad that he might spend 20 minutes a week looking at porn??? isnt that better than 20 minutes a week gauking at real women, that they might actually have a chance with???? and besides porn stars gotta make money too right???? lol
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Thursday 03 December
By Julie
I agree. I really don't see the big deal with a man looking at porn. It has more to do with the woman's insecurities than with the man's porn watching habits.
Monday 25 January
By cheryl
that's "gawking"
Tuesday 16 March
By Hei
It all boils down to girls' insecurities. Let me share my view as a man.
Instead of worrying that some woman on the screen (or in real life) will steal your man, spend that time improving yourself. There will always be competition, and the answer to it is getting better yourself.
Learn how to dress stylishly
How to do tasteful make-up
Get a couple instructional videos and learn something new in sex, like how to give erotic massage, blowjobs, how to control your vaginal muscles, etc. Then you will be way better than competition.
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Friday 04 December
By Amy
remember it goes both ways....men are not the only ones with eyes...so you guys should also better yourselves, dress stylishly, and learn to treat a woman with kindness, gentleness, and respect.
Saturday 05 December
By nobody
Hey, you're fucking stupid. Most women have actual lives which necessitate them using their time and money towards things that matter, i.e., careers, educations, and families.
That being said, if a woman runs across a guy who lives in really bad stereotypical porn, she needs to run the other way, not bleach her hair, wear tons of makeup, and fake orgasms while giving a blowjob to some selfish and ugly-ass dude.
Wednesday 09 December
By jamie
Sometimes it isn't about insecurities! If someone is addicted to porn, it's a whole different story. I'm adventurous when it comes to sex and I do "porn star" type moves. I'm not ugly. I'm a very cute lady with a great body. But my ex would watch porn whenever I would leave the room and then when we had sex, he admitted he was pretending I was his favorite porn star. It wasn't because I was denying him sex. I loved it! But he had an addiction and I couldn't live with that. Hell, I watched porn before he started with his addictive behavior. So don't stereotype all women who are uncomfortable with porn as insecure. Oh and by the way, it wasn't just 20 min. a day. It was more like 2 or more hours, so please don't judge.
Monday 25 January
By cheryl
You must repel women...talk about sexist comments
Thursday 03 December
By anon
I'm looking at porn right now. :o
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Monday 07 December
By jenny
i think thats nobody guy is 10% right!!
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Monday 07 December
By jenny
i thinkt hast nobody guy is the best guy everrr he is smart!!!!
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Friday 11 December
By Jay
Not every guy watches porn. Porn has never done a thing for me, as a guy. Im straight, hell, I love a womans body and sex. But I find porn in general off-putting. Sure, Ive seen porn before...Who hasnt? I think even most women have watched or seen at least a porn or two in their lives. If the same research were done on women, youd probably get the same results. Every adult has watched or seen it at some point in their lives. That doesnt mean that every man has an interest in it, or desires to watch it. Thats generalizing.
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Friday 09 April
By lis
I LOVE what you wrote and wish ALL men felt the same way too!! I totally agree with you!!
Monday 14 December
By Porn Xpert 101
Porn is about the degredation of women. Generally a man watches porn to relieve some pent up emotions or energy which he could do with his wife/ Girlfriend etc. It only becomes a problem if they chose porn over real life flesh and blood.
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Sunday 20 December
By Sarah
I'd love to point out how incredibly shallow Hei is, how he believes that us women need to dress "stylishly", wear tasteful makeup, and basically learn to be "porn stars" in the bedroom.
Let me be frank, if you're married, such as I am, you should only have eyes for your spouse, end of story. This competition crap goes out the door once you tie the knot. If I wanted to keep staring at other dudes, I would've stayed single. And that goes for my husband as well. If you can't stay faithful inside your head as well, then don't waste your time with me. It's called respect, and true love never leaves room for wondering eyes. And it's funny how us women are expected to go "all out" on our wardrobe, hair, etc. How about you, men? What are you doing that's so special to keep a woman on her toes? Once age and gray hairs start to hit you (which could be as soon as age 25) the shower/shaving every day, dressing up nice, and putting on that sweet cologne seems to fall off the priority list after a while, especially when career and family come into play. So, like porn? Watch it with your spouse/significant other. If they don't like it, deal or bail.
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Wednesday 30 December
By what men want
the opinion of Sarah, is exactly why 60% of marriages are headed for divorce. she probably tricked her man into marriage with promises of blowjobs every night, then plays the headache/work late/ up early game every night of the week. then demands "respect" and obedience simply because they are bound by law? give me a break. MEN should only have eyes for his wife, but the reality is we DON'T. we are not genetically programmed too. if you can tell us how to find an aging overweight wife more attractive than that smokin 25 year old, great. but it ain't gonna happen. you can't MAKE us be attracted to ugly. sorry.
the strongest marriages don't demand obedience from either sex. if you can't deal with a more attractive women in the room, that's YOUR problem. this is why more and more men are realizing that marriage is a trap that women set, with little or no benefit for the man.
the best advice I've heard to date for women is this:"Keep his belly full and his balls empty". if every wife never let their man out of the house completely "drained" there wouldn't be the desire to cheat. it's that simple. Our body and brain chemistry changes after a hot meal and after an orgasm. duh. if wives send their men out into the world hungry and unsatisfied the probability goes UP. hello? I'm not saying it's right or wrong, just stating the facts.
wake up women. and give your man a BJ.
Tuesday 02 February
By hmm..
"more and more men are realizing that marriage is a trap that women set, with little or no benefit for the man" -what men want
To what men want:
Let me be frank and realistic.: men benefit FAR more from marriage than women do. Because of the woman, they have there meals taken care of, free daycare services (that comes with the package of marriage), sex (without having to pay for it) and on top of it, wives are working while taking care of the entire family. Oh, and they are supposed to maintain model bodies after giving birth? Haven't seen a man do that ever, not to mention taking the initiative to stay in shape over sitting on his a** and drinking beer with his friends (that SHE probably purchased).
You definitely have a grasp on "what little boys want", but a man, much like a woman, is upstanding and doesn't fall back on his word. You speak of the same hypocrisy when it comes to cheating and the legal document of marriage: when it comes to paying his bills he doesn't breech that law, less he wants to appear like a bum, but somehow this concept is overridden when a man decides he doesn't want to put up with it anymore. Then hes a "real man" for declaring his independence and leaving or cheating on his wife.
get a grip.
Friday 22 January
By Anni
A man looking at porn has nothing to do with his partner. This is a lie that we've been fed for years.
A man looks at porn, for the same reasons that a woman wants chocolate. It's something that they "want"... it wouldn't matter men, if you were "made" of chocolate, we'd still want a truffle every now and then etc.
Women are not "insecure" in not wanting their boyfriends to gawk at other women. They are actually "strong" and understand/know that a man should be faithful if they're with them. The same way that a woman should be faithful to a man if they're with them.
Women do not like being compared, and they see sex as something personal (most of them) so they A, don't want to be mentally compared to some fake boobed woman that you've seen on the screen (Which, us smart ones know that you do in the bedroom) and B, don't want to share you with someone else, even if that someone else is a computer screen. You are ours, we are yours.
Women - You are not weak if you tell your man to knock it off, you are STRONG, and deserve props for not putting up with the fact that your MAN is sooo insecure that he can't just save it for you, (Something real and true) he has to go get it with something fake.
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Wednesday 03 March
By true
you are 100% right ty