Most of us have at least a few "friends" who we've never met in real life -- the one who friended us after seeing the comment we left on a mutual friend's photo; the daughter of our mom's co-worker who e-mailed us for career advice ages ago and who still sometimes forwards "Arrested Development" links. Turns out this type of friendship is becoming more common. A new TNS Global survey of over 27,000 people found that folks are increasingly connecting with others online for platonic purposes.
Participants from China said that of all their relationships, about 80 percent are with online-only friends (people they've never met), while U.K. respondents said about 25 percent of their friends are online-only. Americans are on the low end of the spectrum, saying that online-only acquaintances make up 20 percent of their pals.
What's more surprising is that 61 percent have met their Web friends face-to-face. A whopping 76 percent of Germans have admitted to crossing over from cyberspace to the real world. France, Sweden, Denmark and Norway round out the top five populations most likely to meet their buddies in real life. (56 percent of Americans have met someone they first met online.)
Click here to read how people befriend their online friends -- and why others don't trust them.
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Over the past 10 years, Ontario native Stefanie, 23, has formed her own circle of Web friends. Stefanie remembers a girl she befriended in a chat room -- after learning that they lived close to one another and had plenty in common, they ended up meeting ("For pancakes and squirrel watching," says Stefanie).
Stefanie still continues to meet new people online from time to time. "If it wasn't for the Internet, I'd never have met some of the best people in my life," she says. She also credits these relationships with helping her get over her shyness. "What I learned by interacting on the Internet I practiced in person and now feel content to be myself and be comfortable with it."
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Many Web socialites befriend their acquaintances on social networking sites. Over 50 percent of people worldwide participate in such sites, including Friendster, Facebook and Second Life. (Koreans are the most likely to belong to more than one, btw, with each person belonging to an average of four different sites.)
But despite their multitude of friends, 37 percent of people worldwide have admitted to not being sure about the "true identity" of the people they meet online. China and the U.S. had the strongest negative views about this and about social networking sites -- deeming them dangerous or a waste of time.
Tell us: Do you have "Web-only" friends? Have you ever met someone in person who you initially met on the Internet?
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Wednesday 07 January
By Carol Lara Murray
I've been chatting online since 1994. I've met all kinds of people. Men and women alike. Just as in a "real" life situation, you're gonna run into "unusual" people" but what a fun jouney it is. I have online friends that I've never met and we've exchanged emails since 94. I met my husband on Match.com. I met several men online but he was the only one who was truly considerate, thoughtful and kind. Not to mention all the long conversations we have to this day. We met in 2002 and married in 2005 and we still enjoy each other's company. I think this is such a great avenue to discuss ANY topic and find someone who can relate to your situation. I have felt lonely at times in my life but since I found the internet....I have never felt lonely again. Love to all internet buddies. Crazy or not you're still a joy to communicate with. Carol
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Wednesday 07 January
By Cindy
I have been online on aol for about 8 years now. During this time I have met some really wonderful people who I have kept as friends. We have done lunches, holiday get togethers, picnics and ect for a long time. I wouldn't trade them for nothing in the world! I also want to add that I met my husband and soulmate online in our local area chatroom. Our relationship is awesome! I thank my Lord everyday that I have him in my life.
So many times people who dont understand the world of the internet social life will try to down others who are online. They just dont know what they are missing in my opinion and they should try it sometime. But also a word of warning, there are indeed people who are up to no good lurking out there, so be careful who you associate with, never meet anyone from online alone, and trust your instincts with how you handle your on line experiences.
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Wednesday 07 January
By Andrea
Both of my Brothers met their wives on the internet. One married for 9 years - 4 kids, one married for 2 1/2 years - 1 baby. 5 little ones who owe their existence to the internet!
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Wednesday 07 January
By Dawn
Wow... Brings back alot of good and bad memories!
I came online and started making friends...as a way of hiding and living a different life. Mine at the time was uh... bad. Anyway... the folks I met online were incredible. But just like in the real world, you must listen to your "uh-ohs" when you feel something is wrong, and its not a good situation to be in.
Relationships online or real time are still relationships. Many get hurt fall in love and many other emotions.
Its like looking out a window and seeing a whole bunch of new faces...probably folks ya wouldn't be talking to, but CAN..because your not face to face.
I have learned a few things. I now can talk to more folks face to face...total strangers on the road. And...another. Friends are friends...and the best Yes even here online.!
I love all my online friends as dearly as if you lived next door.
And I miss the ones that have disappeared from FireByThe Lake...
Online or Realtime....its life.
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Thursday 08 January
By sickee
I agree my cock is so swollen ........ ahhhhhh what a mess and now I' ve shit my slacks and its a very runny one sprinkled with peanuts
Thursday 08 January
By Stephen Kish
hi
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Thursday 08 January
By sickee
every time I meet someone on line she always wants me to poop in her mouth or put a straw up my ass and have me fart
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