So, picture this: You're on your high school's prom committee. You came up with the theme. You've raised over $200 for the big event. But five months beforehand, your principal threatens to cancel it -- because of your date.This was the position 17-year-old Cynthia Stewart of Russellville, Ala., found herself in this fall, because as an out lesbian, Stewart wanted her girlfriend to accompany her to the March 2010 dance -- which Tharptown High School Principal Gary Odom initially forbade.
Odom announced that the event would be canceled to prevent any immoral girl-on-girl activities -- like dancing to the latest Lady Gaga tune or fighting over who looks better in the same Forever 21 gown.
Enter the ACLU, who sent the Franklin County Superintendent a strongly worded letter reminding them that such a decision would be unconstitutional -- which according to the Times Daily has since led the school to reverse their decision, albeit provisionally.
It seems that any potential prom guest from outside the school district is subject to being screened by school authorities.
Although Stewart's girlfriend has been described as "a teenager with no problems that would keep her from being able to attend the prom," that's no guarantee that Tharptown High officials won't take this as another opportunity for jerkdom, and that Stewart will get the prom she deserves.
Stewart doesn't want special treatment. As she told the Times Daily, "All I want is to be able to be myself and go to my prom with the person I love, just like any other student wants to do."












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Wednesday 11 November
By blueandgray
This is very sad. I am an Alabamian myself and I am sorry to see my state represented this way. I am fortunate enough to go to an in-state university where sexual diversity is celebrated.
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Wednesday 03 February
By carl13rc
YOU ARE AN IDIOT!!!!!!! AND ALL WHO THINKS THAT QUEERS AND LEZBOES NEED SPECIAL TREATMENT. HOMOS ARE SINNERS!!!!!!!! JUDGMENT WILL COME TO THEM AND THEIR SUPPORTERS!!!.......randy
Thursday 12 November
By Gourry
ACLU? LOL I didn't know you had a constitutional right to go to the prom. And the dyke raised $200.... way to break the bank.
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Thursday 12 November
By Robert
Thanks, gourry, for that perfectly ASININE comment.
You must be related to that Jerk at this students school.
And YES, the ACLU OFTEN defends RELIGIOUS rights when they are trampled on, a FACT that people like you DELIBERATELY IGNORE!
Wednesday 03 February
By Tantarah
This is wonderful news! Little by little, "Don't ask, don't tell" is crumbling in every aspect of our society. Right on, Cynthia! It is evident you are more enlightened than Principal Odom, obviously a leftover from the 1950's in you state.
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Wednesday 03 February
By Steven
It is simple have the straight prom somewhere else and the gay couple can have thier own little private prom or just boycott it. Maybe heterosexual people could stand up for their own rights.
Wednesday 03 February
By Lauren
Wow, Steven. Seperate but Equal...sounds familiar.
Why don't you do that with EVERYONE that's different. Yea! Great plan!
We'll have an Asian Prom, a black prom, a white prom, a gay prom, a straight prom....
I guess since you can't shun women and blacks anymore, the next logical group is gays. Pull your head out of your butt, and welcome to 2010.
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Wednesday 03 February
By melinda
well said Lauren...Diversity is what we all are..and everyone should be accepted. Discrimination is just down right WRONG!
Wednesday 03 February
By char
Everybody commenting on this situation have so much agression and hate. What is all this about???? People are acting like this is something new? Like this has never happened before??? Hahahaha! I just laugh reading all these comments..people are ridiculous and gets more more ridiculous as the decades pass ! LOL
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Thursday 11 March
By Karmen2
The reason that traditionally dances were for the opposite sex, at least in the early sixties, when I attended high school, was the for the sole purpose of courting. Most of the boys and girlīs life goals were marriage and having a family. We live in a different world shaped by many factors, the media, new philosophies and many hostile against traditional marriage and the pending over population factor. Even in 1961, there were a few high school kids that we knew that were homosexual and no one taunted them and many hung around with the traditional crowd and no one pressured anyone else with their sexual preferences.
Today there is a push for not only giving homosexual rights, but there is a thrust to encourage that we all practice homosexuality as a way of life. Many of those pushing this agenda are evangelistic in their pursuit. One evening about ten years ago my husband and I were shopping in a popular New Mexican town and we suddenly realized we were the only hetereosexual couple--everyone else was homosexual. So in the future as most people follow the fads, homosexuality may no longer involve a minority of the population. People are becoming programmed to shun the opposite sex and men and women now can go to the "sperm bank" and ironically request an anonymous donor from the opposite sex. From what I have observed, many of those involved in this new style of life were not born that way, but adopted it later in life. And then there are those who were, and I do know several, and now enjoy a hetereosexual relationship.
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Saturday 13 March
By Superschluetes
I wonder if carl13rc's religion told him to call people "idiot's", what a biggot, look where your religion has gotten you, an angry homophobe who thinks his fiction book is the only truth in the world, who wants to follow a book anyways, grow some balls and think for yourself, these religion's are the single biggest reason why our world is in self destruction mode
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Tuesday 23 March
By Karmen2
You are correct to question the beliefs of the angry "Christian." Jesus/Yahushua did not teach his disciples to lose self-control. He told them just to shake the dust of their feet and continue onward if they refuse to listen. Nothing more to say and also to bless their enemies. Apparently the "Christians" have many enemies in this time in history. What is a true Christian? One who is filled with love even to those who disagree with him or her. It is not a denomination or church affiliation--it is a way of life.