We asked for your Relationship Whoas -- tales of the worst dudes ever -- and you delivered! Today's RW comes from a woman whose boyfriend took romance lessons from the dudes at Tool Academy.
Commenter Courtney's boyfriend (we'll call him Lance) popped the question by saying, "'You're no Miss America, but I want to marry you anyway.' Needless to say I did not accept and we broke up anyway. I really shouldn't have let it go that far.
"Before he proposed, that same year around my birthday we had this conversation:
Me: 'Hey hon, you know my birthday is coming up. Want to do something special?'
Him: 'Huh? No. Dallas is playing that day.' NO Lie!"
Courtney, we feel for you. And we bet that our good friend Kristen does, too.
Click here to read commenter Kristen's story after the jump.
Her ex-husband Mark told her, "The last two years of our marriage, all you were was a paycheck & a f--k!" Wow, he sounds just great.
Got a story or quote like Courtney or Kristen's? We want your tales of craptacular dude behavior. Bad boys. Creepy guys. Crappy texts. Nasty e-mails. Leave yours in the comments (resist the urge to include his full name, blog and e-mail address) or send it to us. We promise we'll change all incriminating names and details.












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Monday 08 June
By S
Why would you pay a guy's bills and expenses for him? That was a dumb move. That's what the situation really added up to. I hate to break the news. He was a jerk but a right one.
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Wednesday 10 June
By Allie
Probably because they were married?
Wednesday 10 June
By S
OK, so what? Even if I was married I'm not going to be a guy's paycheck. It sounds like he just used her for money and everything she had. She probably paid for the wedding too. It does not make it right for a man to sit on his ass and use someone as a paycheck and for sex even if they are married.
Tuesday 16 June
By Emily
Yes she paid his bills because they were married. I am all for NOT supporting a man. But if you are married and he gets fired or laid off, you cant hardly say "Well honey you have 2 weeks to get a job or your gonna have too leave" especially if he has been the main income for the majority of the marriage
Tuesday 16 June
By S
I'm not interested in supporting a man financially in ANYWAY. My boyfriend doesn't rely on me financially or ever ask for money. He pays for everything and does not complain. I don't ask for it. He does it on his own. If I offer to pay he refuses and tells me to save my money. A real man doesn't need anyone else's money. He'll make it work somehow. If a real man is in financially need he will take care of it and not make it his woman's problem. You all go on and be submissive girls to your guys and be their slaves.
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Tuesday 07 July
By Mandy
Well S someday when you are MARRIED you will see things in a while new light. Until then you are in boyfriend land you and just don't understand.
Tuesday 07 July
By S
Sorry my opinions or values will not change. I do not settle for less than what I believe or deserve to have. I believe in chivalry and so do other men. That's all you've people got to say is boyfriend land and all that because you are probably all submissive to your men. I don't understand you and do not want to understand. I'm happy living my life the way it has been as well as the other females I know that are being treated with chivalry. Be jealous is all that I can say. I feel sorry for people who believe they have to settle for less and be treated as a submissive woman. I'm happy with the way I've been treated in my relationships. Say no more...
Saturday 05 September
By jennie daniels
ok S, so let's say you're married and have children. what would you do if the both of you are working and your hubby is downsized and there really isn't a job to be had-it does happen. would you be ok to be the bread winner while your husband makes sure the kids are up and ready for school and he does the housework while you're working? because that's what's happening in the world and that's A LOT of married people's reality. and before you think i'm submissive, BOTH my husband and i work and he brings in the majority of the funds. but think about it, someday you could be the working mother while your husband is the homemaker.
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Friday 18 September
By LoreE
Well said lady! Your hubby should be happy and proud. :)
Thursday 31 December
By Kristen
My needless to say, EX boyfriend had no car, and had to call me to pick him up from the apartment of a one night stand.
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