Would you believe that most women are self-conscious about drinking beer in public? Yeah, neither would we. But a recent study revealed that, although women like beer, they sometimes skip it since they feel holding a giant glass of malted hops will make them seem less attractive. We asked some guys that very question. Check out their answers, so you can make sure your next drink is on us.
"If a girl orders a beer at a bar I know I'm dealing with a certain kind of girl. She's also probably the kind of girl who will order a burger instead of a salad on a date or want to go see a comedy instead of a drama if we go to the movies. In short, a girl who orders a beer makes me think she's the kind of girl I could hang with and that's a good thing. If she orders whiskey, though, I know I'm dealing with a girl who is way cooler than I am." -- Streeter Seidel, CollegeHumor.com editor
"Personally, I find it appealing when a girl is open-minded and takes advantage of her environment by trying that 'local beer,' asking for a wine recommendation or ordering the house cocktail." -- Mike Pomranz, Slashfood beer contributor
"Hearing a girl order a Sex on the Beach always makes me laugh, usually because she'll say it with a tone of implied comedy, thanks to the word sex. It's like when the teacher tells the class to 'turn to page 69,' and everyone giggles. It's almost like she wants people to hear her say 'sex' as a signal that she's looking for some." -- Marty, bartender
Click here to read what guys think about Jagerbombs, mojitos and more -- and tell us: Do you order differently in different situations?
"A girly drink is fine, but it doesn't elicit the feelings of adventure that a good glass of scotch gives you. Cosmos and appletinis are 'safe,' while whiskey is not. While not bad cocktails, they're what a girl orders on her 21st birthday, whereas drinks like whiskey have a sense of maturity and sophistication." -- Jonas Halpren, drinkoftheweek.com

"Cuba Libre or a screwdriver in a rocks glass reminds me too much of college. I expect drinks like those to be served in a plastic cup for $2 during happy hour. Or in a $4 pitcher with a giant straw, all night long. They're cheap drinks -- and I've had plenty -- but they say nothing inspiring about the person drinking them." -- Adam Jadhav, St. Louis Post-Dispatch reporter and beer critic
"I serve a lot of rum and colas to women. I think it's the compromise they make between taking a straight shot of whiskey or having some on the rocks. They're usually the 'jeans and T-shirt' type, which I find very attractive." -- Tom, bartender
"Mojitos are trendy. A girl drinking one is also probably wearing skinny jeans and bug-eye sunglasses. And she might have chunks of mint stuck in her teeth." -- John, cameraman
"Appletinis are obnoxious, plain and simple. Even the word makes my skin crawl. That drink indicates a girl who values attention just as much as oxygen, and is a total turn-off. Ladies, you can thank "Sex and the City" for that condemnation." -- Owen, financial analyst
"A girl who throws back Jagerbombs is a total thumbs up. The drink has taken on a pretty douchey reputation, but I see it like this: the Jager means she wants to get drunk, and the Red Bull means she wants to go all night." -- Chris, gym owner
"Any girl who orders wine at a bar -- like a neighborhood bar, not a wine bar -- rubs me the wrong way. Wine has a connotation of being classy and proper, and I wonder who she's trying to impress by ordering Sauvignon Blanc at a joint with onion ring & potato skin pizza?" -- Carlos, editor
"Tequila shots are a definite turn-on. Any activity in which the girl has to lick something (in this case, salt) off of someone else has my approval. Plus, tequila is one of those 'I want to get drunk and I don't care who knows it' shots. In the right setting, like a rowdy bar or house party, that's fun." -- Sean, designer
QUESTION: Do you order different drinks depending on your situation? Say, an office happy hour versus a first date versus a night out with the girls?
Matt Christensen has written for Maxim, Cosmopolitan, and Match.com. He'll never drink Southern Comfort again after "the incident."














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Thursday 07 May
By scamps
How about us women that choose a drink because, oh I don't know, that's the drink that sounds good? Or do we not exist?
Also, apparently being drunk = hotness. Because nothing is sexier than sloppy sex with an incoherent partner.
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Thursday 07 May
By erin
i personally can't stand beer. i always order the same thing -- a vodka soda -- no matter where i am or who i'm with. if a guy doesn't want to date me because of my drink choice...well, his loss.
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Thursday 07 May
By Megan
Jack and Ginger, pretty much anywhere. It's GOOD (my two favorite things - jack daniels and ginger ale) and it isn't something everyone drinks. If it's girls only, most of us work together and somehow margarita's became the thing we talk about longingly on long days...so girl's night usu. involves lots of margaritas.
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Thursday 07 May
By AF
I usually order depending on where I am. If I'm down at the local pub I'm going to get a beer....but if I'm at a place that is a little classier I'll order a Vodka Soda or Mojito!
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Friday 08 May
By KATHLEEN
MY FAVORITE DRINK IS SCOTCH~EITHER WITH CLUB SODA OR ON THE ROCKS. MY FAVORITES ARE CUTTYSARK AND JAMESON (ON THE ROCKS) I'VE HEARD A LOT OF NEGATIVE THINGS ABOUT SCOTCH ie:IT TASTES LIKE IODINE~I'VE NEVER NOTICED THAT. MY FATHER DRANK SCOTCH, AND AT HOME WE HAD A COMMUNITY WATER GLASS. HE'D HAVE A SHOT OF SCOTCH, THEN AS A SMALL CHILD, I'D COME ALONG AND GET A GLASS OF WATER, SO I COME BY MY TASTE FOR IT LEGALLY. NOTHING IS BETTER THAN JAMESON ON THE ROCKS~YUMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM!!!!!!!!!!!
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Friday 08 May
By sue from florida
what about us ladies who are allergic to alcoholic drinks, i order coke or pepsi wherever i go. we all don't have to "drink" to have a good time either. i hope the men can understand that too.
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Saturday 09 May
By Ivy
My mood changes constantly which is usually reflected in my drinks. Sometimes I want a chocolate martini, grand marnier, shots of tequila, or butterscotch over. Just depends on my mood.
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Saturday 09 May
By Kristy_BitterSweet
I’m from the BitterSweet Partnership which commissioned the study you mention – we were set up to address the fact that women have been traditionally ignored by the beer industry. Really great to read this article and fascinating to read the feedback about men’s opinions of female beer drinkers!
Cheers
Kristy
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Wednesday 10 June
By Brenda Baker
They must be talking about very young "maybe even underaged girls" because mature women order what they enjoy drinking.
As for Wine... that's what I drink, not because it seems sophisticated or upper class but becaus I LIKE WINE!!!
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Wednesday 10 June
By Olivia
I LOVE Beer so if guys have a problem wat ever i dont really care wine makes you feel like a romantic eveing sometimes i just want a cold beer to hit me up
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Wednesday 10 June
By Under Aged
Ever been to Germany stupid? I'm under aged and I drink wine. Not because I want to get drunk but because I like it better than a lot of things. Honestly I am daddy's little girl though, and I have to have every thing he has so my favorite is jack and coke. Fruity drinks are gross and too filling. I could just take a shot and eat a strawberry meal.... ewww!
Beer is good but only one or you just have to go to the bathroom a lot and it's the same filling effect.
Ever had Raki?
Thats a real drink to tell you about some ones personality.
WORLD TRAVELER WITH OUT STANDING TASTE!
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Wednesday 10 June
By DJ
I get a shot of anything except tequila (we had a long night once) and an amaretto sour. The shot to just chill and the amaretto sour to keep u there and well they taste amazing!
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Thursday 11 June
By Alex
Personally, I think beer is disgusting and I when I go out, I see that alot of the clique-y bitchy barbie doll girls are the ones ordering the appletinis or whatever. I'm not saying I don't drink those but I've noticed that those type girls act like they're too prissy to shoot whisky or vodka or rum or whatev. I usually stick with flavoured vodka or rum which I'll mix with pop sometimes (but usually not) and when I'm in a classier setting, I usually opt for champaign rather than wine. BUT my absolute fave drink is hunch punch! : )
p.s. I'm a college student (at the #1 party school in the nation) so my views may differ from others in different settings.
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Monday 22 June
By Imogene
yeah, wait till you grow up and find about about the mysterious world of microbrews and man it just goes on and on. Beer is considered food in some countries!
;)
Sunday 14 June
By MaryJane
I Love beer. Coors Light All the way. As For jager bombs use to love them but throwing 15 back in 5 minutes never again. My Dring of choice is a Big glass of CAPTAIN ON ACID
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Saturday 14 November
By Jessi
OK so imma have to agree with some of yall, the only reason i found this site cause i have a first date tonight and usually when i go to the bars i always get captain and coke i love the taste and i wasnt sure what kind of impression that would leave on the guy cause hes a little older then me but having own thoughts and reading some of yalls, imma have to say im goin stick with what i know and love and if he doesnt like oh well thanks for the help!.... wait what if they dont have captain? ..just kidding lol
Cheers to all
Jessi
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Tuesday 02 March
By sammy
I am already drunk when I get to the bar,,,,,,,,,,, so i order whatever i want. I dont care what you think of me. I drink because i am thirsty, not to impress you.......
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