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2. Not having sex is also (sadly) normal.An estimated 15 percent of married couples have not had sex with their spouse in the last six months to a year. Yikes! If you're one of those couples, then here's a little advice from Kimberly Dawn Neumann, co-author of "Sex Comes First: 15 Ways to Save Your Relationship -- Without Leaving Your Bedroom": "I would suggest that a couple in a sexual rut also try to go back and look at what initially attracted them to their partner," says Neumann.
"Though change is a natural function of any relationship, there are still likely elements of that person you fell for on full display if you look hard enough. Treating your partner like your LOVER and not just your responsibility sharer (i.e. person who helps you parent/pay bills/etc.) can do much to rekindle the feelings of passion."
If it's an issue of sex drive, then suggestions on ramping up your sex drive include cooking with your SO, treating yourself to a new fragrance, and spending more time on foreplay.
