While many women believe that their husbands are pretending to be in deep sleep when the baby cries in the middle of the night, new research shows that men really just can't hear them. According to a new study by the MindLab Institution, men are hardly disturbed by a baby's cries during their sleep, yet a wailing infant is the top sound that will take a woman out of dreamland.
Researchers believe it is women's maternal instincts -- whether they have children or not -- that kick in when they hear any young child cry that wakes them up.
Meanwhile, men are more likely to jump up at the ring of car alarms, a buzzing fly or howling wind. Men can also go right back to sleep after having been woken up much faster than women.
And it doesn't stop at men's and women's sleeping habits. Another study found that men and women respond to danger quite differently. Men are more likely to respond to stimuli that result in a physical reaction while women are affected more by things that are emotional, the radiology department at Jagiellonian University Hospital in Poland found.
In the study, men and women between the ages of 18 and 36 were shown a series of negative images and then another group saw positive ones. Their brain patterns showed that the men's autonomic nervous system -- which controls heart rate, breathing and even digestion -- was more reactive than the women's when negative images were shown.
So unless the baby cries during a symphony of car alarms while a fly buzzes past Dad's face as he dreams about getting into a bar fight, Mom will probably have to get up to feed the little one.












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Tuesday 01 December
By Prashant
Dont agree with this research. I wake up every night 2-3 times whenever my baby cries.... might be the guys on whom research was done had taken sleeping pills for this research :-)
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Tuesday 01 December
By ChrisH
No way this "research" is accurate with me, personally. I have three children; with each of them, I heard each and every whimper, groan, and crying session. I was quick to the bed-side and more often than not; allowed my babies to sleep on my chest (while I was awake) the remainder of the night.
Sunday 06 December
By Russ
I also call shoddy research. There were nights I was lucky if I got any sleep. In fact, I wake up to the crying far faster and way more often than my wife.
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Monday 18 January
By Pres
That's because you guys are wusses.
I work all day, let the missus wake up and feed the rugrat.
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Monday 18 January
By Tyrone V. Hoofendorfer
Who writes this crap? Why do I read this crap? When I was a young Father it was ME, ME, ME that woke up while my wife snored away. Now I am a grandfather 5 times over. When one or more of the grandkids spends the night guess who wakes up!!!!! It's still ME, ME, ME!!!!!!!
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Wednesday 20 January
By emily
Haha so true!! I'm only 17 with no kids, I babysit sometimes and I can hear a baby waking up two rooms and two closed doors away. I get there before the crying! Totally maternal.
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Saturday 27 February
By Daniel
It was totally the oppisite in my family with all 3 of my boys. I was the one getting up and down every night with them, even my wife would testify to that.
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Saturday 27 February
By John
And where was these bougus pieces of medical research published?
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Saturday 27 February
By kristin
i'm going to have to agree with this article. my son is nine months old now and my husband hasn't woken up once since we brought him home!!! i've even tried putting the monitor right by his head and he still sleeps right through it! thank god he helps me out so much during the day or i may have to be mad about it : )
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Saturday 27 February
By tony
I am a single dad,two kids,8yo and 9 yo, their mother left them when my little girl was 4 mos.and make no mistake I not only woke up when my babies cried,i could tell by the pitch whether it was a soiled diaper,hunger or if they just didnt feel well. I consider myself a typical male,and other than giving birth and breastfeeding i cant see that I have come up short in either role as parent.
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Saturday 27 February
By Alyssa McCarthy
I think those that are calling this research bogus misunderstand the point of a scientific study. It's goal is not to identify behavior that is common to ALL of one set of people. Rather, it looks for the most likely occurrence, which in this case is men sleeping through the cries of a baby. That doesn't mean that all men do that. Just that a statistically significant portion of them do.
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Saturday 27 February
By Thomas
Wow. This doesn't at all reflect my reality. My wife can stand our son's crying; I can't, awake or sleeping. Her thing is, "He's all right, let him 'self-soothe' (our pediatrician's term." I'm thinking, "Uh, no. I gotta get up for work in the morning, and while he's 'self-soothing,' I'm not getting any peace of mind." It's to the point that I take the night shift, because my wife isn't reall fazed once she's made up her mind that nothing serious is the matter. On the other hand, I will spoil him rotten for a good forty winks (again, to our pediatrician's disapproval). This research sounds blatantly biased, as though it intentionally conforms to the once new, but now stale, stereotypes of men and women that arise out of evolutionary anthropology and psychology.
P.S. Alyssa McCarthy, you're right. but I don't see one statistical percentage (etc.) in this report. We responding to the statements they gave us, which are categorical (e.g. "the men's autonomic ...", not "some of the men's ...", "most of the men's...", or even "on average, the men's..."). Ah, American pop journalism...
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Monday 01 August
By the brainspider
i cant figure out why my wife cant hear any sound while sleeping,yelling her name a million times and once you finally wake her up she jumps up as if she bounced back in her body and just stares at you, . its absolutely crazy.her boy is becoming the same way. not sure what to do about it. it just cant be good. research is good i guess for now. you might want to redo your research . im up for my baby all the time
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