Oct 23rd 2009 By KissAndDish.com
Please Advise -- My Sister's Fiance Confessed He Wants Me
This Kiss And Dish reader has herself in a bit of a pickle:
So her sister's fiance wants to do her, but what should she do? Help a sister out and leave your advice in the comments below -- or go over to Kiss and Dish and post your thoughts there.
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Friday 23 October
By OMG!
Oh my gosh TELL you sister!! This guy is a total creepo!!!
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Friday 23 October
By Katherine
Oh I don't know that is a REALLY touchy, tricky subject. I would maybe think about this before acting. You don't want to totally screw up their lives!! Maybe he was just joking. See if it happens again. Or confront him.
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Friday 23 October
By Klove
Wow what a jerk!!!! I would definitely say something to her. That is really crossing the line, no matter how many ways you try!! She should tell her sister because if he's going to hit on her sister, imagine how many other girls he's hitting on or having sex with.
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Friday 23 October
By a jug of Clorox
If your man gets drunk and hits on your sister-- That's a Dealbreaker, ladies!
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Friday 23 October
By Lovin it
RUNNNNNNNNN!! Tell your sister to RUN!! Oh my god, you HAVE to tell her immediately.
Cool site by the way, thanks Lemondrop, I'm digging it.
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Saturday 24 October
By Loveme
This girl needs to tell her sister immediately. Even thought it will hurt her, it needs to be said. She needs to know before she makes a huge mistake.
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Sunday 25 October
By eflick
i would actually recommend talking to him SOBER first. approach him and let him know what he did and how you feel about it. If he's really embarrassed and asks you to please forgive him, then give him the chance to talk to your sister first. If he doesn't seem willing, let him know that you plan on doing it, if he doesn't. I'd also give him to opportunity to be there when you tell her. She 100% deserves to know, but you don't have to go running and tell her that he's the worst person in the world and she needs to leave him "like now!"
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Monday 26 October
By allana
well i would definetly tell my sister b/c if he's hitting on me you can bet that he's hitting on everyone else.
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Saturday 21 November
By Amy Bivalent
OMG I just had a similar situation happen to me! My new (but already very serious) BF's married cousin had been hitting me up via social networking sites regularly. I was thinking "wow, what a nice family. they are so friendly!" A couple of weeks later, I get this three page long email about how the creepy cousin thinks i'm hot and wants to meet up for dinner. I struggled with what to do (my initial reaction was to shoot back a quickie email about how lovely it was to meet your wife) but couldn't hold back the next morning - I had to tell my BF, mostly because I was so angry at the cousin for trying to screw up my relationship that I wanted to punch him in the face, and thought my guy needed to know that before the next family gathering. My BF immediately concocted this plan which involved emailing his cousin back as me and trying to get "the dirt" on exactly what his plans and intentions were. I tried to tell him this was a bad idea since after a couple of emails things were headed nowhere no good. thankfully he listened. We simultaneously de-friended him and are awaiting the fallout. It was hard throwing the wrench into someone's relationship with a family member but it HAD TO BE DONE. If it came down to my guy choosing between his cousin and his new girl so be it - I have no desire to be involved in someone else's marriage or date someone whose family acts that way! I feel horrible for the cousin's wife and kids and hope they do not get hurt by any of this!
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