For better or for worse, Facebook has a knack for bringing people together decades after they've lost touch. Most reunions lead to a few "Hey how are you, cute family!" wall posts, but every now and then, one results in a bona fide fairy-tale romance.
That's what happened for Jaime Benefit, 32, and Jeremy Clayton, 38, of Charleston, S.C., who first started writing to each other while Clayton was serving in Desert Storm 19 years ago.
Pen Pals
When she was 13 years old and growing up in Ohio, Benefit had penned a letter to "Any Soldier" after her mom saw a newspaper ad about supporting the troops.
Clayton, a 19-year-old South Carolina native serving with the 3rd Armored Cavalry Regiment, plucked Benefit's letter from the bunch because she'd used green ink and he liked the way she spelled her name. The two kept writing to each other until the war ended, supporting each other and becoming confidants.
Benefit rediscovered the letters while her parents were remodeling her old room. "We wrote about sports, our home towns, music and general-interest things," Benefit said in an interview with Lemondrop. "I just re-read them for the first time and they are so cute!"
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After scanning through them, Jaime became curious about what had happened to her friend from around the world. She contacted the Department of Defense for information on Clayton, but they had none. Earlier this year, she searched Facebook. Despite there being a sea of Jeremy Claytons registered on the site, she found the right one and sent him a message.
He was happy she'd found him, and the two planned to meet in March. Once they did, their platonic affection from years ago blossomed into a bond much more intense.
"It was definitely love at first sight," Benefit said of the meeting. "You just know."
Shortly after meeting, Clayton proposed. The pair got married July 15 on the beach in Charleston. Even though their romance happened quickly, Benefit (who moved from Ohio to South Carolina) said their families were "very excited" for them.
"The Same, Just Older"
Clayton, who retired from the military, is the manager of Gary's Paint and Body shop, and Benefit works in sales. They still do what brought them together in the first place -- write each other notes.
"I think we're just the grown-up versions of ourselves," Benefit said. "Pretty much the same, just older. We are larger than life to each other."
On the fact that she found her soul mate using Facebook, she said it's "a very personal decision and each situation is different. But if you want to reach out to someone, there is no better time than the present."
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Tuesday 11 August
By Tori
My boyfriend and I reconnected on Facebook after an almost 5 year span from the time we new each other in high school. We have been happily dating for a year, and are talking about getting married.
Congrats to this couple for finding true love and reconnecting after all those years.
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Tuesday 11 August
By Laura
In 1990-91as a part of the Dear Abby support of our troops over the holidays, I too wrote a letter "to any soldier". A few weeks later I got a letter from a sailor in the Navy. His Name was John Clark. The first line of his letter was " I think I am the luckiest guy on the ship". We wrote back and forth for almost a year. I think I feel in love but we never met and then lost touch. I kept those letters for years as they were so romantic. I memory now at 43 stinks and his name is so common. I will always him.
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Tuesday 11 August
By Boog
I was in the Navy and received letters from school children who's teachers asked them to write a letter to those serving oversea's. And trust me it was nice to correspond with a few of them. We even exchanged Christmas gifts. All I have to say is when you're in combat the last thing on your mind is becoming a pedophile...so get your mind out of the gutter!..Free
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Tuesday 11 August
By f1irtwithstarrs
i was at this chicks first wedding she is a gold digger and a user and she lost her virginity at 12 and ran up her ex husbands credit card leaving him in debt. this chick is scandalous
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Tuesday 11 August
By T$
Doesn't sound like you should've been at her wedding if you have so much s*** to talk.
Saturday 15 August
By Casey Parker
That's really quite creepy,what an old creepy man to have a romance with a 13 year old girl. Especially a woman as attractive is she is,she could get a handsome young man, or atleast an active duty soldier!!! What a creepy old retired man...Look at his face,,,HE'S A CREEP!
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Wednesday 12 August
By Karl
A 19 year old SERVICEMAN willing to die for our country overseas (barely a non-kid himself?) writing a 13 year old penpal? Its been going on for decades. Children were encouraged by their teachers in the first world war to write soldiers. Many of them didn't get letters from family. The letters from school children (both male and female) helped them stay connected to "home" when they were thousands of miles away from anyone they knew. I'd be willing to bet anything that NONE of the letters exchanged between the two had anything risque or inappropriate as insinuated. A school child helping a soldier making it through hell.. Nothing more. As far as anything re her already being married? Its none of my business - or yours. People leave bad marriages everyday. myself included. My ex-wife is a wonderful woman... I'm an OK guy.. we just had no business being married. Should any of my future happiness be negated because I asked for a divorce?
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Tuesday 11 August
By lauralynn
It sounds like the friends of the original couple are a little surprised by this. Could it be that the first husband was also? Maybe she wasn't HONEST with him?
Could it be that she might end up being a HUGE disapointment to the new husband as well?
Those of you in search of a good love story might be better served by reading Danielle Steele. She never dissapoints somebody looking for the same old love story.
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Tuesday 11 August
By Teresa
Just to clear up any misunderstandings. I do NOT think it is creepy for children to write to our military personnel. I support our troops and anything we can do for them. I Do NOT have anything against her new husband. My ISSUE is that she was not honest with her first husband and that she began the relationship with husband #2 while still married to husband #1. To me that is cheating. She never let on that she wasn't happy. She owed it to husband #1 and now to husband #2 to be honest and try to make it work. (Do you not remember till death do us part?) If she had told her first husband she wasn't happy and they split up and THEN she moved on, I would wish her well. Unfortunately that is NOT what happened. She lied to him, she lied to my husband and I wouldn't be surprised if she lied to her new husband too.
Tuesday 11 August
By ninaa
i think this is the perfect story, obvi they posted this on the web to show sometimes true love can last a long time or be found in magical ways..and for the ones that have negitive thoughts or cant see that well..why both and post them on here?
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Tuesday 11 August
By nina
im in love with this!
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Tuesday 11 August
By T$
She's clearly wearing a bathing suit with a wrap.. I mean, they did get married on the BEACH! Everyone always wants to make great stories seem so screwed up. Sounds like SOME OF YOU are just jealous that nothing this exciting has ever happened to you.. and you wonder why.
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Tuesday 11 August
By Amanda
that's wikiddd cute!
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Tuesday 11 August
By KP
Ryan and Lisa,
You can look up her marriage and her divorce by searching Wayne County Clerk of Court, Wayne County, Ohio. She was married in Wooster, Ohio in 1976 and filed for divorce on March 11, 2009. It appears that dissolution was granted on April 23, 2009. And, in case you were wondering, I don't know either party, I was just curious as to the truth behind the story. It is pretty clear that she was cheating while married to her husband.
It is true that marriages end. We shouldn't hope for people to be caught in unhappy marriages. However, we can expect them to deal with these difficult situations in a manner that is positive. It is not positive to keep one person dangling while you hunt for your new partner. If you are unhappy, then end the marriage, stand on your own two feet and look to yourself, not others, for the negativity in your life.
What I get from this story is that she needed an man in her life to support her (either financially or emotionally, who knows which) and sought to find another who would meet those needs before she dumped the one she didn't care for. It is a shame that Jaime didn't with greater honesty and integrity. I actually feel sorry for Jeremy.
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Wednesday 12 August
By Lisa
How can the official records say she was married in 1976 if she is only 32 years old?
Tuesday 11 August
By T$
And for those of you that think her "ex-husband" is much better off, good for you. We don't care. Stop trying to jump on the bandwagon with Ms. Teresa and acting like a bunch of mean girls. You sound like you're in high school. GROW UP!
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Tuesday 11 August
By Jeanie
awwwwwwwwwwwwww : ) what a great litle love story.. you go Clayton and Benett.. it's nice to know love is out there, and not just in books or the movies.. have a happy life.
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Tuesday 11 August
By lauralynn
Give me a break, what are you, her Mother?
Give me a sickengly sweet story like this one and I'll show you a persone who shaped all facts for thei own purpose.
Obviously this woman is one of those, but, whatever. Give her two minutes of fame, and hopefully she'll go away.
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Tuesday 11 August
By Tom Aston
I don't think their letter writing was creepy back then. What is creepy is her choice of wedding dress, so wrong! I'm sorry to say it lends a little credence to the folks bashing her here. All the quotes are from her, why aren't there any from him - perhaps she was seeking out publicity as someone else mentioned. Seems like a nice story, but the cynic in me doesn't think this one will end well.
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Tuesday 11 August
By coloradoz71chev
@Teresa that is madd scandalous, and so what if it is true? The "other friend of the ex husband" had to put her two cents in too? Its a wonder either of you have kept a man yourselves...prolly out hookin with the ex husband right now. I had 2 penpals when i was in the marines one was a 16 y/o female and the other was a 67 y/o female...theres nothing creepie about it, it helped pass the time youd be amazed at how far a few kind words tend to go these days. Good story, if theyre both happy god bless them...
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