It sounds like something straight out of a cheeseball Rachel McAdams/Ryan Gosling flick: boy meets girl, boy loses girl, man finds and marries woman 50 years later. But for Diane Harris and Rodney Day, the Hollywood ending is reality.Day must have drifted off to sleep, because when he woke up, the car was in a ditch, and his girlfriend had gone through the windshield. The sweethearts were taken to different medical centers -- Day was in the military and went to a local Air Force base for treatment, while Harris went to a nearby hospital.
Diane Harris's mother did not approve of the pairing, so the elder Harris used the accident as an opportunity to break the couple up. Mom told both teens that the other one wanted to end it, and Harris and Day never saw each other again.
Fast-forward 50 years to this April. Harris had been married and divorced twice, and Day became a widower in 2007. Day tracked down his high school sweetheart and sent her a letter. The two began emailing, and the couple married on October 17 at an Elks Lodge in Napa, Calif. Day told the New York Post, "It was like 50 years apart hadn't happened." (Want a good cry? Watch the video clip of the nuptials at the Napa Valley Register's site.)
You know what we love about this story, beyond the usual "love stands the test of time" schmaltz? That this reunion did not happen as a result of Facebook or any other social networking site.
You sometimes see the "OMG! My wife left me for her high school sweetheart!" story, but this is just about a guy who sent a letter and hoped to rekindle an old flame. (It's not always that sinister; this Florida couple rekindled their high-school romance on Facebook 30 years later.)
Still, there's something nice about a paper letter. As now newlywed Rodney Day told the New York Post, "I wasn't sure if it was her, and I'm not good on the phone, so I just wrote her a letter ... I figured that if it's not her, she can just wad it up."
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Sunday 25 October
By Henry
It would be even better if the Harris mother was an evil "step mother".
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Tuesday 27 October
By Sally G
Congratulations, Rodney and Diane! Best wishes in your life together.
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Sunday 25 October
By April Johnson
I am so very happy for you! What a truly amazing story!
To be honest, I have one similiar. I just recently found my junior high and High school love! Neither of us knew back then that we had a HUGE crush on the other. He used to climb in my bedroom window at night to watch TV with me and never once made a pass or tried to hold my hand. I was a tomboy back then and was rather plane-jane. I just figured he thought of me as one of the guys... I had such the crush that I rearranged classes to be in atleast one with him. we are now 29 years since we met, reunited and talking about a life together. I hope we can be as happy as you 2 look!
God Bless you both.
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Wednesday 30 June
By Jae
How sweeet, romantic - happy for you!
Sunday 25 October
By Carol Cathey
My Mother's mother did the same thing to her son.
It didn't work.
Love conquers.
God Bless Uncle Ray and Aunt Betty.
Screw the evil Alma Louise Maes Cours.
How horrible can evil old ladies be? What does it get them?
Hatred from their grandchildren and probably a seat in hell.
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Sunday 25 October
By maritess oldenburg
From a mother's perspective, I really do think that we have the best interest of our children in our hearts. Of course, there are more honest ways to go about making our wishes known. But think about it. Perhaps the mother was right. All romantic notions aside, has this man not been divorced twice? Perhaps he was a cheater. He has probably learned his lessons by now (hopefully) and I wish them the best of luck. For her sake anyway.
Sunday 25 October
By Coach Effi Jor'don
I am a relationship coach, it is a pleasure to learn that people still believe in the old fashion love story, No one want to get out and met each other. Just go online and date. Then they wonder why it doe's not work, He was not what he said. When will we understand that we can write anything online.
This is truly a story that let's you know that God is still in the relationship business. I wish them the rest of their lives, complete happiness.
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Sunday 25 October
By Darlene Coleman
To all parents: Good intentions considered; let your children live their lives...not yours. If a mistake is made then let it be their mistake, not yours that they ultimately have to live with...fifty years wasted...and for her two bad marriages...if only she had been allowed to follow HER heart and not her Mom's...
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Sunday 25 October
By Bill
You are SO right. And this should be a lesson to ANYONE who pulls sh--- like this woman's mother. It WILL bite you in the a--.
Sunday 25 October
By alex med
VERY WELL SAID!!!!
Sunday 25 October
By MARIANNE
Exactly! And that way they cannot blame you!
Sunday 25 October
By Darlene Coleman
...that, too, Marianne!!!
Sunday 25 October
By Kent Brown
Sounds like my story. I had to wait 30+ years to reunite with my first girlfriend (4th grade). It all started at a high school reunion. We missed some good years, but the last 10 have been the best of our lives, and I hope that is true for this couple. Good job!
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Sunday 25 October
By dian cunningham
what an exciting ending...i don't think that could happen in my case...
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Sunday 25 October
By JT
Hi dian,
Why would you say it wouldnt happen to you?
Sunday 25 October
By LLawrence0129
His mother told me that he was just using me and was trying to get back to
his exwife.. so I threw him out, took him to court.. Then saw him with someone
else..... so sometimes mama knows best. she died two years afterwards..
so if she lied she is in hell.
Everything does not end in hearts and flowers, does it.?
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Sunday 25 October
By Sarah
I agree with you on one level there. I'm tired of the judgemental menality of my grandparents generation, I still see it out there. But, well. I think when people choose to unfiarly screw with other peoples lives, its not usually becassue of deliberate intent, (not usually). its almost always contributed to ignorance. Believe me, they are not in hell. I think Its actually harder to deal with admitting you were wrong, even when you have to do it in your next life, becasue it means you have to face what you did and repair you karma in order to move on and finish your growth. She'll have to make it up some how to her daughter in the future unless it was something she set up to learn in order to perfect.
Sunday 25 October
By Veena Grover
Mothers love their children, but some times moms can be very possessive, Evil & nervewrecking.Their love some times can be too controlling.
The foundation of love in two hearts keep the family going & I still believe, inner strength in human being can cross any difficulties & prove love is a real thing in the hearts. Blessings.
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Sunday 25 October
By mary lou
I just awoke to a sunny day in the USA and read this story. It reminded me that true love and sharing never goes away if you leave your heart open. I was engaged to a man,with a small child of six like my little girl. We were planning our lives when hassles arose with custody of our kids, family issues with the ex's and normal every day stuff. We each moved out of state to escape the negativity and then lost one another. I was so hurt and just had to keep hoping we could find each other again. I got on my computer, put in his name and birthdate, plus the town where he was born--he popped righrt up on my screen living in Florida. I sat down and sent an e-mail to the website where I found him. I always called him "the Professor" because he taught me some much of unselfish love and sharing. No man has ever touched my heart so deeply and honestly. I rtemembered we wrote notes to each other even though we shared a home while planning our wedding. That one small written note I sent him had a copy of his property location and taxes, with mortgage co, included to prove to him it was really me and I found him. He opened my note and read it on his birthday, then went to the e-mail--then called me at my home. I lost the Professor for 25 years-but when he holds me in his arms now it is like only a day has passed. Never close your heart because your one true love will find his way back and you will never lose the connection you worked to create together.
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Sunday 25 October
By rosemarie
what a great story, good for you both!