If you thought it was rough competing for homecoming queen, wait until you read about the annual bride sale in southern Bulgaria. The word "dress" is not missing from that statement. We're not talking about the Running of the Brides wedding-gown-stampede sale here.
Last weekend, over 2,000 Roma teens and their parents gathered with a singular purpose: to find a husband willing to pay a hefty price for his new wife. The open-air bride sale takes place every year on the first Saturday after the start of the orthodox Easter fast.
Dressed to Impress
Girls arrive gussied up in their finest clothes and jewelry, faces caked in makeup, eager to show prospective spouses their beauty. Younger brothers and sisters tag along to eat sweets and enjoy the festive atmosphere.
As one mother explained to Britain's Daily Mail, "We take our daughters to this gathering so they could get acquainted with boys, for we do not allow our children to go to discos." Word on the street is that a beautiful young woman can fetch several thousand euros.
Click here for another approach to matrimony in the Gypsy culture.
10 Outrageous Theme Weddings
Football Wedding This couple was married at the Cincinnati Bengals' Paul Brown Stadium. No word on whether the bride wore a sports bra.
Hello Kitty Wedding Never moved past your Hello Kitty pencil case? You can pay to have two giant creatures escort you down the aisle, like this couple.
jennfc.com
Star Wars Wedding We hope Yoda presided over this wedding ("Take the bride, do you?"). The London Telegraph reports on one such union where a Princess Leia was the ring bearer, clad in the infamous gold bikini.
klobtime, Flickr
Biker Wedding Why leave your Harley at home for the big day when you can ride down the aisle in style? This couple takes leather to the altar and shows their guests exactly how to ride off in to the sunset, without chafing.
Mad Man Dan / FaithRiders
WWII Wedding Time to party like it's 1942? All 100 guests at this wedding got into theme, donning fur wraps, berets and caps adorned with feathers. For authenticity they piped in the sound of sirens and Lancaster bombers flying overhead.
Hartlepool Mail
Zombie Wedding If the undead get married, then it really is a union that will last forever. To make it authentic you could even get carried in a coffin to the altar. Consider eating beforehand if you don't like brains.
wedlog.com
Disney Princess Wedding For your Cinderella day, you can buy a gown from the official Disney fashion line, or have your wedding at the actual theme park for 10 grand and up. Next up: "Lion King" groomsmen!?
bridezilla.com
Gangster Wedding Bonnie and Clyde made being a gangster romantic and now you can too with some vintage duds and smart pinstripes.
thebreadline, Flickr
Renaissance Wedding Grab your lute and mount your trusty steed! If you're donning a garter, run swiftly. One rather aggressive medieval tradition called for guests to grab a piece of the garment by any means necessary.
youandyourwedding.com
Lord of the Rings Wedding "One ring to bring them all and in the darkness bind them." Take your "precious" to the altar and recite lines straight from Tolkien's classic as the vows. These LOTR superfans earn bonus points for their Minas Tirith cake.
Sarah and Patrick Needham
In some Gypsy communities in Romania, children can be betrothed before they are even born. Some participate in engagement ceremonies at age 4 or 6. Child engagement is not necessarily illegal, but the kids can't be legally married until age 16.
Until then, the families exchange money to seal the deal and ensure that the children remain in the community. If one party backs out and marries someone else, his or her family must repay three times the dowry to account for inflation. No pressure or anything!
Gypsies aren't the only people who marry young -- in Saudi Arabia, furor erupted after an 8-year-old girl wed a middle-aged man. And arranged marriages occur in women of all ages all over the globe -- including in the US.
Weird Ways Guys Popped the Question
Jason got his girlfriend Maui's favorite author, Neil Gaimain, to help out with his proposal. After waiting in line to meet the author at a book signing, Maui turned her newly signed copy around to reveal Gaimain's message: "PS, Will you marry Jason?"
http://diveabout.multiply.com/journal/item/13/The_Proposal_co_Neil_Gaiman
The guys behind the geeky comic Joys of Tech let one of their fans (Tony) propose to his girlfriend (Steph) through one of their issues. After waiting by, the creators posted her response on their site.
http://www.geekculture.com/joyoftech/joystuff/proposal.html
We don't want to choose favorites, but JP definitely gets a shout out for over-the-topness. After deciding to propose to his girl in a Super Bowl commercial, he created a website to raise the needed funds. He actually achieved his goal, but not before ads sold out. Instead, he bought air time during her favorite show, Veronica Mars. Check out the commercial and her reaction here.
http://mysuperproposal.com/
Tasha got the shock of a lifetime while on board a flight back home from Africa when her boyfriend Ubie showed up on the plane and asked her to marry him over the intercom.
Flickr, mischiru
Through work connections, James had an engagement ring for his girlfriend Joy designed by famous video game artist Yoshitaka Amano. He also got Final Fantasy soundtrack composer Nobuo Uematsu to write a little ditty for him to play in the background while proposing.
http://www.1up.com/do/blogEntry?bId=8951187&publicUserId=4549175
Alexander proposed to his space loving girlfriend while on a zero-gravity flight that cost him a whopping $7,000. Good thing the ring didn't float away!
Flickr, Rose Davies
While all of our guys went to extremes, Todd is the only one to put his life in danger while proposing. At an annual 4th of July bash with family and friends, and with the help of a trained stuntman, Todd lit himself on fire. After diving into a pool of water, he told girlfriend Malissa that he is "on fire" for her and then dropped to one knee. He later made a website for the occasion.
http://www.hotproposal.com/
This computer science major inserted a new area into the game Chrono Trigger by hacking into the game in order to create a special proposal for his girlfriend, a fan of the game. He made it so all of the NPCs (non-playable characters) were her and him reliving the highlights of their relationship. Then, one of the NPCs proposed to the player (his girlfriend). Oh, just watch for yourself.
Flickr, kulafire
Jeff took Michelle to a local theater to see a showing of her favorite film Say Anything. Thing is, it was a slightly edited version; Jeff replaced John Cusack with an imagine of himself and entered "Marry Me, Michelle" into the frame.
Flickr, .scarlet.
As a favor to a fan, Sean Astin (Lord of the Rings) asked Amy to marry "Jordan." He did it over the phone, while Amy was in another city and "Jordan" filmed the whole thing. While sweet, the bit was apparently a con. In fact, it seems there was much fooling of the LOTR cast going on.
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Thursday 12 March
By WOW
How much for the chick with the yellow teeth and red cheeks???
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Saturday 14 March
By ghost1776 from myspace
hahaha. imagine the germs that have made a home in that mouth. looks like they scraped these girls out of the local whore house and slapped some makeup on them for good measure.
also, why buy a headache. some unruly teen that will only leave you when your demands are beyond her moral scope. ;-)
Thursday 12 March
By Michael
I asked my wife to marry me nearly 11 years ago before we ever met in person over the net in a chat site called the Fireroom. Just as I asked she lost her connection as she lived in the country. When she logged back in she didn't say a word. Friends told her to scroll down and have a look at the messages. Then she filled the screen with a big yes. Back then we were the first we knew of out of all the chat sites we visited. The danger of the internet are 2 kids and a mortage. lol This September will be our 11th year.
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Thursday 12 March
By sadiemae1214
Congratulations to you and your bride on 11 years of married bliss. May you have many more. I hope that happens to me someday.
Thursday 12 March
By Mike
It's this kind of stuff that gives the misandrists and the feminazis (and no, I'm not referring to moderate feminists) fodder for their anti-male/"blame-men-for-everything-bad" fire.
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Saturday 14 March
By Paul
Let's face it. Everything bothers those types.
Thursday 12 March
By crabalockerfishwife
She uses those yellow teeth for grazing...
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Friday 13 March
By kayla
I'm sorry but why would you practically sell your daughter. How ridiculous is this?
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Saturday 14 March
By Lorcan Otway
The bride price in a Romani wedding, is not a selling of a daughter. The families are all close, and the money is, in reality, an insurence against domestic violence or abuse. Romani people have liberal traditions regarding divorce, either the man or woman can move for devorce in the Kris, the Romani courts. If there has been domestic violence, the bride price is forfit. So, there is little chance of violence in a traditional Romani family. Feel free to write for more information on this.
All the best
Baxt thai sastimos
Lorcan
Sunday 15 March
By ravenovich
You should study a culture and faith before you choose to attack either. Romani culture history and faith has much to offer this world if ignorant bigotry would not force Roma to live secrete lives only with each other and never with Gadje.
Wednesday 18 March
By Aaron
"Why sell your daughter", hey...money talks and bullshit walks!
Friday 13 March
By stud
I'll take five - Monday - Friday with the weekend off (my Viagara/Cielis just won't handle seven STRAIGHT days!)....
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Friday 13 March
By CHUCKIE
HMMMM! Think it's too late to send my son-in-law a bill for a couple of grand? I had to barter with my potential father-in-law for my wife. Cost me an old Mets tee-shirt that I out-grew, a banana and an old Pavarotti cassette. Think I came out on the better end of that deal!
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Friday 13 March
By masanddjs
yikes,,,what do they look like when all the makeup comes OFF. Many a man has been fooled by makeup. Kine of like the old adage "the more I drink, the better you look"
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Saturday 14 March
By feminazi
personally I believe that we are not man kind we are wo kind. people are created in a woman all that men do is plant the seed and have fun then "wo's" have the 18 years of pain and stress.
further men should be called manwo's and malefe's and women should be addressed as wo and fe. we should all be Wo Kind!
hehe
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Saturday 14 March
By wondering
How old is this custom?
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Saturday 14 March
By Lorcan Otway
Dear Wondering, many Romani customs are very old, dating back to when Roma left India some 800 years ago. As far as this goes, it is not a selling of Brides, but rather, the bride price acts as an insurence against domestic violence. If there is a divorse, the bride price is forfit if there has been violence in the family.
All the best
Lorcan
Saturday 14 March
By crazygrl101
I think u should get married when u want to get married. It shouldn't be forced upon u by ur parents or friends. This is the problem w/ today. Many people don't have their independence, let alone freedom. Also they are to scared to stand up for themselves. Another reason is their family must have had arranged marriages for centuries and they have never thought of picking their own husband and at the age of when they want to get married at
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Sunday 15 March
By Missy
That would be scary for me, not knowing what kind of man you will marry. Could be a phyco. Nope, not for me.
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Saturday 14 March
By Rebecca
They are NOT gypsies, they are ROMA. Using the term "gypsy" is racist and demeaning.
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