Babies covered in bling, toddlers in tiaras, pre-teens in ball gowns and fake eye lashes... it's all part of the spectacle you see at a child beauty pageant. (And don't get us started on pageant moms.)Baby beauty pageants came to wide public attention in 1996, after the murder of six-year-old pageant competitor JonBenet Ramsey and have developed a stigma. Critics accused the contests of sexualizing toddlers. But are they really bad for girls?
A recent documentary, "Painted Babies at 17" checks up on two teens who participated in child pageants (both girls were featured in an earlier documentary "Painted Babies"). Another young woman who says she's turned out perfectly well is Tiffany (left), a twenty-five year old former "painted baby" who happily agreed to speak with us about the competitions.
Famous Former Beauty Queens
NOW: Sarah Palin is the governor of Alaska and the polarizing Republican vice-presidential candidate.
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THEN: In 1984, Palin was Miss Wasilla. She went on to compete in the Miss Alaska Pageant, where she was voted "Miss Congeniality."
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NOW: Halle Berry is a high-grossing actress who is also the only African-American woman to have won the Academy Award for Best Actress.
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THEN: In 1986, Berry was making guys say Halle-lujah in her bathing suit and heels as Miss Ohio USA.
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NOW: 62-year-old Diane Sawyer is co-anchor of "Good Morning America" and one of the 100 most powerful women in the World, according to Forbes.
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THEN: In 1963, Sawyer won the "America's Junior Miss" pageant as Miss Kentucky.
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NOW: "Designing Women" star Delta Burke continues to act in film and television, as well as running her own plus-size clothing label.
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THEN: In 1974, Burke won the Miss Florida title. Her dramatic recital about soon-to-be-executed Queen Anne Boleyn, performed in a Southern accent, failed to win her the Miss America title.
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NOW: Eva Longoria is most famous for her role on "Desperate Housewives," and her marriage to NBA guard Tony Parker.
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THEN: Longoria wasn't too desperate to win the title of Miss Corpus Christi USA in 1998.
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"Sounded Like Fun"
Tiffany was seven when she entered her first pageant and thought her mother's idea of getting up on stage and smiling sounded like fun.
"We got there early and we see all these girls, decked out," she told us, "these porcelain doll looking chicks with crystal and diamonds all over them...I didn't even have a dress."
Click here to read about Tiffany's child pageant days and see a clip of the doc.
The one she found ("I like to call it the lamp shade dress," she says) was a short pink chiffon number with a hoop skirt, purchased at K-Mart. With a $20 lamp shade of a dress on and absolutely no experience, Tiffany took the stage at her first competition and walked away First Runner Up.
Beauty Boot Camp
After winning the title of Little Miss Italian and a handful of preliminary competitions, Tiffany was headed to nationals. That's when pageant boot camp began.
She and her mother spent six months preparing for per pageant, hiring a seamstress and a modeling coach who trained her twice a week. "She taught me the signature ProAm move that involved a jacket -- I put the jacket on my shoulders without my arms in the sleeves then I'd bump it, catch up, slide it over my arms. There were all kinds of things you could do with a jacket. It was serious."
And everyone involved took it very seriously.
Learning the "Correct" Personality
Tiffany's coach also taught her the correct way to strut and the official "pageant stance" (shoulders back, chest out, and the left leg crossed over the right topped with an ear-to ear-grin), but she also grilled her for the "interview process," where the girls' personalities are assessed.
The preteen spent weeks being quizzed until she became a small talk expert. "My mom would ask me random questions ... what's your favorite color, how many siblings do you have, who would you like to meet.... so I could carry on a conversation and practice giving more than one-word answers."
All the hard work paid off -- Tiffany often took the "personality" prize in subsequent pageants. It also both helped her and hurt her in school. "I had a lot of friends because I talked to everyone, but I got in trouble because I talked too much."
Fake Breasts and a Barbie Car
When asked if the competitions sexualize children, Tiffany demurred.
"It was more about being cutesy than sexy. My mom put a big flower in my hair and I'd just priss around. You'd just get up there and strut, shake your butt." But she acknowledged that the girls often used "jellies," false breasts they'd use during swimsuit competition, along with spray tanning, fake eye lashes, and fake hair.
She also admitted that for some girls, losing or messing up were grounds for punishment, but that that her mother was never anything but supportive, shaking off losses with "Next time! Now let's go get ice cream!"
All in all, Tiffany thinks that the effects of competition depend on the competitor and her family. "Pageants for me helped with interviewing for jobs, being secure and social, and just learning how to be a girl." She also liked the prizes -- crowns, trophies, and her favorite, a pink Barbie electric car she won at age 9.
When asked if she'd put a daughter of her own in pageants, she replied, "I think I would... but I'd wait until 7 or 8 and ask them if they want to do it."
Also on Lemondrop: Check out some of old Hollywood's best beauty secrets!
Old Hollywood Beauty Secrets
Marilyn Monroe The name isn't all that separated Norma Jean Baker from Marilyn Monroe. In addition to going from brown to blonde, the bombshell is said to have had her chin and nose surgically altered. Another beauty secret: ice baths splashed with Chanel No. 5.
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Vivien Leigh In "Vivien Leigh: A Biography," author Anne Edwards claims that Leigh used her favorite perfume, Joy, as a room spray, deodorant, and -- great balls of fire! -- breath freshener. Frankly my dear, that's just plain weird.
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Mae West The queen of double entendres relied on eight-inch platform heels to maximize her stage presence, and spent two hours a day massaging cold cream into her breasts to keep them nice and perky. She's also rumored to have undergone a daily enema.
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Joan Crawford Mommie Dearest once claimed her favorite beauty secret was "soap and water," but she was reportedly no stranger to the plastic surgeon's scalpel either. And if her film portrayal is to be believed, Crawford slept with surgical tape on her face and woke up with a round of bobbing for ice cubes.
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Bette Davis Her eyes may be the stuff of '80s one-hit wonders, but Bette Davis' undersized mouth needed a little help. To compensate, Davis would color outside of her lip lines with lipstick (just like Grandma!). She also relied on face-lifting tapes and cosmetic surgery later in life.
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Rita Hayworth With luscious auburn locks and killer dance moves, she made being a glamazon look easy. In truth, her natural dark brown tresses were dyed red at the command of Fox Studios, and she was made to undergo countless electrolysis treatments to raise her hairline -- call it the reverse Brendan Fraser.
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Greta Garbo The notoriously private Swede remains one of Hollywood's greatest beauties, but even she had her Ugly Betty moments. MGM head Louis B. Mayer ordered the starlet to lose weight, get her hairline straightened and have her teeth fixed before putting her in films.
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Norma Shearer This Oscar-winner spent a fortune trying to correct a weak eye that made her appear cross-eyed, which she sometimes blamed on bad lighting. She was fixated with her looks, maintaining a rigorous exercise and diet regimen and, in later years, powdering her face until it was ghostly white.
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Marlene Dietrich Rumor has it that this sleepy-eyed fraulein hid her frown lines by wearing a gold chain that hooked to her hairpins; one yank of the chain created an instant face lift of sorts. She reportedly also wore wigs (sprinkled with real gold dust, no less) to hide her thinning hair and often used face-lift tapes.
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Tuesday 09 December
By Pam
I think it is hard enough for kids these days without being told that their looks are all that matters, and that they can answer silly questions on command. Let's let our children be children, and leave the pageants to when they are 18!
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Tuesday 09 December
By Felicia
I think pageants are a good way for a girl to learn how to be a girl.. and the best one she can be. I always wish my mom would've put me in pageants...and as soon as my kid can walk she will be in pageants.. that is when i have a kid. i don't care if people think it takes away from their child hood- if you do it correctly it doesn't take away anything, but gives them a whole other world of opportunities.
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Tuesday 09 December
By Otto Ladensack
What a bunch of nonsense. You should teach your child she is beautiful without makeup, sequins, feathers and other crap. Losers!
Wednesday 10 December
By jas
So just because you wish your Mom had put you in a pageant you're going to just make your kid do it? Please, do your future child a favor and DON'T HAVE ONE if you're just going to us your child to do things you wish you had done yourself.
Wednesday 10 December
By nicoicon17
I am sure that women like Susan B. Anthony and Rosa Parks are turning over in their grave when a female like yourself says that "pageants are a way for a girl to learn how to be a girl". That's really promising to know that the feminist movement has done nothing to reach you.
Tuesday 16 December
By Jessica
I think you are absolutly right. I have a 6 year old daughter and she has been doing pageants since she was 6 months old and she loves it, and it does not matter to her weather she wins are not, she just loves the time to get all dressed up and wear some makeup. And it has made her not be a shy person. She is very fun and out going and I really think that is what has helped her. She has won several preliminay pageants and it competing in state for the second time, she holds several titles and she is so proud of herself. To me what makes it so bad is when they are forced to do it and dressed to sexy for their age. But it is something very fun and exciting to do with a little girl. To us that is our mommy and daughter time and we love it.
Tuesday 09 December
By TalRae
I absulutely love pageants. I started doing them at probably four or five. they help a lot with your personality and they help you not to be shy in front of people. The judges can get tough but as long as you try hard and put alot of effort into it then you will make it far.also pageants are not all about the looks there also about how good you show your personality and dont shy out.
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Thursday 06 May
By hahaha
dat suxx ahahaha
Tuesday 09 December
By nice9guy
Dont we like ourself? Isent there better things than this to show?
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Tuesday 09 December
By Christa
I was a former pageant chick. I didn't start them until I was 11, and I competed because I came from a small town where there were no opportunities to sing, and I loved to sing.
For me, in the grand scheme of things, it was a great experience, and I learned a great deal. I also learned a lot about human nature, and experienced ups and downs with people.
I also learned how to interview EXTREMELY well, and I utilized the skills that I learned in interviewing for pageants in job interviews for myself and in training other friends for job interviews.
As well, I became a lead singer for several successful touring bands, and I met and worked with a number of famous entertainers. Some of these events were through my pageant afiiliations, and others were after this time period; however, my experience in pageants I believe gave me the self-confidence to pursue my goals.
I think that Pageants can be BAD when someone MAKES them bad . . . just like anything else in the world. I do take some issue with the Pageants for the very little kids; however, if I had known about Pageants when I was that age & I knew I could get up to sing, I probably would have done it!
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Wednesday 10 December
By Katie
I was never in one of these things, and I have excellent interviewing skill! There are other things that can help develop this! Did you really like beeing looked at like you were some sort of object?
Tuesday 09 December
By liz
I would like her to tell me what exactly how pageants taught her to be a girl. Should we really be teaching young girls that to be a real lady you have to parade around like a sexual object? Little girls need to learn that you don't need a pound of make up on your face and a fake, orange tan to be beautiful.
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Tuesday 16 December
By Jessica
And you are right but all pageants are not like that. I have a 6 year old daughter that competes all the time and we wear sunday are flower girl dresses and very i very light makeup. And she holds several titles and loves every minute of it. But this is what she likes it is not a dream of mine and never has been, and when she say's she don't want to do it anymore she won't. And belive me she is girly without having the pageants and she knows she is pretty. But she nothing like a sex symbol.
Tuesday 09 December
By Lillie
This Halloween my daughter and her friend made up the girls. The twins were Disney Minnie princesses- one current Minnie in a hand painted polkadot dress and the other was a Medieval Minnie with a romance painting on the bodice. The friend was Dorothy. I made all the costumes, with the help of mom on the buttons. The hair and make-up were done by the friend who is trained in this stuff. They decided to go whole hog and did make up and fake eyelashes. The photos were scary. These children are beautiful on their own, they don't need the model make-up. Some would say the photos were stunning. Me, I am just a grandma who thinks kids should be kids and make-up should be child-like -not runway perfect! The kids loved it. Grandma had reservations!
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Tuesday 09 December
By Brit
I was never put into pageants as a young girl and I had plenty of friends who were put into them. I think that my mother taught me to be a confident young woman.I learned just as much about interviewing and being confident as my friends in pageants without having to be fake. My mother just encouraged me to be myself and work hard and I have never been more successful. Being a girl is about being strong not flaunting. That is why many men still think women shouldn't be in positions that men are, because women try to flaunt to much and be fake instead of working hard and being confident.
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Tuesday 09 December
By Jen Newman
I remember watching those documentaries about "Painted Babies," and what these girls say now is quite the contrary to what they said back then. There were many scene when these girls were crying, upset, tired, didn't want their hair done, wanted to play, etc. These were not just moments, since they appeared to sow how these "babies" really felt. The mothers who are featured no were almost scary in their pursuit of winning. That mother and grandmother were ridiculous. Some mothers actually threatened their daughters with punishment is they didn't do what was expected of them.
So, I don't buy this "Painted Babies at 17" article at all. I am surprised these girls turned out so normal. Notice there are no interviews with them and their mothers....
Jen Newman
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Tuesday 09 December
By Tori
I was a beauty queen as a child... I remember loving it. My mom was really supportive, not like the "You did badly now you're grounded" pageant moms.
The only thing I remember hating was when my mom put mascara on me. I didn't like having my eye held open because I was too wiggly to hold it open myself.
Then I got older and figured out how to be nervous.
I went to nationals before that, and it was so much fun!
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Tuesday 09 December
By Laurie
Reason #5675 that Southerners should be exiled to a desert island.
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Thursday 11 December
By Kayla
omg u suck!! i am a southener and i am as good or BETTER than you, you idiot!!!!
Tuesday 09 December
By Sig
Teaching little girls how to get ahead by looking attractive is part of growing up. It is part of life for beautiful girls who will grow up and absolutely use their looks to get ahead. What you should be a lot more concerned about is the brainwashing of children to be blindly patriotic so that they grow up and join the military to die, or kill others in the name of oil profits. Where is your outrage for the American school system that fills their head with lies? Where is your disgust for the television commercials that glamorize joining the military? THAT can get your child killed, not some silly beauty pageant.
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