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Even if you work hard to plan the perfect party, at some point you still may have to deal with an annoying guest. Fortunately, we've got solutions -- so when you encounter one of the situations below (whether you're the hostess or a fellow guest) you know exactly how to get the party back on track.

PARTY PROBLEM: Flirty Friend "Last Christmas, my friend got engaged to this really seedy guy. I invited them both to my annual party. As my pal socialized with other people, her fiancé kept making weird comments and telling me how great I looked. At one point, I went into the bathroom and when I came out, he was standing at the door and cornered me. He went on about how hot I looked and then tried to kiss me." --Ann, 24

If you're the hostess: Be firm and let him know to stay away from you, but don't go running to your friend. Save that conversation for when you can be alone in a quiet place.
If you're a guest: If you notice someone being grossly hit on -- no matter who is doing it -- step in and save the day. Say there's an emergency that needs tending to, and pull her away.

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PARTY PROBLEM: Karaoke Hog "One of my college friends thinks he's a really good singer. The only problem? He's terrible. He showed up at my last Christmas party with his guitar. I wasn't thrilled, but he was so excited I told him he could play a song. He played the entire time, screaming his way through tunes. I told him that I really wanted to listen to this new song on my iPod. He nodded, and I thought it was over. But I was wrong; I pushed play, and then he started playing along with the song." --Gloria, 28

If you're the hostess: Pull the rock star aside and tell him there's someone you're dying for him to meet. Then introduce him to the most charming or monopolizing friend you have to keep him occupied.
If you're a guest: Grin and bear it. Take comfort in the fact that everyone else is suffering too.


PARTY PROBLEM: Etiquetteless Guest "My boyfriend rented a private room at a restaurant to throw an intimate dinner so all of his friends could exchange gifts. It was very fancy. He had invited his stepsister as a courtesy, even though neither of us likes her. As the night went on, she started snapping her fingers at the waiters and screaming for more wine. It was awful. The manager even pulled my boyfriend aside to ask him to control her." --Hallie, 27

Scroll down for more problem solutions, or get into the holiday spirit by clicking through this gallery of insanely decorated houses.

Crazy Christmas Houses

    There is no possible way Santa is going to miss these guys.

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    This family went with the post-modern cubic representation of Frosty the Snow Man.

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    This house has exxxtreme Chrismas written all over it.

    Flickr/GrantMcDonald

    A faux igloo, fake polar bear, and cardboard two-dimensional huskies. We're so there.

    Flickr/ClicknMiken

    This gingerbread house makes us hungry.

    Flickr/SqueakyMarmot

    This family wasn't content with just decorating the house so they decided to go for the lawn, too.

    Flickr/Bright_Star

    The complete lack of snow didn't stop this family from immersing themselves in the Christmas spirit. Check out the Christmas-lit basketball hoop in the far right background.

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    These guys didn't stop with lights. Oh no, they went on to include a holiday-themed projection in their Christmas house madness.

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    So many reindeer on the roof, so little time.

    Flickr/SqueakyMarmot

    This house is dancing with the stars.

    Flickr/Kecko


If you're the hostess: Ask a mutual friend to try and help the rudester to chill out, but don't get directly involved -- after all, this person may just have a different set of manners than you do. If she's really out of control, ask a manager or large pal to play bad-cop and "86" her.
If you're a guest: You may want to make snide jokes to the others, but you run the risk of the obnoxious person hearing you and causing a commotion. So, keep things light and ignore the party-pooper.


PARTY PROBLEM: The Harassing Guest "Last year, my cousin stopped by my party and brought along his boss from work -- a single guy in his 60s. The entire time, the old guy lewdly hit on all my female friends and monopolized every conversation by bragging about himself. People were so irritated by him that they ended up leaving early." --Erina, 31

What to do if you're the hostess: Pull the guest aside who brought the pest. Explain to them that he or she is ruining the vibe, and ask if they can discreetly get the person to leave.
If you're a guest: Do your best to put up with the guest, or even suck it up and distract him for a while to give your host a break. If you start complaining, you'll just stress the host out more.


PARTY PROBLEM: Hard Partier "My college roommate called last-minute to ask if she could bring this guy 'Steve' [to my party]. Steve got increasingly drunk and started getting really mean. At one point, he was dancing to a song, and I changed the track. He flew off the handle and started screaming at me. My guests were shocked and totally freaked out." --Leslie, 25

If you're the hostess: If you notice someone getting too boozy, talk to them slowly and quietly and see if you can engage them in a one-on-one, calm conversation -- most people will mimic the style of the person talking to them. If you lose it, you may escalate the situation (with an unpredictable drunk, no less) and your guests will feel uncomfortable.
If you're a guest: When someone's wigging out, it's best not to step in -- you may make things worse. Instead, the host will appreciate your thoughtfulness if you have a drink waiting for her when the confrontation is over.

Tell us! Who's the worst holiday party guest you've ever seen in action?