Boyfriends come and go, but friends are forever. Yes, it may sound clichéd, but it's also true. Ditching your friends for a dude ranked number 8 on YourTango's list of 15 relationship mistakes we need to stop making. Throwing friendships to the curb for the sake of a guy doesn't make much sense.
Balancing a boyfriend and your girl friends sounds easy, but odds are, at one time or another we've probably all put friendships on the back burner when we got all excited about a new man. If you thought that move went unnoticed, think about how you feel about the friends who dropped off the face of the planet when they hooked up. Ouch.
To keep us on point, we've compiled a list of why our GFs are 10 times more awesome than any dude we've dated:
Click here to read our list of why friends trump BFs after the jump.
1. They won't break your heart.
2. Who else can make you laugh until you pee your pants -- and not judge?
3. They know what you're thinking by just a look.
4. When you're emotional they don't yell and call you crazy, they listen and understand.
5. You'll always have a dancing, shopping and gossiping partner.
6. They know all your flaws and love you anyway.
7. You can talk nonstop for 24 hours, and it's still not enough time.
8. Getting ready to go out is a lot more fun when they're around. Sometimes so much fun, you don't even make it out.
9. They understand it's the little things that matter.
10. They take you back, no questions asked, when you realize you're friends are indeed a lot more fun than your BF.
So tell us: What's your favorite girl-pal trait you don't get from your man?












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Wednesday 10 June
By Lauren
This all really depends on the nature of the relationships you tend to have. For example in my case, girlfriends are always the ones stabbing each other in the back, ditching me for new friends, and not making solid plans, while my boyfriend is always there for me and is much more of a friend than any girl would ever be.
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Wednesday 10 June
By Sarah
I somewhat agree with Lauren. My boyfriend is one of my best friends, and for good reason. I'd say only one of my girlfriends trumps my bf in your list. Most of what you said in your article applied to my boyfriend as well! (especially 2, 3, 4, 5 and 8)
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Wednesday 10 June
By Ivan
Well, I am a guy and I am most of the things on the list... strange that. I talk to my sis a lot and she's almost completely sick of some girls. I mean, from my sis and my own experience, girls do love to stab other girls in the back. They love to gossip about other random stuff too. And just like most guys, I won't do anything like that to anyone ever. If I hate a girl, I would just tell her to go away and don't bother me. I am not gonna lie. And if I like her as a friend, I will just treat her like one. If i really love a girl, I would just tell her! How hard can it be? And for some reason, most girls these days aren't like that. (Too much Twilight?)
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Thursday 11 June
By Stella
I agree as well. When my ex best friend broke up with her boyfriend, I felt like she was using me to just get info about him all the time and that it was the only reaosn why she would hang out with me. i loved her to death like a sister but honestly I had a limit. At the end I ended up ditching her her and hung out with the boyfriend and his friends. And no we didn't end up going out. The guy was more like a big brother who really just likes to annoy you most of the time. however now a year later they get back together with a bit of help from me and now one of my other friends decides to talk trash about me and sh chose her over me. Before they had reunited again, I had told her that i was sorry and I apologize and wish that things were like we left them. Trying to be a good person cause yes she was an awesome friend as well but yea there were times she'd throw me to the wolves too. So honestly, I really disagree with this.
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Saturday 13 June
By Noni
i am absolutely grateful to have a bff and i think it's sad that you have nothing but your bf to share things with. not everything can be shared with your bf because he is with you on a whole other level. you can never compare the beauty of a great girlfriend to a great bf... so stick that in your pipe smoke it! GNO 4 life!!!
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Saturday 13 June
By lil_red
Perhaps i am older than the other commenters... i have been married for 12+ years to a VERY wonderful man BUT, i truly recognize the beauty and importance of my girlfriends - they are family. do i get irritated occasionally that one of my gf tends to just txt/call when she is having hubby trbls and needs a dose of "GIRL POWER", sure - but I LOVE HER, and she is a truly WONDERFUL person... perhaps I will spend years cheering her on and being a little irritated that she doesn't leave the bastard - but she is more than a friend, she is a sister and my love is forever. I may occasionally be struck dumb by a girlfriend who seems to be nothing like the girl i have loved for years, but then her mommy/wife shell cracks and there is that hilarious crazy girl that can make me laugh so hard milk STILL comes out my nose. The older i get (i'm only 30 y'all), the more i realize what a blessing it is to have and forgive small fights, to behave badly and still be cherished, to laugh so loud and so long that my eyes swell from crying and my cheeks hurt... these things forge a friendship. If I spend a few minutes a day, every day shouting "girl power" to my gf - I will rejoice, for it means i got to talk to, giggle with and share with a fabulous woman. Women are complex, and it takes another woman to TRULY understand. Sorry to the guys, no offense meant - but just accept it and more so, CELEBRATE it. Because when our guys understand us enough to know they need rejoice in our sister-love, then they are truly fabulous men. And to girls with catty friends - hang in there, your friendships will triumph or fail.. but in the end you will have memories, wisdom and the love of a few truly amazing girlfriends!!!
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Friday 07 August
By morgan
the list is so true! My boyfriend meens the world to me but we do most on the list 2gehter but we dnt shop til we drop or gossip( we do shop tho ... like for an hour or two but not long) but me and my boyfriend Alex have a GREAT relationship. And the list is right because your girls will ALWAYS be there but your bfs will come and go but if lucky you and your bf will be high school sweet hearts.
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Sunday 30 August
By Claire
I love my girlfriends, really, but my now ex fulfilled most of those functions just as well as my friends, aside from going out dancing with me. Some of my closest girlfriends have hurt me really badly or turned their backs on me at bad times in my life, and they are just as bad (or good) at handling my overemotional crap as my boy ever was. My friends and my boy were actually not that different from each other, except I got to make out with the latter and go out dancing with the former ... all things considered, I think they stack up pretty equally. However, the boy usually won--he noticed my absence much more than the girls ever did.
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