Imagine a place where you could reveal your deepest, darkest secrets without fear of judgment. Frank Warren did, and with that in mind he created the blog PostSecret in 2004. It's a site that posts the handmade postcards readers mail to him with a never-before-told secret written on it. Now he's one of Forbes.com's top Web Celebrities of 2009, and his fifth book "POSTSECRET: Confessions on Life, Death, and God" has just been published. We thought we'd ask him a few questions on his inspiration, his new book -- and what makes for good secrets.
So your fifth book "POSTSECRET: Confessions on Life, Death, and God" was just released a few days ago. Sounds like some heavy stuff.
Yeah, ha, it's got secrets that are silly, sexual, hopeful, and heartbreaking. They're secrets more of a spiritual nature, though -- secrets that reveal our deeper connection with a higher power. One of them is a picture of a church steeple and it says, "I am too much woman for all the pansy ass guys at church."
POSTSECRET: Confessions on Life, Death, and God
He may not have known it at the time, but Frank Warren started a movement in 2004 with his website, PostSecret.com. The idea was to invite visitors to anonymously hand make postcards with a secret on it. They would then send said postcard to Warren, who collected them all and posted some selections on the site every week. The only real rule is that the secret must be true and can't have ever been told before. The phenom grew, and soon Warren was holding art openings featuring select postcards and gathering them together for bestselling books.
On Tuesday (Oct. 6th), Warren released the newest book in this community art project. Lemondrop has a few of the images that are showcased in the book to share with you here.
Courtesy of PostSecret: Confessions on Life, Death, and God
Courtesy of PostSecret: Confessions on Life, Death, and God
Courtesy of PostSecret: Confessions on Life, Death, and God
Courtesy of PostSecret: Confessions on Life, Death, and God
Courtesy of PostSecret: Confessions on Life, Death, and God
Courtesy of PostSecret: Confessions on Life, Death, and God
Courtesy of PostSecret: Confessions on Life, Death, and God
Courtesy of PostSecret: Confessions on Life, Death, and God
Courtesy of PostSecret: Confessions on Life, Death, and God
Where did you get the idea for PostSecret?
The idea was to create a safe, non-judgmental place for people to share the things they aren't usually comfortable discussing or sharing.
And about how many submissions per week do you receive and how do you choose which ones get posted?
I get about 1,000 secrets per week, and I post about 20 every Sunday. I look for a ring of authenticity and real human emotions. Every week there are secrets that might make you laugh or make you cry. I try to tell a story with the secrets.
What do you think makes PostSecret so popular?
It's the sense of authenticity. There's not many places where strangers can share this kind of vulnerability.
I know there's been a music video -- do you have any other plans for PostSecret, aside from the Web site and the books?
What I've been doing more of lately is going to schools and talking about it. Sharing the secrets and showing them on a screen behind me. And more and more students have been standing up afterward and sharing their secrets, which is very personal, and can be very ... emotional.
It must be a lot more challenging to in a non-anonymous atmosphere.
I think young people feel more comfortable talking about parts of their lives their parents never would have discussed.
Do you have a favorite PostSecret?
There was one that was sent in on a Starbucks cup. It said, "I give decaf to customers who are rude to me."
That's funny -- I used to work in a coffee shop and I would do the exact opposite. I would give regular coffee to people who ordered decaf, which is so terrible.
Oh, really? I'll have to remember that. Wow, learned something new today. I bet a could get a few good postcards from you.
Frank Warren's "POSTSECRET: Confessions on Life, Death, and God" is available everywhere books are sold. Buy your copy and help keep PostSecret alive! View the photo gallery for a small sample of what's inside.
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Sunday 11 October
By bob
kool
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Sunday 11 October
By joy
I don't know why others are compelled to tell their darkest secrets... or if it is right or wrong... but when I saw this article I was immediately drawn to it. I have a terrible secret that stays with me no matter how many times I cry out to God to forgive me. And even though I know in my heart He loves me and has forgiven me, I feel like I must be a huge disappointment to Him, like He could not possibly like me and that He must feel only discust for me. The knowledge that I could do such a thing eats at me so much that I often find myself imagining I am someone else just to escape having to be myself. I have had years of therapy and never once have I been able to tell any of my shrinks or anyone else about it. When they begin to get too close and realize that there is something I am not telling them, that is when I have to change Drs. It isn't because of fear of retribution for what I've done... it isn't an illegal act. But I feel such shame and guilt and regret. I have this deep desire to be able to tell just one person and have them not be disgusted with me. If they could understand just a tiny bit, then maybe I could understand and live with myself.
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Monday 12 October
By IBelieveGoodLife
Joy, I was drawn to this site and have read all the posts up to yours, but yours is the only one that really touched me. I think I would have compassion for anyone who felt so strongly that he/she needed forgiveness for something so awful. What a burden to carry around for a lifetime! There is probably not a person alive who doesn't feel deep regret at something they have done (after all, none of us is perfect) but if a person is ever to be happy they must somehow come to terms with what they did. I think it helps to know why one did it, but maybe that isn't necessary for everyone. Some counselors are able to lead a person to that place of coming to terms with it. But many people are left feeling just as empty as they were before. I am praying that God will lay his healing hand on you and let you know how much He loves you.
Sunday 11 October
By Lindsey
I dont like the caffeine switch, I happen to be very sensitive to caffeine and get a weak empty feeling when I drink it, so it's kinda like giving someone a food they are allergic too after they specifically asked for the kind that doesn't cause problems. Just cause someone pisses you off, doesn't give you the right to potentially harm them.
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Sunday 11 October
By brenda
Hey,we all have alot of secrets an we should try an keep them to our self.There so many people today worry an wondreing how they are even gonna make it from day to day.For they may have little children to feed,or either homeless.We also have a very big problem with drugs,people wanting to judge one an another.I feel what we need to do is pray for each other,an have a loveable heart instead of hate an selfish.For i have never seen a hurse pulling a uhaul.Lets all pray for our country,an most of all.PUT LOVE BACK IN YOUR HEARTS.Thats why i feel nobody can talk to nobody for hate,judgementle.
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Sunday 11 October
By kelsey
Okay, one:i'm catholic and scribbles, now your just discriminating against peoples religions. And Jesus was real, just to let you know. People need to get their facts straight. Mybe you don't belive in God but other people do so you need to respect that. And just because your catholic, doesn't mean you hate gay people. I'm totally fine with that and i support it. To chloe, just because you don't always confess to God about everything, doesn't mean that your not a good catholic. Venting to people is very helpful and they give you advice which God can't really do. I hear this alot and we all need to think about it: Can't we all just get along? This article was written to help people and to inform them about something great that has been written. If everyone is fighting with each other, how are we supposed to do anything good in the world?
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Sunday 11 October
By Accepted?
ceej, I completely understand...shutup. but sometimes, it is just
wanting to be accepted, regardless of your secret. The secret, often
is something that should not HAVE to be a secret at all. Society
dictates all too often what is acceptable and not acceptable,
unfortunately as does family. I just want to love and be loved
without judgement, and yes, family is a struggle, but I also struggle
with society's view on "love" and "acceptance." I have loved two
people in my 40+ years, a girl and a guy. they fell apart for
different reasons, with her, I wanted kids, she didn't. With him, he
said he "loved" me and I couldn't handle that, more directly, I couldn't
handle other peoples UNacceptance of that! So here I am, a lonely
man, insecure, in touch with who i am but unable to just be at this point.... I
think i need a psychiatrist! oh wait, I'm a doctor...still no help, so i will shut up!
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Monday 12 October
By vick
it seems to me like someone (scribbles) is pretty bitter about religion, christianity in general. from my own personal experiences, i can understand where you're coming from. the majority of my teenage years were spent in rebellion against everything, even God, because i was so disappointed in the people i encountered at church. at one church in particular there was a ridiculous amount of pressure to be perfect, which forced everyone to put on "masks" and be hypocrits. it made me sick. but now that i'm older, have lost two very, very dear to me, and almost died myself in a car accident, i realize that life is a precious gift. i don't understand how people can look at a sunrise, feel the wind in their hair, witness the changing seasons, even look at cells under a microscope, and not believe that a higher power created it all. God is not a mean God. he loves each and every one of us. Jesus suffered, bled, died on the cross because he loves us. each and every one of us, who all have a specific purpose in the world.
if you've had bad experiences in the past with religion, church, or whatever, that would make you sound so bitter, i am sorry and want you to know that jesus loves you and will never let you go. i thank God every day that He didn't let me go.
there needs to be a revolution in christianity--not just catholicism, baptist, etc.--where people make a change. ours is a religion based on love and acceptance. Jesus associated himself with tax collectors and sinners, not the Pharisees and priests. we need to start exemplifying His love, grace, and mercy, rather than looking down our noses at people who are bitter, ignorant, or don't know God. we all sin and have no right to judge others for their sins.
"let he who has not sinned cast the first stone"
"all you need is love" (that one's the beatles... lol)
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Monday 12 October
By mike
Your only as sick as your secrets
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Monday 12 October
By valerie5656
It is amazingly wonderous to know that we are all linked by our secrets.. good; bad; sexual; spiritual; ect. We have all touched on the same thoughts at one time or another - or will touch on them at some point in our lifes.. Amazing, wonderous, scary, comforting.. i am SOOO glad someone did this .. enabled us to share.. I truely hope everyone eventually gets how much of an impact this has had and wil have on their lifes.. if they let it. and how much it was make our interaction; the impact on the world.. !!.. if we just get how much we are alike...
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Tuesday 13 October
By Chris
A "safe, non-judgemental place" to reveal your deepest, darkest secrets? Oh, please, this is more like a COMPLETELY PUBLIC PLACE where everyone can see what's going on inside of YOU. In my opinion, Frank Warren just wants to exploit YOU. Don't buy into it. Your feelings are worth much more than he can sell them for.
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Thursday 15 October
By Anika
I love post secret! I read it every sunday!
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