Americans sure are interested in the lives of sex workers. They tune in to shows like Showtime's "Secret Diary of a Call Girl" and "Cathouse: The Series," which aired on HBO last year. And when New York governor Eliot Spitzer got caught with his pants down, he got booted from his job (though not prosecuted) while his steady call girl got an offer for a reality show.
But even though we're forever fascinated by the world's oldest profession, it seems Americans still aren't sure they want prostitution legalized or legitimized.
Tales from the Front Lines
And those on the front lines--the women who work in the world's oldest profession--tell widely varying stories. A recent CNN article chronicled the lives of Natalie McLennan (pictured) and "Celeste," two women who spent more than a dozen years each working as prostitutes. McLennan says that she at times enjoyed working as a call girl -- and loved that she could make up to $2,000 in an hour -- but admits she is glad to be done with that part of her life. Her memoir about her years in the business, "The Price," is due out this month. (Read a detailed interview with her on Asylum.)
Celeste, on the other hand, worked the streets, and made significantly less money -- around $300 for a half-hour session. She quit the business this past May after a violent session with a client. "I was always afraid, every single time," she admits. "I did this for 15 years and I never stopped being afraid. The job isn't like in the movies."
Read more about life on the streets after the gallery.
Recent Headlines About Prostitution
**FILE** In this March 12, 2008 file photo, former New York Gov. Eliot Spitzer announces his resignation at his office in New York. Federal prosecutors said Thursday, Nov. 6, 2008 that they will not bring criminal charges against Spitzer for his role in a prostitution scandal that ended his tenure as governor. Manhattan U.S. Attorney Michael Garcia said that after a thorough investigation, his office found no evidence that Spitzer or his office misused public or campaign funds for prostitution. (AP Photo/Stephen Chernin)
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Connecticut state Attorney General Richard Blumenthal, right, makes a point as Craigslist CEO Jim Buckmaster looks on at a news conference in Blumenthal's office in Hartford, Conn., Thursday, Nov. 6, 2008. Blumenthal announced that Connecticut and 39 other states have reached an agreement with Craigslist under which the online classified ad web site will act to crack down on ads for prostitution on its Web sites. (AP Photo/Bob Child)
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NEW YORK - MARCH 10: (FILE PHOTO) New York Governor Eliot Spitzer pauses before speaking to the media while delivering an apology to his family and the public following reported links to a prostitution ring March 10, 2008 in New York City. After federal prosecutors found no proof of any misuse of public or campaign funds in his part in a prostitution ring, they announced that they decided to not to criminally charge Spitzer on November 6, 2008 in New York City. (Photo by Mario Tama/Getty Images)
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Jim Buckmaster, CEO of Craigslist, watches as Connecticut Attorney General Richard Blumenthal speaks at a news conference in Blumenthal's office in Hartford, Conn., Thursday, Nov. 6, 2008. (AP Photo/Bob Child)
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As Connecticut Attorney General Richard Blumenthal looks on, right, Craigslist CEO Jim Buckmaster answers questions at a news conference in Blumenthal's office in Hartford, Conn., Thursday, Nov. 6, 2008. Under the watchful eye of law enforcement in 40 states, Craigslist pledged Thursday to crack down on ads for prostitution on its Web sites. (AP Photo/Bob Child)
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A woman who identified herself as Layla (2nd R), a 24-year-old independent sex worker who said she has an internet-based clientele, listens as Proposition K advocate Margaret Prescod participates in a town hall meeting in San Francisco, California October 30, 2008. The local ballot measure, if passed on November 4, would decriminalize prostitution in San Francisco. REUTERS/Robert Galbraith (UNITED STATES)
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People walk through an intersection along Broadway Street in the North Beach neighborhood in San Francisco, California October 30, 2008. Local ballot measure Proposition K, if passed on November 4, would decriminalize prostitution in San Francisco. REUTERS/Robert Galbraith (UNITED STATES)
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A woman who identified herself as Layla (L), a 24-year-old independent sex worker who said she has an internet-based clientele, listens during a town hall meeting in support of Proposition K in San Francisco, California October 30, 2008. The local ballot measure, if passed on November 4, would decriminalize prostitution in San Francisco. REUTERS/Robert Galbraith (UNITED STATES)
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Proposition K advocate Margaret Prescod walks the room prior to a town hall meeting in San Francisco, California October 30, 2008. The local ballot measure, if passed on November 4, would decriminalize prostitution in San Francisco. REUTERS/Robert Galbraith (UNITED STATES)
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A woman who identified herself as Layla (L), a 24-year-old independent sex worker who said she has an internet-based clientele, listens as Proposition K advocate Margaret Prescod speaks at a town hall meeting in San Francisco, California October 30, 2008. The local ballot measure, if passed on November 4, would decriminalize prostitution in San Francisco. REUTERS/Robert Galbraith (UNITED STATES)
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Curious -- But Not Comfortable
The American public, of late, seems to have reinforced its uncomfortability with the sex trade. Last week, California voters shot down Proposition K, which would have effectively decriminalized prostitution in San Francisco. And last week, Craigslist announced it was cracking down on "erotic services" ads by requiring a small fee and credit card verification for such postings.
Some researchers think these moves are right on target and that it's smart to continue viewing sex work as an unsavory lifestyle. Prostitutes often experience physical, sexual and emotional abuse, which can have lasting negative effects -- and that's if they get out alive. There's also a rising concern about American women, particularly underage ones, being trafficked against their will. (Check out MSNBC's riveting piece on "Sex Slaves in the Suburbs" for details.)
Click here to read more -- including two women's first-hand accounts of life on the job.
The Flip Side
Others who study the industry say bad things rarely happen in lawful brothels or among high-end call girls. They see that as a sign that legitimizing the profession could help -- workers might feel safer reporting offenses without fear of prosecution. And providing a legitimate service is a better option for women who have children to support and might otherwise have to work in low-paying positions, legalization supporters claim. Hear what two ex-prostitutes have to say and explore both sides of the debate.
Or, you could just take this whip-cracking statement from the Sex Work Support Center as proof that prostitutes aren't lying down about what they do.
"Most prostitutes aren't victims, but choose to provide a much-needed, wholesome service. Many feminists and religious groups are trying to twist sex worker debates, especially internationally, for their own agendas based on emotional rants, not facts."
Tell us: Should prostitution be legalized? Share your thoughts in the comments.

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Wednesday 12 November
By Ericka
Yes, it should be legalized. I feel then workers should be required to keep medical tests up to date to show they are clean of any diseases and also clients would have to show papers as well. Also, the person receiving the service would be required by law to notify their spouse anytime a service was used. Maybe by the bill getting sent to the wife or husband.
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Friday 14 November
By Chris M
Not speaking morally legalizing prostituion is healthwise not a good idea. Although many people advocate that testing is a solution to the health risk they fail to realize two very important issues: Cost and timing. If a prositute has health insurance that is good all STD checks are covered but if no insurance who will foot the bill.
The critical part of disease is testing which requres a time frame to be acurate. Yes you can have an AIDS rapid but it really takes 3 months to see if the virus is present. Also the rise of HPV brings up a striking issue as there are NO tests available on the market for men or women.
Friday 14 November
By HANK
a whore is a whore. they can be checked until hell freezes over----but what about the infected guy or two that went just before your "romance" ???? Wow, that would be fun to tell your wife or mother !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Friday 14 November
By Ericka
Interesting concept however, who is going to inform their spouse of infedelity with a prostitute...? I can agree with the testing to ensure safety. However, most individuals who choose to partake in such affairs enjoy the secrecy of the moment... What state are you from..?
Friday 14 November
By MATT
you're crazy as hell,you know that?but i agree with you.it ALL cuums down to coppin-a-nut!!!
Saturday 15 November
By Tracy Garrett
I don't understand why the debate over prostitution still exists. Prostitution is an age-old profession that most often provides pleasure or realization of a fantasy, whatever it may be. As with any profession, when used for abuse or scamming, it can be ugly. Look at the US government.
Sex is good for the health, so think of it as a health care profession. By legalizing it, the government can tax the service, and help ensure that people follow good safety guidelines while still having fun.
Why is it only women that are targeted in these debates? There are plenty of male prostitues. But it's the women that get attacked over "moral purity" by earning an income with their personal assets and skills.
A female that goes to bars everynight, gets drunk and screws anything that walks their way is called a slut, a whore, a skank and they are gaining nothing but a bad reputation. News flash, females enjoy sex as much as men. So why not profit?
A man that does it, is not called any of those nasty names.
Basically, I believe that prostitution should be legalized. It's common knowledge that many folks partake and they should not be legally penalized or ridiculed for getting a little jiggy just because their "secret parts" are involved. That's for the individuals to decide.
I believe that legalizing prostitution would take a lot of the abuse of girls and boys, women and men out of the equation and provide both sides with better safety regarding std's, HIV, etc..
Shoot, people pass stuff along to their spouses, boyfriends, girlfriends, etc. by having affairs or one-night stands with people they know nothing about.
It might also cut down on the "pimps", sex for drugs, and forceful prostitution. Licensing.
Now, I absolutely believe that no one, including spouses, boyfriends, girlfriends, etc., need to be told unless it becomes an issue between them. Good relationships are not always just about sex. Love is not always about sex-so many hold onto that moral misconception. Some people are just built differently when it comes to those desires. Let it be.
If this is about "cheating", I would much rather have my husband engage in sex with a prostitute who was safe and clean, than have an affair where he becomes emotionally involved with a person and may not be pro-active about their health. To me, that is worse cheating than some horniness.
I'm actually the one that feels frisky but we have quite a bit of age difference and medication is taking it's toll on him.
I wish this issue could have some of the Taboo taken off it although, that's part of the fun.
Legalize it. And Pot.
Both better for us than alcohol, politicians and cops.
Saturday 15 November
By Neeraj
Ericka, women get to have as much sex as they want before they finally marry. But an average man is always dating down or struggling to get laid so when he gets an opportunity, he needs to take it, without having to tell his wife. You probably slept with more partners than your husband, why should he have to tell you if he gets lucky? Besides, I would beat the crap of any legalized company that tells my secrets to anybody. Men run the planet because whenever a law goes against our rights, we have killed the laws and the lawmakers. History is proof.
Saturday 15 November
By mac
your an idiot
Saturday 15 November
By xProhibitionx
You have got to be kidding me. Not only is this profession the downfall of culture and country but it represents the disgustingness of man and womankind. I am not religious at all, in fact I am an atheist, so don't try the whole religious nut argument. Simple as this, yes men and women have sexual urges, but should we always act on them? Just because drugs make me feel "good" should I take them? These, of course, are rhetorical questions with the answer of "NO". It is ridiculous that we have come to a point in our society where people show so little self-control and discipline. This trade plays off of the inability of man and woman to act as RESPONSIBLE sexual beings. Sex is something that should not be toyed around with, and the argument that "people are going to do it anyway" just doesn't cut it. Just because people are going to do it anyway doesn't mean that we should legalize a profession that makes money off the enslavement and persecution of women, young girls and boys and possibly spreads STD's in an already rising climate of such. Just because women and men get raped doesn't men that we should legalize rape because it will be done anyway. Just because stupid people drink and drive and use drugs and drive and take the lives of everyone on the streets that night into their own irresponsible hands doesn't mean we should legalize it anyway. Prostitution is a disgusting profession that plays on the evil and filthy side of man and womankind. These women and men can not be happy that they have given themselves to so many partners, how is it ever special for them again? If we continue to treat sex as a recreational activity; STD's will continue to plague us, marriages will continue to fail, people will continue to have no respect for the opposite sex, MTV and other vile programming will continue to show images of women as nothing but tools of sex and desire (and men), and we will continue to suffer as a society. Open your eyes people, not everything you have an impulse to do is something you should do. ABSOLUTELY NOT ON LEGALIZATION OF PROSTITUTION AND THE FILTH OF THE SEX INDUSTRY. SLAVERY STILL EXISTS, AND IT VERY MUCH STILL EXISTS IN THIS INDUSTRY, THINK OF YOU DAUGHTER OR SON.
Saturday 15 November
By xProhibitionx
You have got to be kidding me. Not only is this profession the downfall of culture and country but it represents the disgustingness of man and womankind. I am not religious at all, in fact I am an atheist, so don't try the whole religious nut argument. Simple as this, yes men and women have sexual urges, but should we always act on them? Just because drugs make me feel "good" should I take them? These, of course, are rhetorical questions with the answer of "NO". It is ridiculous that we have come to a point in our society where people show so little self-control and discipline. This trade plays off of the inability of man and woman to act as RESPONSIBLE sexual beings. Sex is something that should not be toyed around with, and the argument that "people are going to do it anyway" just doesn't cut it. Just because people are going to do it anyway doesn't mean that we should legalize a profession that makes money off the enslavement and persecution of women, young girls and boys and possibly spreads STD's in an already rising climate of such. Just because women and men get raped doesn't men that we should legalize rape because it will be done anyway. Just because stupid people drink and drive and use drugs and drive and take the lives of everyone on the streets that night into their own irresponsible hands doesn't mean we should legalize it anyway. Prostitution is a disgusting profession that plays on the evil and filthy side of man and womankind. These women and men can not be happy that they have given themselves to so many partners, how is it ever special for them again? If we continue to treat sex as a recreational activity; STD's will continue to plague us, marriages will continue to fail, people will continue to have no respect for the opposite sex, MTV and other vile programming will continue to show images of women as nothing but tools of sex and desire (and men), and we will continue to suffer as a society. Open your eyes people, not everything you have an impulse to do is something you should do. ABSOLUTELY NOT ON LEGALIZATION OF PROSTITUTION AND THE FILTH OF THE SEX INDUSTRY. SLAVERY STILL EXISTS, AND IT VERY MUCH STILL EXISTS IN THIS INDUSTRY, THINK OF YOU DAUGHTER OR SON.
Saturday 15 November
By jon
YES, THAT'S RIGHT, LET'S CREATE A WHOLE NEW GOVERNMENT PROGRAM TO OVER SEE THE PROSTITUTION INDUSTRY IN THE U.S. AND SPEND BILLIONS OF MORE DOLLARS CHASING DOWN PROSTITUES TO MAKE SURE THE HAVE THEIR SHOT RECORDS UP-TO-DATE AND THEY ARE FREE OF DISEASE. SHOULD WE MAKE A CZAR TO OVER SEE THIS NEW GOVERNMNET DEPT ? MAYBE BILL CLINTON IS AVAILABLE.... HOW MUCH SHOULD WE PAY HIM ??? GREAT USE OF TAXPAYER MONEY THERE !!
Friday 14 November
By Cstandeford
It should be treated as any other business. Making it illegal has not stopped it from happening.
It kinda gets me...It is illegal for a woman to take money for sex but it is legal for a woman to kill an unborn child.
I don't think our country has any real concept of morals anymore. So why hold on to saying it is wrong to sell ones body if that is what one wants to do?
I think it much more immoral to have an abortion than it is to be a prostitute.
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Saturday 15 November
By Heather
You make me ill. Let's read what you wrote about prostitution, only pretend you said it about abortion... "Making it illegal has not stopped it from happening." Well, thankfully, abortion has been legal all my life, and I have been smart enough, and lucky enough, to have always had my birth control work, and I have never needed their services. But do you have ANY idea what it was like when it was illegal? WOMEN STILL HAD ABORTIONS, ONLY THEY HAD NO CHOICE BUT TO GO STRAIGHTEN OUT A COAT HANGER OR SEEM SOME BACK ALLEY DOCTORS WITH LIMITED KNOWLEDGE AND FILTHY EQUIPEMENT. Let me get raped and the result be pregnancy and you will never see someone make an appointment so fast. All you against abortion, show me your adopted children. Know what kinda child a drug-addicted prostitute gives birth to? Think you are strong enough to care for a child with special needs? Do you have enough money to do that or just enough money to pay for sex?
Friday 14 November
By Nice Guy
If (in my opinion by my own studying) if it were'n't a sin,the legalization of prostitution and even marywanna sure would make life more pleasant for men who are cursed with the nice guy syndrome seeing that they're ridiculed then ignored by the great and wondrous woman who much moreso is attracted to the pathetic losers who cant care about them and treat them like dam ned stray cats. Oh well,what the hell.
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Friday 14 November
By Earl
Prostitution is just another social/human service. By comparison I've experienced better sexual relations from my wife, of 37 years, and the numerous one-night stands (for free).
Maybe I was with inexperienced hookers but they were not that exciting. I've had better ejeculations/orgasms through my own imagination and efforts.
If a woman can find/establish a market for her sex trade then God bless her entrepreneurial efforts.
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Friday 14 November
By TP
It is a free country. Free to do what they tell you too and then pay taxes out the ... for it.
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Saturday 15 November
By fajac5
People are so funny. Yes it is a free country. If you do not like it here why not move to another country that you feel gives you more rights then USA. Americans are so not proud anymore. Maybe that is the problem.
IF YOU DO NOT LIKE IT HERE PLEASE MOVE!!
Friday 14 November
By borodinrodin
An aside on this topic is proving the stupidity of "Intelligent Design" argument. The existence of prostitution throughout known history proves the disconnect in any loving creator arguments as the obvious developmentally non compatible sexual peaks in opposite genders is so ridiculous as to be humorous. Non compatible hardwiring!
Now as to the psychology of prostitution and efficacy of risk reward...well if a society accepts it, it is incumbent on it to provide a secure safe method in which the service can be 'provided'. Personally I don't want any women 'pretending/ acting' I'd rather earn the reward myself rather than buying it. Note: many cities that currently legalize it are seeking to overturn it as it has served to worsen conditions. See "How Not To Empower Women" Internatl News
The future of prostitution is in robotics or cloning. Imagine if a woman could clone herself and allow the clone to do the 'work' and could keep the earnings. Wonder how many women would consent to their likeness providing a recurring income.
The johns who want to deman and degrade through sex acts are generally sickos with power trip complexes --they likely wouldn't get a thrill from a robot. They should be publicized throughout the community so all can see their true character. The types who are somehow socially inept likely just need their fix and would probably be consumers of robots, clones.
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Friday 14 November
By Dan the Mailman
what the crap are you talking about? where do people come up with this nonsense? the fact that men (or women, for that matter!) pay thousands or even hundreds of dollars for sex (as if it were nothing more than a hair cut) is not an argument against intelligent design - it is proof that "a fool and his money are soon parted" - give me a break!
Friday 14 November
By Dan the Mailman
what the crap are you talking about? where do people come up with this nonsense? the fact that men (or women, for that matter!) pay thousands or even hundreds of dollars for sex (as if it were nothing more than a hair cut) is not an argument against intelligent design - it is proof that "a fool and his money are soon parted" - give me a break!