HERE'S THE BEST ONE LADIES: WHEN A MAN PREFERS HIS COMPUTER TO THE POINT WHERE HE EATS AT IT EACH DAY AND NIGHT, AND HAS A HARD TIME KEEPING HIS EYES OFF IT WHILE your trying to chat; BEWARE, THAT MEANS====="GO AWAY" OR "OK i'LL TOLERATE YOU RIGHT NOW BUT I'M BUSY, ..........GO AWAY SOON AS YOU CAN'.......or if he prefers you to go to bed, and he stays on the computer until later on....HE'S EMOTIONALLY CHEATING ON DATING SITES OR JUST looking at porn or women. If he rarely sleeps with you and stays on his computer LONG AFTER you've gone to bed, HE'S HAPPY because HE IS cheating on you dont fool yourselves, I know men like this
Same goes for the gals.... But what if the guys has a ebay addiction LOL ? What if the guy works night shift and likes to or always stays up late ? What if the guy knows your tired and if he goes to bed with you he will bug you for sex and it will only turn out bad when YOU say 'No Im tired" ?????
I have done all of these things and would never even consider cheating on my gal
That's one of the most ignorant posts I've read in a very long time.
Anything that gives the brain pleasure, leads to addiction. A person can do anything on a computer. Taking it as they're "Cheating" or "watching porn" just because they enjoy being online. it's called an addiction.
Don't stereotype Computer-Oriented men just because you obviously had a bad experience. We're not all the same; contrary to belief. We're all different, and you fail to see that.
I'm a counselor and work with relationship issues on a daily basis from the most extreme cases to a petty fight. With all the nonverbal communication (signs), all the mind games used, the defense mechanism, etc. etc. etc.....I give up on my own relationship. It's no longer simple like the old days when I love you meant I love you, and a gaze into your eyes meant I can't live without you, and a delicate touch meant you are the most precious thing to me. Now it's I love you means "can you please just stop bitching," a gaze into your eyes means "Im really only hoping you think I'm listening even though Im thinking who won the football game," and a delicate touch means "how much more of this mushy stuff do I actually have to do until you sleep with me??!" I hear it everyday. It's exhausting.
This is so discouraging. Sad that simplicity doesn't make us happy anymore. I hope that you are able to slap these people and say "Get over yourself! Be happy for the blessings you have and the love that is right in front of you. Stop taking advantage of LIFE!" Wish you well Jenn.
very few long term relationships in the world anymore. My hubby and I married after only knowing each other 2 weeks. we've been very happily married for 35 years. we work together but we don't talk much, or gaze adoringly into each others eyes, or touch "special" spots like the inside of our arms....but it is a happy marriage. Who can tell what will work. His mom said I only married him for his house (I already owned my own) I joked he married my for my new color tv. He had two black and white ones. One played a picture, one play sound and one sat on top of the other.
I don't think that she was talking about all men. Just in general. It also seemed to be for those who are not in relationships, for those people out there that are dating and trying to figure out what their new guy thinks. I feel that if you have been married or in a relationship for awhile and that you love the person that you are with, then there are things that you just know. For example my husband knows when I am saying I love you to stay away from certain subjects, and sees when it is just to say I love him. He always knows when something is bothering me no matter how hard I try to hide it.
Hey KCAre you Fem? are you an expert on men? what about on women? What would you think about a wife who leaves her husband for 6 months all the whill having sex with another guy> the same woman has made NO admissiion she is married to a guy, and has been for 7 years? yet she tells her internet friends that she is divorced but fails to mention remarried? Then after 6 months the woman begs her husband if she can come back to him? the whole time talking to her internet friends saying how she is coming back to him right in front of the husband? or retiring to the bedroom for a 'NAP' that turns into a 2 hour phone call to her boyfriend? She stays up til 3am while the husband goes to bed at midnite.. then she comes to bed and hollers at the husband for not waiting up for her? who's the cheater now?
Wow Scott, you should hook up with KC... sounds like you both need the same 2 for 1 counciling session... Not everyone cheats. You have ot get rid of the dead weight and find someone that makes you feel good. I speak from experience.
Scott, if you have been putting up with this for seven years, your problem is more you than her. You should have been gone a long time ago. Look at what you just wrote and ask yourself what you'd do if that was your wife. If you choose to stick around, you've got much bigger problems than you're just writng about.
KC: You're right. This happened to me and recently he revealed that he was watching pornography for over a year or so. Everything you said is excatly what he would do. EXCATLY.
I was reading the post by KC.. well what about guys like me then. I work as a service tech, and I also train and am trying to start my own MMA fight team and clothing line. I work 44 hours a week, spend time in the dojo to train, sit and eat dinner with my wife and daughter (we do eat dinner at the table as a family at least 4 to 5 times a week). Where do i have the time to do the promotion, orders and designs for my team.. at midnight to 2 or so when my wife goes to bed, my daughter is asleep, and i dont have to be husband or daddy.. but i can be co-founder of my team and do what my team needs of me.. sorry if you got twisted and hurt, but wow talk about ignorant
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Thursday 11 June
By KC
HERE'S THE BEST ONE LADIES: WHEN A MAN PREFERS HIS COMPUTER TO THE POINT WHERE HE EATS AT IT EACH DAY AND NIGHT, AND HAS A HARD TIME KEEPING HIS EYES OFF IT WHILE your trying to chat; BEWARE, THAT MEANS====="GO AWAY" OR "OK i'LL TOLERATE YOU RIGHT NOW BUT I'M BUSY, ..........GO AWAY SOON AS YOU CAN'.......or if he prefers you to go to bed, and he stays on the computer until later on....HE'S EMOTIONALLY CHEATING ON DATING SITES OR JUST looking at porn or women.
If he rarely sleeps with you and stays on his computer LONG AFTER you've gone to bed, HE'S HAPPY because HE IS cheating on you
dont fool yourselves, I know men like this
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Thursday 11 June
By Ditz
Maybe you're just a horrible fuck.
Thursday 11 June
By Joe
Same goes for the gals.... But what if the guys has a ebay addiction LOL ? What if the guy works night shift and likes to or always stays up late ?
What if the guy knows your tired and if he goes to bed with you he will bug you for sex and it will only turn out bad when YOU say 'No Im tired" ?????
I have done all of these things and would never even consider cheating on my gal
Thursday 11 June
By Malachi
Kc,
That's one of the most ignorant posts I've read in a very long time.
Anything that gives the brain pleasure, leads to addiction. A person can do anything on a computer. Taking it as they're "Cheating" or "watching porn" just because they enjoy being online. it's called an addiction.
Don't stereotype Computer-Oriented men just because you obviously had a bad experience. We're not all the same; contrary to belief. We're all different, and you fail to see that.
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Saturday 13 June
By jenn
I'm a counselor and work with relationship issues on a daily basis from the most extreme cases to a petty fight. With all the nonverbal communication (signs), all the mind games used, the defense mechanism, etc. etc. etc.....I give up on my own relationship. It's no longer simple like the old days when I love you meant I love you, and a gaze into your eyes meant I can't live without you, and a delicate touch meant you are the most precious thing to me. Now it's I love you means "can you please just stop bitching," a gaze into your eyes means "Im really only hoping you think I'm listening even though Im thinking who won the football game," and a delicate touch means "how much more of this mushy stuff do I actually have to do until you sleep with me??!" I hear it everyday. It's exhausting.
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Thursday 11 June
By Cash
This is so discouraging. Sad that simplicity doesn't make us happy anymore. I hope that you are able to slap these people and say "Get over yourself! Be happy for the blessings you have and the love that is right in front of you. Stop taking advantage of LIFE!" Wish you well Jenn.
Thursday 11 June
By aj
very few long term relationships in the world anymore. My hubby and I married after only knowing each other 2 weeks. we've been very happily married for 35 years. we work together but we don't talk much, or gaze adoringly into each others eyes, or touch "special" spots like the inside of our arms....but it is a happy marriage. Who can tell what will work. His mom said I only married him for his house (I already owned my own) I joked he married my for my new color tv. He had two black and white ones. One played a picture, one play sound and one sat on top of the other.
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Thursday 11 June
By Chrystal
I don't think that she was talking about all men. Just in general. It also seemed to be for those who are not in relationships, for those people out there that are dating and trying to figure out what their new guy thinks. I feel that if you have been married or in a relationship for awhile and that you love the person that you are with, then there are things that you just know. For example my husband knows when I am saying I love you to stay away from certain subjects, and sees when it is just to say I love him. He always knows when something is bothering me no matter how hard I try to hide it.
Thursday 11 June
By Scott
Hey KCAre you Fem? are you an expert on men? what about on women? What would you think about a wife who leaves her husband for 6 months all the whill having sex with another guy> the same woman has made NO admissiion she is married to a guy, and has been for 7 years? yet she tells her internet friends that she is divorced but fails to mention remarried? Then after 6 months the woman begs her husband if she can come back to him? the whole time talking to her internet friends saying how she is coming back to him right in front of the husband? or retiring to the bedroom for a 'NAP' that turns into a 2 hour phone call to her boyfriend? She stays up til 3am while the husband goes to bed at midnite.. then she comes to bed and hollers at the husband for not waiting up for her? who's the cheater now?
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Thursday 11 June
By DolphinChaser
Wow Scott, you should hook up with KC... sounds like you both need the same 2 for 1 counciling session...
Not everyone cheats. You have ot get rid of the dead weight and find someone that makes you feel good. I speak from experience.
Thursday 11 June
By gabeaux
Scott, if you have been putting up with this for seven years, your problem is more you than her. You should have been gone a long time ago. Look at what you just wrote and ask yourself what you'd do if that was your wife. If you choose to stick around, you've got much bigger problems than you're just writng about.
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Thursday 11 June
By Cheryl
I like the post about the gal who married the guy with two black and white TV's one with picture and one with sound. That's priceless!
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Thursday 11 June
By aurevoir3344
KC:
You're right. This happened to me and recently he revealed that he was watching pornography for over a year or so. Everything you said is excatly what he would do. EXCATLY.
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Thursday 11 June
By Alex
I was reading the post by KC.. well what about guys like me then. I work as a service tech, and I also train and am trying to start my own MMA fight team and clothing line. I work 44 hours a week, spend time in the dojo to train, sit and eat dinner with my wife and daughter (we do eat dinner at the table as a family at least 4 to 5 times a week). Where do i have the time to do the promotion, orders and designs for my team.. at midnight to 2 or so when my wife goes to bed, my daughter is asleep, and i dont have to be husband or daddy.. but i can be co-founder of my team and do what my team needs of me.. sorry if you got twisted and hurt, but wow talk about ignorant
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