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6. Should you dump a guy who won't go down on you?57% of glamour.com readers say NO.
Yes: "Drop him! I once dated a guy, let's call him 'the guy who wouldn't perform oral but wanted a blow job every hour on the hour.' Finally I brought it up. His reply: 'That's just not my thing.' I'll blame youth for the fact that I stuck with him for a year. When he begged to get back together, I never considered it. He was selfish in bed." -- Anonymous, 35, New York City
No: "Maybe he doesn't like the texture or flavor or scent; maybe he fears he'll have trouble getting it back up; or he might just not know what to do. As long as he doesn't expect to receive oral sex and you have other ways to climax, cut the guy some slack and talk it through." -- Em & Lo, Glamour contributors and emandlo.com bloggers
7. Sex during your period: yes or no?
40% of glamour.com readers say YES.
8. Is it ever OK to sleep with your ex?
78% of glamour.com readers say NO.
Yes: "As long as you go into it with a clear mind-set -- knowing it's complicated, knowing you have issues and knowing the relationship can't go forward -- I say yes! Do it! All of the pressure is off, and you can just enjoy each other as friends and lovers without the intensity and the fights. Whenever I go back to my ex-husband, Travis, I have a sense of comfort and stability. We're exes, but there's still that substance there, that history." -- Shanna Moakler, reality TV star and on-again, off-again ex-wife of blink-182's Travis Barker
No: "I had a lot of trouble getting over my last boyfriend, and the best advice I got was to stop sleeping with him. It's kind of a 'duh' statement, but it's so easy to think, What's the harm? It's not adding to my 'number.' But for women, sex is really bonding, so sleeping with a guy makes it impossible to get over him. Why torture yourself?" -- Kristin, 26, Park City, Utah
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Friday 23 October
By James Griffin
A Man that will not go down on his Woman still be kicked to the curb. There is nothing finer then looking over her belly and see her enjoying life. Enought said!!!!!!
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Sunday 25 October
By Richard
One of the most important things a man can do vis a vis pleasing a woman is to familiarize himself with Ernst Grafenbergs writings. I taught my son about this when he was 18.
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Monday 26 October
By Cody
...How about you DON'T sleep with multitudes of people and stop being whores?
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Tuesday 27 October
By Meade
Nevermind.I was going to say how rude your comment is,but it would probably just fall on deaf ears.Besides I'm not trying to get into a typing argument with someone I don't even know.(even though your comment is for women you'll never meet,and do not know either),So I'll just say not all men(emphasis on Men)share your opinion about women.
Tuesday 27 October
By Meade
Personally I Love to go down on a woman.The sight,the smell,the taste,the textures,her moans,her squeals,her wiggles,it's just so erotic to me.I Love it ! I also think that fore play is sometimes even more intense than the actual intercourse,and a very important part of making love to a woman.I guess my comment would be,depending on how you feel about the guy you might discuss why he won't go down on you.Maybe it's a mental thing rather than a physical one (smell,taste,etc.).I would never expect someone to do something to me,that I wouldn't do to them.I have had oral sex from a few women,but I have never requested it from any of them,although I have had women tell me they wanted me to go down on them(and you should see the smiles when I tell them"Oh I definately intend to").I feel that is something you do "for"
your partner.Something special,not something you ask for.I Love to bring a woman to orgasm,It seems the more excited I can get her,the more excited I am.I guess it all boils down to how important it is to you,Espically since a lot of woman need the direct stimulation to orgasm.Although I enjoy when a woman goes down on me,I wouldn't break up with one that didn't.specifically for that reason.Now a woman that wouldn't let me go down on her,That I would definately have a problem with.If we couldn't rectify that issue,I would probably consider ending the relationship because I enjoy it so much.Thankfully I havent had this delimma yet. :)
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Wednesday 28 October
By Josh
In regardes to the sleeping with your ex I think that it is a definate no! My gf cheated on me with her ex! Like a month after her and I lost our virginities to each other, So I say it's a hell no to sleep with your ex!
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