I have a confession to make. I almost always pee with the door open. I don't know how I got into this habit. I never really thought much about it until I realized that my friends ALWAYS shut and lock the door. Even when they're at my house and we're the only two people there. I thought maybe they didn't trust me. What am I gonna do? Run in there and give them wedgies?
Turns out, most people grow up in more modest homes, where people wore bathrobes and towels and never walked around naked or left bathroom doors open.
I'm one of four kids and, though not officially nudists, no one in my family was ever shy. If you tried to lock the bathroom door, within minutes someone would be banging on the door to get in. Someone might be showering, while another person was peeing and another blow-drying their hair all at the same time. Privacy and modesty were concepts that just didn't exist, and I never thought to question it. It was just the way it was.
Click here for the reasons I like to pee with the door open.
1. Closing the door is totally unnecessary. Wasted energy. Saves time.
2. It's easier for me to keep talking to whomever is there with me if the door is open.
3. My cats love to come up for a scratch while I'm peeing and if I shut the door I'd miss that one-on-one time with them.
4. Easier to escape in the event of an emergency or natural disaster.
5. It's kind of a bonding thing. It means I trust you and am comfortable with you.
6. Have a better view of the dust and cat hair under my bed and know when it's time to vacuum.
7. Easier to hear if the phone is ringing or someone is at the door.
8. Better air circulation.
9. Don't get germs on my hands from touching the door knob.
10. Makes it easier to yell to my boyfriend when I realize I have run out of toilet paper and need him to bring me a roll.
What do you think? Do you like to leave the door open or closed? Under what circumstances do you think it's OK to leave the door open, and when is it just wrong?
I mean, I read online that a woman was having issues with her mother-in-law peeing with the door open. I wouldn't leave the door open in front of my boyfriend's parents. I draw the line at their house. I don't mind if a random stranger walks in on me in a public restroom, but I don't need to give Dr. Zickel a friggin' heart attack.












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Monday 25 January
By Sophia
my mom is the same way! at friends house i know they'll leave the bathroom door open when they shower but not when using the toilet lol
to each his own i guess lol
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Friday 28 August
By Al
We dont wanna know.
We dont wanna know.
We dont wanna know.
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Friday 28 August
By Autumn
I grew up the exact same way! Nobody really cared about nakedness, and again, we weren't nudists either... I
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Friday 28 August
By Bridget
Yikes!
First, this article brought up a suppressed memory of a horrible roommate I had who (among *many* other things) used to come in and use the bathroom while I was showering. Listen, if you can't hold it and we're friends like that, by all means come on in, but there was an incident where I was like "what's that smell". I'll say no more but if you need to go #2 you better wait until the bathroom is vacant.
As far as general open-door-peeing, I leave the door open all the time when I'm alone - what's the point? But when other people are in the equation it's less about you and more about them and I don't want to listen to anyone pee.
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Friday 28 August
By david
You need to develop some manners.
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Friday 28 August
By THEkrps
OK, I can't resist this one.
I grew up in a one-bathroom household, with 6 people in the house, we had an open-door policy when it came to the bathroom. Oh, and the door did not lock.
Since that time, with the exception of 5 short years, I have always had only one bathroom in every place I lived. I have maintained the open-door policy. In my house, when I am in the bathroom the door remains open or ajar.
I figure if you gotta go, you gotta go, so, do. If you don't like it, stay out of my house. I don't always shut the door when I have company, often, I simply forget others are in the house. When I'm in other households, I try to shut and lock the door.
On a similar note, if you are in a public place, when you know the door locks, do you knock on a closed bathroom door or simply walk in? I'd like to know because this is a difference of opinion between me and others.
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Friday 28 August
By THEkrps
OK, I can't resist this one.
I grew up in a one-bathroom household, with 6 people in the house, we had an open-door policy when it came to the bathroom. Oh, and the door did not lock.
Since that time, with the exception of 5 short years, I have always had only one bathroom in every place I lived. I have maintained the open-door policy. In my house, when I am in the bathroom the door remains open or ajar.
I figure if you gotta go, you gotta go, so, do. If you don't like it, stay out of my house. I don't always shut the door when I have company, often, I simply forget others are in the house. When I'm in other households, I try to shut and lock the door.
On a similar note, if you are in a public place, when you know the door locks, do you knock on a closed bathroom door or simply walk in? I'd like to know because this is a difference of opinion between me and others.
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Friday 28 August
By prufrock
Peeing is fine and dandy, but I believe in total privacy when putting a dog through the hoop. That goes for everyone; it is an act which should not be shared.
Except in the case that you may be laying pipe on Norm Coleman's lawn. Then it must be Youtubed.
Man, I'm sophomoric.
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Friday 28 August
By Cat
If I'm home alone, I don't shut the door. Three cats all want in and want me to turn on the tap for them and get some loving. One cat even wants to crawl into the pants around my ankles.
If I have guests over, I do shut the door. They don't need to see/hear.
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Thursday 08 October
By Kathleen
That's hilarious b.c. I do the same exact thing. Although one of my cats likes to be a lap cat only when I'm on the toilet. (Kind of disgusting, but funny at the same time.)
Friday 28 August
By Rabbit
I pee with the door cracked open just a tad, unless there are guests in the apartment. I feel safer that way, and I have no idea why. If my boyfriend isn't home, I'll just leave the door wide open.
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Thursday 03 September
By Diva
i am with you on that!!
Friday 28 August
By dannyfrom504
HAHAHAHAHA!!!! this happened once with a girl i dated. she ALWAYS peed with the door open. if you always pee with the door open, then i suddenly notice you're in there and the door is closed. i know you're dropping a deuce, and a certain air of feminine mystery is gone forever.
she never peed with the door open again. i didn't tease her, but i pointed out that i knew what she was blowing up my terlet.
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Thursday 10 September
By jenn
well i poop with the door open and my boyfriend never notices he would tell me. sometimes he comes in while i am taking a poo and our cat to. wE ALWAYS PEE WITH THE DOOR OPEN! THIS BROUGHT US CLOSER :)
Friday 28 August
By Mandy
Lol, everytime my cousins or my bestfriend is over, they come in with me, or I go in with them. We are very close. Its not like we stare at them while we/I pee.
We usually look in the mirror and stuff.
But other than that, I ALWAYS close the door.
You see, I have 2 1/2 bathrooms. 2 with toliets and a sink, and in the middle of those bathrooms, is a room with a bathtub by itself. When I take a shower, I lock the door on the side my room is, which is on the right.
What I can say is, its your house. Do what you like. Peeing is a natural thing.
Its okay if you leave the door open when home alone, or with your boyfriend, but when company is over, it really isn't best to excuse yourself from dinner, to use the restroom and leave the door open so they can listen to you pee while you eat.
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Saturday 29 August
By Jodi
If its around "newer" people please shut the door! Esp a new boyfriend or something, lol.
In my case I dont always shut the door around my bf (9 yrs @ only 24)... but I do sometimes. Not sure why or why not. When I want to take my sweet time in the bathroom I shut the door but I dont if im just in and out.
But yes I did grow up in a household such as that where I'd be in the shower and someone would be blow dryign their hair & the other peeing.
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Saturday 29 August
By Edie
door open
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Saturday 29 August
By jerry
I 've got one better...
I live in the country... my nearest neighbor lives miles away... I almost always go outside and pee... I walk right by the bathroom and go outside to do my duty..
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Thursday 10 September
By Jess
every male in my house does the exact same thing. i honestly don't understand what the appeal is.
Tuesday 15 September
By biil
I pee out side all year round to save water.