Good news! The people at Guttmacher Institute, a well-respected reproductive organization, found that the withdrawal method (dude pulls out before he ejaculates) is actually waaaay better than no birth control at all. The study found that 18 percent of couples using the withdrawal method will become pregnant, compared to 17 percent of couples using condoms.
While that's a fantastic revelation, the real reason we're happy about this study is because researchers have finally given us some stats to justify what we've been doing all along. No, we're not proud to fess up to the countless time we've forgotten to wrap it up. Or the fact that we haven't restocked on birth control since sophomore year of college. But at least we're owning up. And at least this study backs up the fact that pulling out is better than nothing, which contradicts everything our sex-ed teachers taught us.
Read more about playing reproduction roulette after the jump.
But pulling out is probably just for couples in monogamous relationships who trust and love each other right? Errr, sort of. The boyfriend-less hook-up after a bar crawl? Pulled out. The third-date-one-too-many-cocktail f*ck? Pulled out. Point is: We're all guilty.
And yet we know withdrawing doesn't protect from STDs, and that no matter how you spin it, the pill and condoms are still safer options. But we do it anyway. (Apparently, we're not the only ones either: 21 percent of well-educated women were using withdrawal, said the folks at Jezebel.) So despite that making us "irresponsible," "selfish" or "unaware," at least nobody can say we're not honest.
What's especially irksome is that women are notorious for oversharing their sex details, yet we've been hesitant to put this out there. Not anymore.
Full disclosure: We pull out. A lot. Thank you, researchers, for acknowledging that. Not guilting us. And giving us straightforward stats we can actually use.












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Tuesday 19 May
By Renovation Therapy
My sister used the withdrawal method. I love my niece, she's the cutest!
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Friday 22 May
By Sparkles Pederson
What about counting on the guy to pull out...and he doesn't?
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Friday 22 May
By nbataller
Years ago I read about a study of the withdrawal method that said basically that while it may be reasonably effective as birth control, it lead to bouts of insanity in women. So if your girlfriend starts to act a little crazy after a while, you might give it a rest and use a condom.
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Friday 22 May
By Mommy2B
7 weeks pregnant, we used the pullout method : )
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Friday 16 April
By Rawr
hi my name is abortion. So nice to meet you.
Friday 22 May
By You've got to be kidding me.
You know, eating five 800-calorie donuts for breakfast is better than eating no breakfast at all... RIGHT?
Better safe than sorry. You could be spreading STD's, you know.Is it really that f***ing hard to pop a pill every morning or buy a $5 box of condoms? Most guys think it's a turn on for the girl to put the rubber on them herself.
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Friday 22 May
By Nina
What's funny is my friend has been using the withdrawel method for 6 years & she's ready to have a baby, but her boyfriend is not. Probably why she's still a grilfriend after 6 years. Anyway the withdrawel method hasn't failed them yet & she is not happy to say the least! LOL
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Saturday 23 May
By ellie
Seriously?? You guys use condoms all the time?? Where are you men? Or where are you women finding these men?? I am a caucasion, college-educated woman in my late twenties, and let me tell you I have been hard-pressed to find a man, whether with a casual fling or long-term boyfriend, who is willing to wear condoms since, oh, sometime around my freshman year in college. NONE of them have initiated the use of a condom, most of them whine when I do, and all of them want to pull out. I've been in 3 long-term, monogomous relationships (2+ years each) with men who pulled out pretty much daily for the duration of the relationship. I've never been pregnant, and I've never had an STD. One of my best friends in college, on the other hand, got pregnant while on the pill. Of course you have to trust the man to pull out. But I'm sorry, by the time a man is in his mid-twenties he is familiar enough with his body to be in control of that, and if he slips up and "accidently" ejaculates inside you he is a disrespectul SOB who doesn't deserve your cookie to begin with, in which case the best advice I can give you is to be glad Plan B is still legal and kick him to the curb. While other means of birthcontrol are even more effective and better prevent STDs, there are NO gaurantees save abstinince, and pulling out has pretty good odds in my opinion with none of the side effects that condoms and the Pill can cause (i.e., vaginal irritation, chronic yeast infections, etc.). I'm all for it!! The one recommendation I have is after he ejaculates, make sure he urinates before going going for round two, because if he doesn't that is when sperm can be found in his pre-cum. I read a study about this (which actually claimed withdrawal to be 90% effective--even moreso than the report here.)
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Sunday 24 May
By Soraida
Why the fuck does it matter if your Caucasian?
Thursday 11 June
By goober
I have been with the same guy for a little over a year, and we have used a condom once. We have been using the "pull-out method" pretty much since we started having sex with the exception of the first time we had sex and we used a condom. I've not yet gotten pregnant and I would much rather use the pull-out method versus using a condom any day. There is a completely different feeling when you use a condom than there is when you don't. Most men (well any i've ever been with or known) prefer to use the pull-out method as well because they agree that it does feel better. All any girl can do is be sure that if he is using the pull-out method that you trust him 100% to actually do it and not ejaculate in you. If you don't trust him the use a condom or get put on birth control. But if you get put on birth control wait atleast a year before you let him ejaculate in you because any gynocologist will tell you that birth control is not 99.9% effective until after a year of consecutive use without missing a day.
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Wednesday 06 January
By Jules
Pulling out seems to work 4 me. My guy hates condoms and has been pulling out on my stomach for a couple of years now. No baby yet, so there must be something to this method.
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Thursday 04 March
By Loobydooby
Me and my husband have been using the withdrawal method from we got together 8 years ago - no babies and no STD's, We did it after a few scares with broken condoms, and a bad experience with the pill (loss of libido, mood swings etc)
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Friday 16 April
By Nikki
No one is saying it works 100% of the time but it does work sometimes. If you're not ready to have children then use a condom. It's your sisters fault if she got pregnant and wasn't ready
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Monday 09 August
By chelsey
The pull out method is unreliable. Semen is released prior to ejaculation, to reduce the acidity of the vagina, and it is possible to get pregnant from it.
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Saturday 08 January
By Paul
I used the pull out method often with my ex and she never fell pregnant. We were together for 2 years. Both of us actually preferred this contraceptive method. She couldn't use birth control pills because of the side effects it caused and we didn't like condoms at all. I guess we were very lucky : )
Only use this method if you're in a monogamous relationship, experienced and if you have been tested and are 100% STI/STD free.
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