We know from experience and "style for every decade" issues of women's mags that hot women abound at every age. But it turns out that when polled, women agreed that the average age at which they felt most sexy was 34. The magic number seems to represent a perfect compromise between quantity and quality, considering women report having more sex in their 20s and 30s, but better, less frequent sex thereafter. (For reference, Penelope Cruz, Alyson Hannigan and Victoria Beckham are all 34.)
Fifty-six percent said they enjoyed sex more in middle age than they when they were young, less experienced and presumably wracked with twentysomething body malaise.
Celebrity Sex Quotes: TMI!
"Sex in a car. If I were in a really raunchy frame of mind wanting something crazy and kinky, the back seat would be it." Scarlett Johansson, talking about her sexual fantasy.
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"I really enjoy having sex, and that's offensive to some people. Women are the quickest to call other women sluts, which is sad. I haven't met a lot of men who've said, 'You like having sex? What a dirty whore you are!' That's because they wish their wives or girlfriends would have more sex with them." Megan Fox
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"You're young, you're drunk, you're in bed, you have knives; sh*t happens..." Angelina Jolie, of course.
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"I don't believe in premarital sex...There were some [past girlfriends] who pushed for sex, and sometimes they won. Afterward, I would feel unclean...So I would have to let them go because they didn't help me to be a stronger person." Terrence Howard
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"When I have sex with my husband these days, I fantasize I am with someone like Keith Urban or a petite, hot young woman." Dolly Parton
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"I have f***ed George Clooney...I'm probably the only one of many actresses to stand up here and admit yes, I have f***ed George Clooney. I'm very proud of it...If you don't have chemistry with George Clooney, you need to check your pulse." Ellen Barkin, who co-starred with Clooney in "Oceans Eleven."
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"I had sex in the bathroom at the opera a little while ago, in New York. ...[W]e decided to go to the bathroom, and we got caught, and it was embarrassing. If we'd gone to the men's room, people would've heard it and said, 'Good on you, man.' But we were in the ladies' room, and when we heard an old woman start to tinkle, we couldn't help but crack up." Strokes drummer and former beau of Drew Barrymore Fabrizio Moretti
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"Yeah, I wear it sometimes. You gotta keep your life spiced up. Storm never has sex in the movies - but Storm has a lotta sex at my house." Halle Berry fessing up that she does indeed don her racy suit at home for partner Gabriel Aubry.
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"I met him in a hotel lobby in New York City and he came in just from the gym and I was sitting there and I was, like, 'wow.' And I pretty much saw everything. The whole package." Heidi Klum, telling Oprah about when she met Seal.
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"Yes, Hef's sleeping with them all...I've actually walked in on him. ...There's baby oil, there's toys flying every which way, there's all these girls naked. It was like watching a movie. I was standing in the doorway just looking -- for a really long time." Pam Anderson talking about what goes on at the mansion.
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The study discovered that on average women aged 45 to 60 have sex 4.5 times a month, compared to 10.4 times a month in their 20s and 30s.
Said Dr. Catherine Hood of the study, "Many of us make the assumption that older people have less sex than the young, and this research appears to confirm this. However, it does show that women are still enjoying great sex lives as they get older." (See: 34 year old Penelope Cruz and her head-implodingly-hot boyfriend, Javier Bardem.)
We also wonder if this study coincides with the increased comfort of bedding as a woman ages -- we'd rather have sex four times a month on 300-thread count sheets than 10 times a month on the coffee-stained futon of our 20s.
Also on Lemondrop ... more myths about women. If you believed that women peaked at age 20, you might also have bought into these other misconceptions.
Stuff Women (Supposedly) Like
Carrie Bradshaw and Co: Women unquestioningly regard Sex and the City's endless chatter about shopping and sexing as a manual for modern life.
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Catching the bouquet: All girls love weddings, but they especially love diving for the bouquet. It lets them broadcast to everyone in the banquet hall that they're single... but, if they catch the precious stems, not for long!
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Catcalls: Shouts of "Hey Sweetheart/Mami/Shawty/Beautiful" are the number-one way these creatures are lured into potential relationships.
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The Phrase "Biological Clock": Women adore babies (just tote one around your office if you don't believe us). That's why they so enjoy being reminded (at weddings, holidays, baby-showers, etc) that their internal timekeeper is ticking.
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Sex Advice from Cosmopolitan: Creatively-challenged ladies turn to Cosmo for sage advice on how to trick out their in-bed moves using hair scrunchies, mints, fingernails, donuts (really), and a little something called "The Sofa Spread-Eagle."
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Diamonds!: Ever since icon Marilyn Monroe cooed that "Diamonds are a girl's best friend," women want the actual diamond (with the 4 C's, of course). Heck, they want the whole extravagant lifestyle, ideally provided by a man.
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Awesomely Bad Chick Lit: Women just can't get into classics like The Grapes of Wrath. They need softly-hued books with navel-gazing heroines they can relate to. Enter Chasing Harry Winston by Lauren Weisberger and the like.
Hillary Clinton for President: She's strong and smart, and managed to finagle a marriage to a very hot, very ambitious politico. That's why women rallied behind her and secured that presidential nom. Oh wait!
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Romantic Comedies starring Kate Hudson: Everyone enjoys watching her hilarious attempts to romance diverse co-stars: Matthew McConaughey, Matt Dillon, Matthew McConaughey. Because when someone annoys us in real life, we too know that deep down, he's sooooo The One.
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Anything by Oprah: Like sheep, women need to be lead by a strong but sympathetic herder. Oprah's show and magazine take the stress out of having to decide what to read, what to buy and which celebrities to worship all by themselves.
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Tuesday 09 December
By val
Angelina is more than uncool, she's got a big mouth and has to bring her sullied past and present into our lives and this query. Knives don't make for great sex nor does her continued drunken state which had not been stopped. She's still a nut case, sex is great at any age with the right mate, and she's not an authority on home making, kids, sex or anything rational. Valuable is her opinion on drugs, incest and madness for she's that and more. Face it, sex is awesome at any age if you're into the other person. A drunk can have sex with anyone, if they can have sex at all. That's what Jolie says
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Tuesday 09 December
By Brian Oconnor
Thank you. I could not agree more with your profound response.
Tuesday 09 December
By gcoast0311
I disagree, I feel more comfortable, sexy at 43 than I ever did in my 30's. My sex life is much better just beacuse I have more time and the way I feel about myself.
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Tuesday 09 December
By kathy
I an 41 and I am sexier than i was at 20-30. . 40 is the best time of my life.
Tuesday 09 December
By Lisa
Whoever wrote this article must be a very young 20 something cause they are calling 30's middle age. That is so funny, 30 is NOT middle age. Middle age is 40's or 50's NOT in the 30's. And guess what women can enjoy sex and feel sexy at any age. Its all about loving yourself and knowing what you want. Being sexy is a state of mind.
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Tuesday 09 December
By kherdejhea
that is very fascinating to hear about
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Tuesday 09 December
By Betty Jean
I am a 58 year old woman, soon to be 59, i do not even look my age nor act my age. poeple ask me my secret and i say well i do not smoke, do drugs, drink only on occassions. I remain positive and i have faith. I do my best to control my stress no matter what situation comes my way that may cause stress. i surround myself with family and good friends. I do my best to eat right even thou it is not always easy. I have past my menapause and i find my sex drive even better than before. I have come along way in understanding what I really enjoy in my life along with smiling alot and laughing with positive attitude in difficult times has helped me to come this far in my life. I wish the best to everyone .
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Saturday 13 December
By Susan
Betty Jean,
I am with you.....this is the best time of my life, better than 20, 30 or 40...I agree attitude and good health habits are the key...and of course faith family and good friends......
God Bless you...
Saturday 13 December
By Jim
I love it, I am 60 ,take excelent care of myself and find women of my age, and in the same frame of mind more and more appealing than any younger woman..You have my vote ladies, I think at this stage of life we know what we want, like, and exactly how to enjoy it.
Tuesday 09 December
By Glo
I am 65 year old cougar...and I have one of the loves of my life with me since over a year ago. I crave sex and we are wildly active...he is 12 years younger and we are in love. I might add that I had a great 36 year marriage, but widowed 9 years ago. I have wonderful children who support me.
So much for this 34 year old stuff. :-)
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Saturday 13 December
By roe
good 4 you i am 57 i'm in menopause and i no longer crave sex ... congratulations. i was married 25 yrs. miss my x hubby .. i am engaged it's the healthiest relationship i ever had , the man i'm with is 6 years younger than me.... but he is my everything .....you girlfriend are blessed ! GOOD LUCK!
Tuesday 09 December
By Van Hamlin
The study appears to have more to do with being in a relationship than about having the "desire" to have sex. Those thirty something people are either free to have sex 10 times a month or are working on a family. People in stable relationships have their sex lives interrupted by things like work and the kids etc. Once the kids leave home you and that partner of 30 years are comfortable with sex when it good for both of you. It doesn't matter if it 4.5 or 9.1 times a month as long as it was good for the both of you!
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Tuesday 09 December
By Barbara
I feel much sexier at 50 than I ever did before. I'm much more confident and know what I want, and that's always sexy. There's a reason cougars are in vogue.
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Tuesday 09 December
By Mara
Great sex is about being with the right person at any age!!! A man can make a any woman feel sexy regardless of her age. If he is a "real" man, she will be ALL woman for him!!! A man has to go into the bedroom not thinking of "his" pleasure, but "hers"!!! Thats how real men have sex!!!
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Saturday 13 December
By ann marie
you are so RIGHT!!!!!
Saturday 13 December
By Oni
Amen to that !
Tuesday 09 December
By OLESTEAK
I have found there are more lesbians out there than I would have ever believed. I guess everybody is out of the closet now. So my question is; is the poll for straights or gays?
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Tuesday 09 December
By paul thompson
lmao ,ur poll is way off,my gal ,is 55 & she wants it 4 times a day,lmfao. only bad thing is i can't.........ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh.
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Saturday 13 December
By Frank
Use Cialis, not Viagra ! take 10Mg every 24 hrs. they also have a once a day pill I am 53 and do it for extended periods with incredible orgasms for both 3~6 times everyday, I have high blood pressure and this activity helps to LOWER it
Tuesday 09 December
By Chanota
That's a lie. I'm 34 right now and feel my worst! It's got to get better than this.
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