The list of reasons to do the deed just keeps getting longer. Medical researchers are coming forward saying that having enjoyable sex can decrease the risk of heart disease in men, increase longevity in women, decrease general pain and make you feel younger.But, perhaps most interestingly of all, Drs. Michael Roizen and Mehmet Oz, authors of "You: Being Beautiful" (and, of course, the pet docs of the all-powerful Oprah) are saying that upping your sexy time is like striking it rich. According to them, increasing sex from once a month to once a week creates an increase in happiness that's the equivalent of $50,000 of additional income for the average American. WHAAA?!
Can this be? And if so which would you prefer -- the sex or the money?
Ten Famous Sex Myths, Debunked
Myth: Women have to be in a relationship to enjoy sex.
The Truth: Your orgasm potential has nothing to do with whether you're single or committed. Having great sex has to do with physical sensations, not your status. What's more, many women report having stronger orgasms when they masturbate than they do with a partner.
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Myth: Women don't (and shouldn't!) masturbate as often as guys.
The Truth: Ha! There is absolutely no rule as to how much you should get yourself off- do it is much as you'd like. In fact, the more you do it, the more you'll understand what it takes to reach climax and that can help you guide your guy when your in bed together.
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Myth: Guys love lingerie.
The Truth: Many men just find lingerie complicated. Think about it, all those snaps and ribbons and straps are confusing and a pain in the ass to get off of you when he wants to get some. Most guys will tell you they much prefer a woman naked.
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Myth: Vaginal orgasms feel better than clitoral orgasms.
The Truth: There is no such thing as a better orgasm... they're all pretty fantastic. They definitely feel different because they originate in different spots. Try experimenting and achieving the various types- clitoral, vaginal, g-spot- to see which you prefer.
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Myth: A woman should be able to orgasm during intercourse.
The Truth: Putting that kind of pressure on yourself may prevent you from having an orgasm at all. A lot of women are unable to reach their peak through strait penetration. Most need clitoral stimulation as well. So don't feel bad touching yourself, having your partner touch you, or even using a vibrator while thrusts.
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Myth: Women don't get turned on by porn.
The Truth: There's no hard rule on this one. Some chicks like naughty flicks, others don't. If porn doesn't do the trick for you, try erotic literature- lots of women prefer it because it allows them to use their imagination when picturing what's going on.
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Myth: If you're good in bed, you should be able to please anyone.
The Truth: Some people have instant in-bed chemistry, others have to work on it. That means, you could sleep with ten guys and they would all have a different opinion of your skills (and you of theirs!). Communication is key to being able to have good sex with someone. Tell them what you like and don't like and ask them to do the same. If you're too shy to say it, show them by guiding their hands.
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Myth: Men prefer women who sexually pursue them.
The Truth: Evolution tells us the exact opposite. Most men like to feel like they've worked for a women's attention. However, that doesn't mean that you have to sit in the corner and wait for a man to approach you. Go ahead and signal to a guy that you're interested by flirting. Just avoid things like grabbing his crotch in a crowded bar.
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Myth: Happy couples always have good sex.
The Truth: No one always bats a hundred in the bedroom. You could be in the best relationship and have an off night if one of you isn't feeling well or is stressed. If you are always having bad sex it may be a bigger problem. If this is the case, discuss what you both need in bed to enjoy yourselves more
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Myth: African American males have bigger penises.
The Truth: Sorry, but there's no evidence to support this one. A study from the Porterback Clinic and Royal Hallamshire Hospital in Sheffield and St. James' Hospital in Leeds, United Kingdom found that the size of a man's package has absolutely nothing to do with his race.
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Wednesday 11 March
By Samantha
More money!
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Wednesday 11 March
By Victoria
Well more money because I'm already having good sex.
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Wednesday 11 March
By Karlotta
I'm getting the most amazing sex I've ever had - and I'm the poorest I've been in 12 years. Sooooo... I'll take the money!
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Friday 20 March
By jessica
I totally agree. But I'd only take the money as long as I can keep the sex, lol.
Thursday 12 March
By mb
I always said, I didn't marry for money, and I didn't marry for the sex, cuz it sucks..... so.... what the hell did I marry for????? Choose your love and suffer through your choice, I guess....
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Wednesday 11 March
By Roger
More MONEY with more MONEY I can buy better SEX. But, at my age (73) it really doesn't matter does it?
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Wednesday 11 March
By JP
well more money because I can get more sex with money
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Wednesday 11 March
By ckathy
more money....lots more....i am already getting the best sex i have had in my life...b/f try harder than mates.....j and i are in our 70s ...viva viagra...
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Thursday 12 March
By Math Dork
I have to go with Freud on this one. Anybody with any integrity to them self understands they are an animal. Money is just paper, or a number on a banks web site. Sex is life. It is genetically coded with the highest rewards for serving it: reproduction, sometimes closeness and intimacy, sometimes scratching an itch but always a high better than any drug. Oh by the way food gives you a high. It is one of natures ways to remind us it is necessary to nourish our self. His argument would be the only reason we do anything is for sex.
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Thursday 12 March
By scammedbyawoman
Well sex.. because I already have a well-paying job, and absolutely zero sex life because I'm married to a woman who thought sex was necessary to make a man feel like he was in a loving relationship, but only before marriage.
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Sunday 15 March
By Lisa
I found it is better to be a bit lonely and single then married and miserable. Believe it or not there are women that care about a mans needs. They also make a life for themselves and do not need a man to support them. They are honest and faithful too.
Sunday 15 March
By Key Creations
where does scammed live? I have some friends that would be good for him. Of course he's have to get divorced which would cause a loss of money and I doubt he would. Why is it that men rather cheat and be unhappy than to divorce? Pocketbook?
Monday 16 March
By Feral Katz
Alas, you aren't the first to learn that the antidote to women's libido is Wedding Cake! Highly effective in totally eliminating those nasty urges. Feral
Thursday 12 March
By Gentle-Storm
Well sex can be bad, good, or great... So for me, especially right not, money is more important... Later on in my life money won't be an issue and sex is what i'll be getting on the daily...in marriage. lol peace
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Thursday 12 March
By Pat
Money right now because the sex is great and I have plenty of that.
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Thursday 12 March
By kat61969
I just got furloughed by our governor, so I could use more money. With the forced unpaid days off, I can have the good sex.
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Thursday 12 March
By C'mere Baby!
Um....If I had more money, I could buy sex once a week.
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Thursday 12 March
By dustin liberty
I would rather have sex no amount of money is worth the sex i get from my wife
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Sunday 15 March
By ToMMyBoy
SEX SEX SEX..........
I 'am doing okay at my job but.........
SEX more at home would make my day's go much better.
I would think about SEX more often, then being that once a month hassel to get the wife into the mood.
SEXLESS in Seattle
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Sunday 15 March
By dlay
I lost my job in august, have been married 9 years and have awesome sex give me the money.
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