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Sometimes guys say the darndest things. Like, not in a cute, "Oh, that's so adorable I just want to hug you and make you baked ziti, cuddle on the couch and watch 'Gossip Girl'" kind of way. But more in a "WTF, you are a raging jerkface who I would like to kick in your special purpose" sense. You catch my drift. Things like, "If I'd have known you weren't going to sleep with me tonight, I'd have ordered more whiskey," which was said to a good friend of ours by a charming d-bag on their first date.
In honor of these guys and their craptacular behavior, we've decided to highlight some in a semi-regular column, Relationship Whoas. We want your stories of horrible dude behavior. Bad boys. Creepy guys. Crappy texts. Nasty e-mails. Amazing tales of the guys you dated who had two cars and two cell phones so he could more effectively cheat. (Yes, that actually happened.)
Send them to us or just leave it in the comments (resist the urge to include his full name, blog and e-mail address). We promise we'll change all incriminating names and details.
Need some inspiration? Check out some of the nasty things that the girls at The Frisky have heard from a-holes past: -- "Stop being a c**t." -Brittany
-- "Something smells fishy in here."-June
...click over to read more!
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Wednesday 15 July
By inthesky living the life
he only wanted ur money b-cuz he new that he wuz as broke as the dead beat he really wuz and if word got out he didnt want to look like a bigger a##hole than he really wuz. sorry but i have to say been there, done that and never wanna go back.
Sunday 05 July
By KATHLEEN
After 25 years of marriage to my high-school sweetheart (plus 5 years of dating)
and 3 teen-age children my ex-husband told me that I was fat and that he was sick of "my" girls and was leaving. He was already packed up and was seeing another dumb woman who believes that he doesn't cheat on her!! (I continued to sleep with him for 9 mos, when I told her she said "he told me you would say that to break us up). I was stupid for so long-when he cheated in the past I would always blame myself. I am still heartbroken after 4 years. REMEMBER,
GIRLS, ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER. DUMP HIM, WISH I DID!!
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Tuesday 09 June
By leah
my ex cheated. a lot. the worst tho - im seriously epileptic, had had a huge seizure, and was in a coma. and what are mr. douche and my best friend doing wile im a potato in an icu? yah. he has died since, and i still havent forgiven either of them.
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Wednesday 10 June
By ugh men
guy #1 decided to hit me for telling him this: "I was not holding his hand, hell I am not near him without you around." He said I was calling him a lier and that is why I got hit. Btw the other guy was some guy that lived next door to this ex. Don't even know the neighbors name.
guy #2 I tried to tickle this one and got a severe beating in my chest for it. He said I deserved it for trying after he told me he didn't want too goof around.
guy #3 Accused me of wanting to sleep with my brother all because I stuck up for my brother against him. Damn sick prick beat me in the head for it.
And ppl wonder why girls give up on dateing guys all together. No I am not going for girls ever, I have a friend with benifits now and he doesn't hit :P
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Thursday 11 June
By edw57ard
Why do women like to pick the dangerous bad boys and then complain when they get beat. You got to make the choice of danger over stable men who would love you and not consider beating you.
Before you get the wrong idea, I was the football captain, played basketball and ran track in hs & college. Graduated both with an average of 3.8 and dated many beautiful women throughout my life. I have been married for 25 years to a woman I really love and care for deeply. I just had so many female friends and relatives who sufferd like you have for making those bad choices.
I hope you have made an adjustment in your choices and get a man you deserve, not the scum you ave been dating. Good men are out there, just depends on your ability to choose.
Wednesday 15 July
By loser of the day
if i wur u i would have called the DAMBED COPS and have those
basterds or as i like to call them basTURDS arrested for hitting u. and if they threatend to beat u until u blead to death go to the kitchen and grab a knife and scream BACK THE HELL OFF AND GET UR STUFF AND GET THE F@!# OUT OF MY HOUSE!!!!!!!! and plez excuse me for my language. i have an issue with anger and i know its none of ur buissness but when i get angry i let it all out with a screaming fit. it really helps. just scream as loud as u can for as long as u like when ever u get blood rising mad and u release at least have of ur anger. if the screaming fit doesnt work hit a brick wall with ur fists. (yes call me an idiot for it but im just giving u ppl advice that has worked for me.) and if none of this stuff works, just order a dambed voodoo doll and stab it with a knife.ive never tried it but it helps the mentally depressed.
Saturday 06 February
By Sexkitten
drifywood,
You are clearly attracted to abusive men.
Really, its NOT the men.....its you who attract these kind of men.
You probably meet very nice men but dont date them because they're too nice, too short or simply too sweet.
Look at yourself dear. You like drama and think that disfunction is love when it actually is VERY unhealthy.
Wednesday 10 June
By ugh men
guy #1 decided to hit me for telling him this: "I was not holding his hand, hell I am not near him without you around." He said I was calling him a lier and that is why I got hit. Btw the other guy was some guy that lived next door to this ex. Don't even know the neighbors name.
guy #2 I tried to tickle this one and got a severe beating in my chest for it. He said I deserved it for trying after he told me he didn't want too goof around.
guy #3 Accused me of wanting to sleep with my brother all because I stuck up for my brother against him. Damn sick prick beat me in the head for it.
And ppl wonder why girls give up on dateing guys all together. No I am not going for girls ever, I have a friend with benifits now and he doesn't hit :P
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Wednesday 10 June
By Kelly Collins
Get some help.it is never ok for anyone to Beat or HIt you EVER, no matter what the reason.You do not deserve this. Why would you EVEr think this was ok? You have all the symtoms of an abused woman. It is a vicious cycle until you get some free counselling. Dont wait.
Wednesday 10 June
By bakermf465
My ex-boyfriend was horrible to me. I am a single parent and It is hard to find a good man that you're attracted to. So, when I met this really hot guy, who initially seemed perfect, I fell really hard. He gave me money to get my hair done and talked a lot about what he wanted to do for me. Within 2 weeks I was head over heels in love. That was 10 years ago. Within that time he move back to his home state for a job, and returned to see me on weekends. I have never seen or heard about him cheating. But, he always wants money and eats my food and never buys any to go into the house. He demands that i cook him what he wants without purchasing it. I was so in love with him that I put up with it. I break up with him over it, but he always charms his way back into my life. He move to my town, and has been living with me. Not paying any bills or buying any food. I keep thinking one day he will change, but he doesn't. Then I tell myself I am too in love to live without him. He pays his own bills and works, but never spends money on me or my kids. I am not materialistic, but...
We have broken up several times, but always he begs me to take him back. I feel taken advantage of, but I don't pay his bills, so I tell myself it's not that bad.
We've broken up now because he stayed out all night one Saturday night, did not call. When I asked where he was, he said at his cousins house. He said he did not call because his phone was dead. I threw him out, it was the last straw. He said I needed help, because I have a bad attitude. Can you believe that, I put up with his crap and now he says I have a bad attitude. He says all my boyfriends dumped me because I have a bad attitude. Which is not true, I dumped all my boyfriends, including him.
He is an A-hole, but he had the love of a good woman because he was good for a few weeks.
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Thursday 06 August
By Deb
Hi, you said "I keep thinking one day he will change" Why do you think that? Why would a man change when it isn't neccesary. He knows you'll put up with his crap, keep a roof over his head feed him and anything else he pleases. I had to learn the hard way myself. Please don't think i'm being nasty. When you put the facts out there, expect the truth to be returned. Men will do whatever they can get away with (women too) Until you learn to care about yourself, why should he or anyone else. Sometimes we stay in miserable relationships because the thought of being alone is scary (at first) I understand your a single mom and you mentioned how when you 1st got together he gave you money to get your hair done. But now forget it he doesn't give you anything. Well he put the bait out and you took it. It did the trick because now he has a roof. You say he pays his own bills. Does that impress you some how? He must say that often for you to mention it. Yeah he pays some of his own bills, big deal he's a user. Of course he can carch up his bills because your supporting him. He has it made and when you say it isn't about money you contradict yourself. If it wasn't about money you wouldn't bring it into the story at all. I have a feeling that when you care about you and your children enough you will toss him to the curb where he belongs. Oh he will probably move home to mommy guys like that , thats what they do go from a parents house on to the next desperate women . Than back to moms etc. Because they have no ambition, desire to own their own home. The maturity level has peaked. Hope you claim him as a dependent on your taxes because thats about the only thing you'll get out of this set up. If you can't deal with truth don't put the sad facts out for others to see. Maybe you do want help, get rid of the extra child thats draining you first. I hope you have the courage to go for it. I spent years as a doormat, kept expecting things to 'magically change'. Nothing ever changed until I made the changes in my life that where neccesary. Look up Einsteins definition of Insanity. I don't recall the exact words.
Sunday 13 September
By Sweety
He gave you money to get your hair done, but you said you're not materalistic! Getting your hair done should not be a priority to a single parent wit underage children. You allowed him to move into your house with your children? Boy when will these females learn? He didn't respect you because you didn't respect yourself. You basically put this guy before your children, and I hope they don't resent you because he's gone and your children are with you FOREVER (even after they're grown and moved away). You do have a BAD attitude, and I hope you don't put your children through another shacking up innocent again.
Sunday 04 October
By Ellie
You sound like my mother,and that man sounds like my father,but the thing is he doesn't even live with us, he jacks off my mom,and somehow my mom puts up with all that and pays for his rent,food, and other stuff.Sad how my mother has been with him on and off for fifteen years,very sad indeed.And that's without seeing other people(they aren't married,legally).
Friday 23 October
By ugh men
I have to say this for any of you guys reading this:
You may think us girls are purposely going for the bad guys, that all we want is that bad guy. You miss out on the first couple weeks. These bad guys have it down to an art on us girls.
They pretend to be that good guy, careing, understanding, loveing till they grab us. Then they baby us for a couple weeks. As soon as they see that we are hooked they turn back to themselves.
IIf you good guys out there want a girl SAY SOMETHING, stop letting these bad guys act like you and hurt us girls. Stop being shy about it, just like these other guys, they are quick to say something but act like you so be the quicker ones to say something to us and be yourselves. Come on guys show us that this is not all that is out here.
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Friday 12 June
By Mario T
Well in response to your statement, I have to say this: If these guys are showing their true colors, why don't you dump their sorry asses sooner rather than much later. As for us speaking up, many times we do, but let's face it. A lot of us nice guys aren't the best looking. I'm average looking myself. The majority of relationships begin with attraction to one another.That's pretty much how it goes in the dating world. If we don't look good enough for you, you won't give us the time of day. So even if we do "speak up" as you say, you reject us, and go for the good looking guy who ends up treating you like crap later. And then you go whining to us "nice guys who don't speak up" and complain that there are no nice guys around, when a nice guy is right in front of you. For now, I just live my life, and have fun on my terms....I gave up dating a long time ago...too much BS on both sides(I admit it, men can be just as dumb when it comes to dating.) I choose not to bother with it anymore....made my life a lot easier.
Thursday 11 June
By karol
I understand the good guy being slow. I for one like agressive men. Dont be afraid to make a pass. Good guy take a chance. Sometime the bad guy really do not realize he is a creep or is never given a good enough reason to change.
But the truth is we all have issues. My sons say the Girls I treat bad wouldn't leave me alone. The girls I treat nice leave me. The reason I treat them bad is because I dont like them. The reason I am nice to the other is because I do like them and they think I am too nice.
After having sex with a guy for a year, thinking I was giving him time to heal after a bad event in his life, he said to my friend, I don't have a woman and I was standing there. He also said he wanted to sleep with me niece.
I am a christian and want to do right, so I made a vow to god. Basicly it had to do with god finding me a husband so I would not have to be unfaithful. That man would be the last man I have sex with.
Basicly I am looking at never having sex again in my life.
This is going off Neely, Weely. But be very tight with you vows to god. You cannot break them.
Thursday 11 June
By Kiryla
Men totally know how to fool us because we trust them first. By that I mean, honestly giving them a fair chance because that is what they grip about....that we assume they are dirtbags because of bad treatment from other men. But that is not true, they earn that title all on their own. I admit I give them a chance but at the first sign of "stupidity" I either get rid of them immediately because I don't have that kind of time to waste or become a female hustler before I get rid of them. I begin to shield myself as soon as the "real" man comes out. They are always on their best behavior in the beginning but after 1) you have sex with them; 2) you move in together and 3) baby on the way, men can become monsters. First sign: they talk to you differently. Now they start saying things like...your fat (maybe not that blatant) or I need a vacation from you. Next sign: they don't come home from work right away. Third sign: The sex goes downhill or is non-existent. Fourth sign: No more going out, no more flowers or gifts. Final sign: Starting arguments. As emotional human beings we are vulnerable because we want to be loved. Do not beat yourself up because he was a dirtbag. Brush the dirt off your shoulders and move on....life is too short. Love God first, then others and importantly LOVE yourself!
Friday 26 June
By James!
lol...the guy below this is sooo fucking right. lol
I mean ladies, be honest with yourselves, you know damn well you don't give the ok looking guy a chance at all when the hot guy is like totally lusting after you.
bitches be crazy.
Friday 24 July
By Breezie
Amen to that!!! It is very hard to find the good guys... I would NEVER date someone who treated me bad or was disrespectful to me.. I tell my girlfriends that all the nice, good men are either married, dead or gay.
Sunday 26 July
By jtr
You think it's just men who are like that? Trust me, damaged self absorbed women are just as good at manipulating us men in to thinking they're a good catch. I've been in enough relationships with flaky, self absorbed, cheating women to know they are very good at acting sweet, acting like they need you and you light their world, they'll always be faithful, you're so good to them and they're so in love.
Then about two months down the road all of a sudden they're this bitchy overly critical nightmare and when you finally get it together and break up to them, you find out all those times they got off the phone early to go to bed cause they were really tired, they were actually talking to someone else, investing in other options besides yourself.