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Men reveal what goes through their brains right before they decide to say screw monogamy."It's rarely a calculated decision. No one says, 'Hey, I'm going to cheat.' They do it because it's new and different -- that's the main thing. Oh, and those rambling excuses you get when we get caught? Those are true. It really did mean nothing. I was very drunk. It really was just once."
-- Adam, 31
"Sometimes the opportunity to cheat really just falls into our lap. That's when we're most vulnerable. We just want to feel good about ourselves."
-- Carlos, 23
"Deciding to cheat is a lot like spontaneously going to Atlantic City. When your friend says, 'Hey, man, let's go to AC tonight,' you think, If I don't go to Atlantic City, what will I be missing?"
-- Sean, 26
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Wednesday 01 July
By Jacqueliine
I am a female but think this: Guys who cheat need to be free, (FREE BIRD) so they can go out and fly solo. This is the solution to the problems that guys cause because they aren't ever happy with what they have at home.
If you want to cheat on your relationship, end it first. This is the mature thing to do because otherwise you are putting your "loved one" at risk of catching an STD from you, you Troll! Yes!
Even if you have the foresight to use a condom, no promises... still can contract a disease. and pass it on to her. That is a lifetime of problems and the lifetime may be shorter than you think.... "think about it!"
It is all about stroking "things" such as your ego. GO do it, to it, just end the exclusive relationship first. You can't have your cake and eat it too.. Choose what you want and stick with it! PLEASE--And continue to stick it until YOU grow old and by yourself. Allow her the fighting chance to move on and hopefully find someone worthy of her love, loyalty and TRUST!
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Wednesday 01 July
By Vic DelMonaco
I am a middle aged man, married to a wonderful woman and yes I have cheated. I did not wake up one morning and decide that today would be a good day to start cheating. Honestly and truthfully, in my case I could say that I am half to blame. I was suffering from a bad case of alienation of affection for appx. 5 years prior to being unfaithful. The other woman looked like a runway model and was everything a man could want. In the sack, she was everything that my wife USED TO BE and I emphasize "used to be". It came down to where I felt like I had to beg for some loving or schedule an appointment. Even the smiles became seldom. But she said that her love for me never changed. I have plenty of regrets for what I did and have beaten myself up for it for years after the relationship was over. We are still married, but the scars remain. Ladies my only advice to you is to keep your man happy and of course he has to reciprocate. There are women out there that might pay a little attention to him, it could be a smile or a compliment that get's the ball rolling. Something that used to be.
Wednesday 01 July
By Jon Doe
Why would we do that?? For us we just want to try the goods then discard the leftovers. In most instances we love our wives or girlfriends we are just having an adventure. In addition we are truly in love with our significant other and are just straying for a day like all household pets. We enjoy our time out but love to come home. The "other women" are the ones that should truly not get involved as you will always just be the "other women" and never be the woman of our dreams. We seek out these women for excitement and thrill of catch AND RELEASE. Now there are few who break the rules and don't release and those men should be stoned as those are the men just playing with emotions.
Wednesday 01 July
By julio
women cheat too..you prob just got cheated on and hate your life and are blaming it on all men..women are the worst..some men cheat just cause they been cheate on by sluts in the past and when it happens again they dont wanna be broken hearted
Wednesday 01 July
By JinniFish1
So True. Why don't men just "man-up". I think many men have integrity issues.
Thursday 02 July
By Gracie
I Totally agree!
Thanks God I found someone different and traditional =)
Thursday 02 July
By :[
Fuck that..!!
My boyfriend cheated and then just sent me the link to this.
All i have to say is fuck that.
Thursday 02 July
By ddeej221
Someone knows who theyr'e talking about.. you are kickass
Tuesday 07 July
By milmil
well said Jacqueline
Tuesday 07 July
By Jack
If you read the thing above your comment then you would know men don't plan on cheating, they only do it because it is something new and they don't usually go out looking for it, but it finds them.
Wednesday 01 July
By sam
something tells me jacquiline was cheated on....just a hunch
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Wednesday 01 July
By Vanessa Hudgens
Hey guys
It's Vanessa
I actually cheated on someone before, but I'm not telling who just because I want to keep their identity a secret
Yes, this is really me
I am not a poser or a fake
If you don't believe me, I really don't care
Love, Vanessa Hudgens
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Wednesday 01 July
By m
The problem with this article headline is that CLEARLY there IS no "thinking" involved regarding cheating. IF there was , the man would be SMART enough to know it shouldn't be done.
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Wednesday 01 July
By Zechman
Alright I'm a guy and im not gay, just clarifying that, i would just like to know why girls cheat on guys or what they think, i have been in three relationships n my first two i got cheated on, and its not like it was covered up, i walked in on it twice, anyway, its not fair to single out guys as being cheaters, sure I know that more guys do then girls but we cant say that they don't ever do it. Because guys like that make all us other guys look bad
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Wednesday 01 July
By Michelle
I'm not saying guys are the only cheaters, not at all. But what shocked me was those people's comments! It doesn't matter what you think in the end, what you did was wrong. Hurting someone (man or woman) that you claim to love just because you can or because you think it's like Atlantic City? What on earth is that?!
Its disgusting what they said above in the answers, I'm sure you agree with me on that. If a guy or a girl wants to have a sexual relationship with another person end it with whoever they're with first! Cheating is not excusable no matter what your genitals (men and women) were telling you to go do.
Michelle
Wednesday 01 July
By luvtowardslax21
Dump that bitch man... why would you date someone whos cheating on you? especially wen you walk in on it... why be with someone if they are just going to let you down and hurt you? yeah starting over and being single is tough but you'll get through it and be much happier in the long run.. if shes not loyal now she never will be and its just going to bring paranoia, heart ache, and pain... eventually you'll find someone who knows its wrong and youll never worry again... thats how it should be
Wednesday 01 July
By Lara
I believe we cheat because we arent being satisfied. Another reason is if they arent being treated well emotinaly in the relationship. But sometimes the reason might be really simple. The opportunity might've just popped up. And its extremly difficult to turn down a handsome guy, especially if they are doing everything in their power to get with you.
But if we are in a considerably good relationship and there's no reason to cheat at all, then there isn't a reason that we cheated! It would usually be a one time thing and/or just wanted to try something new.
Thursday 02 July
By Anonymous
I get your point completely however,then is it called cheating? By letting your loved one know first and breaking up with them eliminates "the method" if you will, of cheating.
Wednesday 01 July
By Maniakatejadax3
I feel like they do it cuss umm they get tired of the same thinq the routine i guess & if it keeps happening with the same person obviously shes qiving him something the other one is not when things start changing theres deff somethinq goin on without a doubt so women open ya eyes clearlu dont be afraid to see clearly we all know guys dont know what they want so we just gonna keep letting them do what they do & if u gonna cheat do it right cuss guys nowadayss are not low.
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Wednesday 01 July
By GQ
women cheat just as much as guys, if not more, but we just tend to get caught more than women
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